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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: my husband has left me

 Post subject: Re: my husband has left me
Posted: Yesterday, 5:53 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 115


So sorry to hear that. I thought he loved you?

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Rants

 Post subject: Re: Rants
Posted: Yesterday, 5:33 pm 

Replies: 8,135
Views: 522,657


There's a supermarket trolley in our living-room. I am furious. He went out to get some more alcohol then several hours later I got up for a glass of water and found he had brought a trolley all the way home and parked it INSIDE our living-room! What the f**k?? And he was confused as f**k (so drunk)...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: What's your favourite year and why?

Posted: 23 Sep 2022, 10:40 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 85


Probably 1999-2000 because I seemed the happiest I ever was - I wasn't lonely like I was in my teens, and I was normal at school and had caught up with my peers socially and emotionally (before I fell back again), and things were going well in my life and everybody in my family were well and happy. ...

 Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports   Topic: Why do some people NOT have bad breath?

Posted: 23 Sep 2022, 4:09 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 96


If he smokes, it may be covering up the odor. If you live with a smoker long enough you get "nose-blind" to the smell. The alcohol to will act as mouthwash, which also cut down on bacteria and odor. But I once knew someone who drank and smoked and he had foul breath. My boyfriend doesn't ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: The autism social rule book.

Posted: 23 Sep 2022, 3:53 pm 

Replies: 801
Views: 147,860


If a friend badmouths someone else to you, they are actually trusting that you won't go and tell that person what your friend said about them.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: What is wrong with me today ?

Posted: 23 Sep 2022, 2:54 pm 

Replies: 3
Views: 60


I don't think it's very hygienic to change a nappy in the kitchen, especially when people are eating.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Do you get invited to social events

Posted: 23 Sep 2022, 11:27 am 

Replies: 78
Views: 2,043


I think what Fireblossom meant was turning up to a party unkempt, not just walking down the street. I don't like dressing up, due to sensory issues (most women's formal clothes seem to have itchy tags that are hard to remove, or they stick out or show, which I don't like). So this seems to be the ma...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I feel like a failure of an adult

Posted: 23 Sep 2022, 9:20 am 

Replies: 41
Views: 411


I never said that smoking weed necessarily makes one a failure. There are many successful people who smoke a lot of weed. I was speaking of the combination of weed, just hanging out with no job as an adult, and getting into people's faces in public----that would make one a "failure." Smok...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: "Stephen Visits the Shoe Shop"

Posted: 23 Sep 2022, 7:43 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 103


When I was an adolescent and misbehaved in public my mum would often say under her breath "when we get home I'm going to beat you!" But she never did. It was just a way to get me to stop, which it usually did. I suppose it depends on the frequency. If a parent always said that even when th...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Telling people I'm autistic when doing voluntary work

Posted: 23 Sep 2022, 7:35 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 293


It's up to you. Some people are like "no, don't tell them!" but I don't think it really makes a lot of difference whether you do or not, especially in a volunteering job. A lot of ND people do volunteering so they might be used to ND people. The reason I don't tell people about my ASD is b...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Do you get invited to social events

Posted: 23 Sep 2022, 6:08 am 

Replies: 78
Views: 2,043


And you have a partner, too. And I don't. See how even when its you, who says to have worse luck than other aspies, is still doing better than me. So at least you have a friend, and I don't I don't have many friends. This guy is a work colleague and knows both me and my boyfriend. Yes, I know, I ha...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I feel like a failure of an adult

Posted: 22 Sep 2022, 8:07 pm 

Replies: 41
Views: 411


I did say that it can depend on one's life circumstances, but I'm talking about perfectly able people who choose to pick the life of drugs and drink and decline any help they might have a chance for to better themselves. There's loads of them around my city. Some of them are known to mug people.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Do you get invited to social events

Posted: 22 Sep 2022, 8:03 pm 

Replies: 78
Views: 2,043


One interesting thing I've noticed: Quite a few of us on here get invited to social events; we simply don't want to go. It seems to me that most of the time those of us who want to socialise don't get invited, and those of us who don't want to socialise get invited. I'm one who wants to socialise b...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Pet Peeves

 Post subject: Re: Pet Peeves
Posted: 22 Sep 2022, 7:09 pm 

Replies: 606
Views: 11,284


When Aspies say you "lack empathy" just for being right-wing on some views. But if you were NT they probably wouldn't use the annoying E-word. When Aspies describe politeness, kindness, understanding, etc, as compassion and not empathy but if you lack kindness, politeness or understanding ...

 Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports   Topic: Why do some people NOT have bad breath?

Posted: 22 Sep 2022, 7:01 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 96


Some people with bad oral health I mean. My boyfriend has bad oral health, he hardly ever cleans his teeth and his smokes and drinks a lot of coke and beer, and his teeth are all rotting. But he doesn't have any bad odour on his breath, unless he's eaten something spicy (but that's different). How c...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I feel like a failure of an adult

Posted: 22 Sep 2022, 4:42 pm 

Replies: 41
Views: 411


You may feel like a failure but you're actually not a failure. Failures are mostly people who descend to drugs and alcohol and rely on government hand-outs instead of trying to help themselves. These people are usually trouble-makers that upset or harm other people and get their children taken away....
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