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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: First time on a dating site, wondering if my idea is correct |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2019, 5:50 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 700
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| Free OkC will show you mutual Likes. All those profiles that say "I can't see likes, message me!" are by members who I guess either aren't Liking any/many profiles, or haven't had a match yet so they don't realise how it works. When you Like someone who Likes you, OkC will tell you who the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men don't know how they are |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2018, 4:26 pm
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Replies: 74
Views: 2,264
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| https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5cQoGNEcc5Q The Science of Flirting: Being a H.O.T. A.P.E. | Jean Smith | TEDxLSHTM Some Aspies could use help learning to flirt properly (or not). That's completely NT. Touch and talking are definitely not part of how NDs flirt naturally. So, not useful unless you w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is the intention of NT girls if they rub on men? |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2018, 1:50 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,036
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The intention is to gauge his response, and if he responds positively and is sexy enough, then they'll probably make out or whatever.
Basically she wants him to dance seductively with her, for a start. To flirt with the bodies. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How To Get Tons Of Matches On Tinder Even If Your Butt Ugly |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2018, 5:44 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 1,718
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| If your butt ugly then just don't upload pic of your butt. If your face handsome you'll be fine. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women That Like to Play the Field |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2018, 5:15 pm
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Replies: 73
Views: 1,825
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SilverStar wrote: Once the relationship reaches the committed boyfriend/girlfriend status, playing the field is considered cheating, though.
Even then, I like to check. Polyamory is hugely popular at the moment! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If you don't want iffy results, avoid the new dating apps. |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2018, 5:00 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 467
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| Meetups doesn't work either. Most come with already established friend groups and none is interested to include someone new , you just acquire acquaintances, no friends, let alone dates. They haven't worked for you. I've only tried 2 meetup groups. One was worse than you describe (I felt really lef... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: One thing I noticed on Dating Websites |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2018, 11:01 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 1,468
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fluffysaurus wrote: For 'a good sense of humour' read 'the same sense of humour'.
Yeah this is basically all there is to it. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are some good aspies movies? |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2018, 5:19 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 578
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CannibalCorpse wrote: Are there any movies about a female aspie?
Jane Wants A Boyfriend is about a female aspie. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Major Things on a First Date |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2018, 5:15 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 540
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| I would suggest just having fun with, and getting to know the other person, and not getting involved in a heated debate with them on the first date. I agree on having fun with and getting to know the other person - often that involves getting into interesting debates (or just discussions, because w... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are some good aspies movies? |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2018, 7:33 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 578
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| I think Jane Wants A Boyfriend has a really good storyline between the two sisters - one is autistic and the other is NT. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Whys it have to not be ok to ask if a woman likes you? |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2018, 7:26 pm
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Replies: 160
Views: 3,481
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sly279 wrote: In past when I asked thebwomen told my I lacked confidence and that’s unattractive.
But I can’t read nonverbal ques like not men can.
Sounds like you keep dating the same kinds of women. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Whys it have to not be ok to ask if a woman likes you? |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2018, 7:12 pm
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Replies: 160
Views: 3,481
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| Didn’t you find them lacking confidence? Confident man would just know the woman likes them. :roll: Or, a confident man would assume she likes him. Confidence isn't the same as understanding/knowledge. Or, a confident man would know he wants to know something, and have the confidence to ask. There'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Whys it have to not be ok to ask if a woman likes you? |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2018, 12:47 am
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Replies: 160
Views: 3,481
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| Why can't you just ask her? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When did you have your first crush? |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2018, 12:36 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 879
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| Orientation day for high school (12 years old). It lasted a few years. I had a boyfriend when I was around 8, but I don't think I was capable of having a "crush" before puberty. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Major Things on a First Date |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 27 Jul 2018, 9:45 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 540
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| Every situation is different so how could there be a "cookie cutter" procedure when it comes to dating? Just do what your gut tells you to do. If you were meant to be with that person, it'll work out how it's supposed to. Unfortunately societies do tend to set up "guidelines" on... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Could someone's voice be a "deal breaker" for you? |
| yellowtamarin |
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Posted: 26 Jul 2018, 1:58 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 700
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| The funny thing about falling for someone is that some of the things you might otherwise find annoying suddenly just don't seem very important. If you were meant to be with a woman who had a grating voice, the reality is that somehow you wouldn't notice it was grating. Or you would think it was cut... |
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