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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Rudeness in autistic boyfriend

Posted: Today, 9:23 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 164


I guess my advice would be not to allow his aspergers/autism to excuse him behaving like a jerk. Some of the behaviour you have described, such as telling you how you should dress, is controlling, and should not be tolerated. If the relationship is to continue you need to be firm with him that you ...

 Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions   Topic: Anxiety Meds

 Post subject: Re: Anxiety Meds
Posted: Today, 9:13 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 345


1) Breathing exercises and meditation. AT LEAST once a day. When I'm struggling, I step it up to 2-3 times a day. These sessions can last between 5-25 minutes. I use the HeadSpace an Balance apps on my iPhone. When I have issues with focusing on meditation, using this time for rest and silence (noi...

 Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions   Topic: Anxiety Meds

 Post subject: Re: Anxiety Meds
Posted: Today, 7:47 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 345


Did you ever try doing breathing exercises?

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Reason to not kill myself?

Posted: Today, 7:44 am 

Replies: 105
Views: 1,276


dorkseid wrote:
People who are bad at math are not forever alone and unwanted.

Some of them are and a fair share of those people falsely believe this is the reason why they are unhappy.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Reason to not kill myself?

Posted: Today, 6:18 am 

Replies: 105
Views: 1,276


I just got done reading an old Marvel comic: Defenders #50. The villain, Scorpio, keeps ranting about how he could never succeed in life. How everything has always blown up in his face. How women have always rejected him. Because he is 52, he feels that his scheme is last chance at achieving any si...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: The Unemployment Stage

 Post subject: Re: The Unemployment Stage
Posted: Yesterday, 7:00 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 186


If I were starting today, I would make online presence one of my priorities, properly maintain social media accounts, post updates on schedule. It is kind of hard to explain, but as a creative you can build a better carrier with persistence, initiative, collaboration, clear understanding of goals an...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: The Unemployment Stage

 Post subject: Re: The Unemployment Stage
Posted: Yesterday, 6:38 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 186


Most of my mistakes, even conflicts were result of not having clear idea of goals and values of companies I worked with and not understanding how they align with my own. The most obvious is not understanding difference between working on a product and being a product. If you are working for an agenc...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Reason to not kill myself?

Posted: Yesterday, 5:41 pm 

Replies: 105
Views: 1,276


I have never experienced love or intimacy with a woman. The only relationship I've ever was in was with an narcissist who abused me psychologically. The relationship was extremely unsatisfying, but I was afraid if I left no other woman would ever want me again. I never felt any attraction to my ex ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Reason to not kill myself?

Posted: Yesterday, 5:15 pm 

Replies: 105
Views: 1,276


I have never experienced love or intimacy with a woman. The only relationship I've ever was in was with an narcissist who abused me psychologically. The relationship was extremely unsatisfying, but I was afraid if I left no other woman would ever want me again. I never felt any attraction to my ex ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Reason to not kill myself?

Posted: Yesterday, 5:02 pm 

Replies: 105
Views: 1,276


So this book - the theory - is that the down times is one of these parts coming to the surface and becoming "me" - it might be the rage part, or the bad parent part, or the love part or the good parent part - and I behave accordingly - and I project the opposite on someone else in my life...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: The Unemployment Stage

 Post subject: Re: The Unemployment Stage
Posted: Yesterday, 12:10 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 186


Which is why I decided to take a small break. I cut my hair, I went to visit some villages, spent some time at the beach and saw museum exhibits. The break, which I feared would be laced with guilt, proved beneficial. It reminded me of why I was doing this, I do not live to work but rather I work t...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Rudeness in autistic boyfriend

Posted: Yesterday, 9:15 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 164


It's impossible to say if he's being a jerk. I do understand that it's unacceptable to tell a woman she looks old, but it could still slip if I'm not thinking about it in context of age or beauty, but express concern of whether a person I care about is doing well, for example. I personally believe o...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Is working from home a good option for (most) Aspies?

Posted: 17 Sep 2021, 11:37 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 286


Well, working from home didn't work for me. Not enough self-discipline, I'd let myself get distracted into doing things I wanted to do instead of the work. Or sometimes the opposite - working in the evenings and weekends because of work/home stuff all getting mixed up. Am much better focussed now I...

 Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports   Topic: September 17, 1985

 Post subject: Re: September 17, 1985
Posted: 17 Sep 2021, 10:06 am 

Replies: 10
Views: 173


Happy anniversary! Bikepacking trip is one of the top things in my wish list.

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: The Shrinking Job Market.

Posted: 17 Sep 2021, 9:13 am 

Replies: 22
Views: 397


Depends a bit on the culture, but where I've lived before currently there's a huge shortage of all things craftsmanny, such as a carpenter, a roofer, an electrician, a plumber, etc. Electricians earn more money than architects these days, and architects need at least 7 years of training to earn the...

 Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports   Topic: Underwear rubbing inner thighs

Posted: 17 Sep 2021, 8:57 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 135


But anyway, you should ask your doctor, don't just follow advise of random internet strangers.
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