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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Under what circumstances would you get back with an ex? |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: Yesterday, 3:05 pm
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Replies: 24
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| Why do you want to be in a relationship and what do you expect to get out of it? I think that if being in this kind of relationship makes you happy, then you might as well give it a try. Also, it may help to know what does your ex expect to get from this relationship? Does he have needs that can be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Struggling with dating |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2024, 9:47 pm
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Replies: 7
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duck12 wrote: Update: I did meet a woman on hinge and she’s about 40 minutes away, so I scheduled a date with her for Wednesday. I will see what happens with that.
That's great news! Good luck! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Under what circumstances would you get back with an ex? |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2024, 9:46 pm
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| My gut feeling says you shouldn't get back together with this person. Unless you have concrete evidence to support this person's claims that they have changed. A-holes are very good at holding up a facade just long enough for you to buy back into the relationship, then your trapped. Trust me, I've ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Struggling with dating |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2024, 12:37 am
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| I'm so sorry to hear that, Duck. The state by state system for services is so stupid. My brother lost his and never got them back when we were children and had to move states for my dad's job. It's a very valid fear that you'll never be able to regain them. I wish I had a solution for you there, but... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Under what circumstances would you get back with an ex? |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2024, 12:01 am
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Replies: 24
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| I think what matters in your (OPs) case is how you feel about being in a relationship. I have seen quite a few people on WP say that being in a relationship isn't really important to them. If that describes you, then I suppose you should give it a miss, because the same sort of problems are likely ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Under what circumstances would you get back with an ex? |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2024, 5:12 pm
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Replies: 24
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| Even when they have done things in the past that hurt you? Is forgiving someone worth the possible heartbreak of it happening all over again? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Under what circumstances would you get back with an ex? |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2024, 4:35 pm
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| In order to help someone on WP I recently reached out to an ex because it was his line of work and he knew things I didn't and I wanted to help them. Anyway, that opened a communication channel and he's since apologized and told me that breaking up with me was the biggest mistake of his life, and th... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm probably doing something wrong |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2024, 2:17 pm
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Replies: 5
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| I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. Bee gave you some great advice. I don't know if it'll make you feel better, because based on your posts you seem to put a lot of stock in it, but IQ is only one measure of intelligence. It really just measures how good you are at solving puzzles. It's not a grea... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Feeling stuck |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2024, 1:52 pm
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| I am so sorry you're feeling this way. I hope it gets better :heart: Have you considered that you might be dealing with a case of autistic burnout? It can completely devastate your life, and makes you feel like you're running in circles on empty. A lot of us here have experienced it, me included, an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mixed messages |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2024, 9:01 am
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Replies: 65
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| thank you Rhapsody, I think this is all I wanted you to clarify. I'm so glad my clarification made you feel better. Now it's your turn. Discussing the safety issues women face and our vulnerabilities is not an attack on men. But you know what is an attack on the women here? Suggesting that we are l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mixed messages |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2024, 11:57 pm
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Replies: 65
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| I'm honestly baffled that explaining how a safety tactic I've used in the past to explain a possible source of the mixed message snowballed into women think all men are serial killers but it's a little dramatic. Maybe we could tone it down? I realize it's an uncomfortable topic, women talking about ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My brother attracted to his mates girlfriend |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2024, 9:39 am
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Replies: 11
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Jamesy wrote: Do you think the age gap between them is to much?
I think the age gap is irrelevant in this situation. She's dating his friend and therefore will never be an option. So their age difference doesn't matter. She's not an option. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mixed messages |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2024, 7:17 am
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| My 19 year old daughter travels on her own for several years and has never once been harrassed. Perhaps avoid going out late and hanging around places where men get drunk, I would give the same advice for men or women. I'm glad your daughter has been safe, but would you imply it was her fault too i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Mixed messages |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2024, 2:45 am
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| So a few crazy, unhinged, bad apples give the rest of the male species a bad name. I have never in my life met or heard of any male doing this in my social circles so I am not really sure how frequent this is? Dare I say it....stop generalising about men I wasn't "generalizing about men" ... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: ABD Ph.D Candidate who is strongly considering dropping out |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2024, 8:32 pm
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Replies: 10
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That's fantastic! I hope things work out for you!
Good luck on the interviews! Since I'm confident you did well on the test~ |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why people think you're not "complete" without a partner? |
| Rhapsody |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2024, 8:23 pm
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Replies: 18
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| I don't have any solutions, but I'm dealing with the exact same thing. So I can commiserate :heart: Last year I was the same age my mother was when she was pregnant with me. So she spent the whole year harping about how I should be married and pregnant by now. This year it's about how she was marrie... |
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