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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to talk to Asian girls?

Posted: 02 Sep 2012, 8:08 pm 

Replies: 706
Views: 117,478

Where should one go, then, to hit on Asian girls? If you don't see any asian girls at your school or work place, maybe a library or coffee shop? And I guess any other place asian people hang out that is more social. Where I live they are in libraries a lot because a lot of them are students, otherw...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to talk to Asian girls?

Posted: 02 Sep 2012, 8:06 pm 

Replies: 706
Views: 117,478

Well, I go to the Asian markets to buy my: Bean sprouts Lychees Persimmons Mochi from Taiwan because it's cheaper than Japanese mochi (jdm tyte tax) Iced tea Tea Chinese medicine Actually, if I had my way, I'd probably just do ALL my shopping at the Asian supermarket, but alas I don't have my own w...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Ok, something's wrong but I have no idea what it is...

Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 7:46 pm 

Replies: 15
Views: 1,871

I don't know... if I did something that bothered my husband to the point where it was hurting him at that level, I would just want him to be honest with me and let me know when I'm crossing the line. I think she could probably get used to switching her words around from 'sucks' to 'bothers me' etc. ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to talk to Asian girls?

Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 7:28 pm 

Replies: 706
Views: 117,478

I'm an east-asian female married to a white male so maybe I could weigh in? I used to be one of those asian girls that only hung out with asians back in high school, and as you say it created a very weird effect on my mentality hanging out exclusively within my ethnic group like that. I think I agre...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! !

Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 5:41 pm 

Replies: 2,517
Views: 780,498

Question for AS people: If you're in a marriage or long-term relationship equivalent, do you have any wants and/or expectations from it? If yes, what? If you're not currently in such a relationship, what would you want and/or expect from one? For example, as an NT I think I grew up with some fairly ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: First time in history!! !! The NT/AS open hotline ! !! !! !

Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 5:24 pm 

Replies: 2,517
Views: 780,498

... is nt more forgiving for lies than spectrum ppl? I once had to explain to my husband that there's a difference between malicious lies and excusable lies, at least to me (NT). I used my co-worker as an example. My co-worker is trying to quit smoking and he tells his wife that he's quit smoking, ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Why do a lot of NTs seem to hate intellectuals?

Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 4:14 pm 

Replies: 122
Views: 12,315

I'm NT. I think what you're describing is more of a cultural observation.
In East Asian cultures for example intellectualism is still prized, although they'd prefer you exercise it with humility.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Do Germans have Asperger's Syndrome?

Posted: 04 Apr 2012, 12:38 pm 

Replies: 98
Views: 26,183

This is really interesting, I wish someone would do a study on it.
My husband is German-Italian and a lot of his 'German' characteristics overlap with his AS symptoms :)

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: How do you make friends?

Posted: 03 Apr 2012, 10:17 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 901

You get clingy because you worry too much about having friends/girlfriends. Don't worry about it so much and focus on the things you like. Once you're out of school and you have a job (thanks to focusing on things you like) you are more likely to meet people that are interested in the same things as...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What kind of relationship does an average aspie get.

Posted: 03 Apr 2012, 10:00 pm 

Replies: 21
Views: 2,849

I think I know what you mean. I'm NT and my relationships with other NTs were all very similar even though the people themselves were so different. It's almost like both of us knew the script to a 'relationship' and we just had to play our parts. In a NT-NT relationship it was a lot easier to read e...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Help please with aspie breakup

Posted: 03 Apr 2012, 9:36 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 1,438

You sound so much like me in the beginning of my relationship with my husband :) Especially the walking along the beach bit. I remember I asked my husband to walk on the beach once. We walked to the beach, then he stopped, stood there and said "now what?" hahah.. it hurt at the time but now I look b...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dazed and Confused

Posted: 03 Apr 2012, 9:16 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 902

I think you should just be yourself and tell both her and your friend what you think.
Say it as nicely as you can, like in a compliment sandwich.

If she likes you she should just respect you more for being true to yourself.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Should I have a NT or AS Girl for a partner.

Posted: 03 Apr 2012, 9:09 pm 

Replies: 54
Views: 4,692

I'm NT and to me you sound like you are way more interested in yourself than in any girl you might date.
Can't speak for AS girls but as an NT girl, I like to feel that I'm special to the guy for who I am, not because I fit any type as a result of an experiment.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: So lonely in love with an Aspie!!

Posted: 03 Apr 2012, 8:56 pm 

Replies: 12
Views: 2,386

Same here! :)
Reading posts here always helps me get through the next 'push' :D

I also want to thank all the aspies on these forums that put up with our confused questions and emotional rants..

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Someone please help me; I am in a lot of pain :*-(

Posted: 03 Apr 2012, 8:50 pm 

Replies: 29
Views: 2,788

Oh and yoga is a great way to channel out the hurt :)
It's been so much better for me since I discovered that.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Someone please help me; I am in a lot of pain :*-(

Posted: 03 Apr 2012, 8:44 pm 

Replies: 29
Views: 2,788

I feel for you, you sound like you genuinely love him and he probably knows how lucky he is to have the love of someone like you. :) Joker is right, aspie brains behave a little bit like computers sometimes- once it's programmed a certain way it seems to take a long time to change it. If he's been i...
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