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Forum: The Haven Topic: rude or not rude? |
| Ria1989 |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2013, 8:07 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Thank you, previous three posters. I appreciate your understanding of the situation and helping me express what I am trying to say. That made my day. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: rude or not rude? |
| Ria1989 |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2013, 7:05 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Your input is completely disregarding the rudeness of her behavior and instead defending the implications of it. When other people are rude at their job, they are reprimanded for it. This is not a new concept. Go join a union as that is where your comment belongs. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: rude or not rude? |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2013, 6:13 pm
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I got a full refund. The person I talked to, an art educator, totally understood why it was wrong. She said she appreciated my feedback because feedback determines what art instructors get hired next time.  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: rude or not rude? |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2013, 9:29 am
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Replies: 16
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| Thank you for your post. When reading your examples, I was getting angry for you. I completely understand how frustrating it is. In some ways, rather insulting. If my art instructor approached it a bit nicer, like "you're on the right track, but lets add more to it. " I could deal with that. After s... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: rude or not rude? |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2013, 7:46 am
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Replies: 16
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| Last evening, I started an art class, which is not through a college or university, but through an art museum. They expect enrollees to have some experience with art. We were working on pastels, hard and soft ones. Also, oil pastels and then adding water to our brush. Every person was drawing beauti... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism is about caring too much! |
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Posted: 12 May 2013, 5:01 pm
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Replies: 8
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| Someone told me one time I cared too much and that's why things went wrong for me. A good example is if I would happen to walk into a conversation half way through, and one person says to another "Ow, I hurt my head". I would think they really hurt their head and then I would proceed to ask them if ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being Denied |
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Posted: 10 May 2013, 11:21 pm
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Replies: 23
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| Very much. He hates women, despite dating them. I wouldn't doubt him getting gratification coming out of fights as the "nice guy". why would you want to date somebody who hated women? It doesn't make sense to me. Understandable. I cut him slack knowing his mom walked out of his life. I'll openly ad... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being Denied |
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Posted: 10 May 2013, 10:28 pm
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Replies: 23
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| I don't think he likes me, but maybe the attention I give him, in a sick sort of way. Once it's gone, he can't handle it, but when it's there, he takes advantage of me. The other day, he gave me a little back rub and said he was doing it because I have been nice to him. I don't know, but it seems l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being Denied |
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Posted: 10 May 2013, 10:06 pm
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Replies: 23
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| In my experience (admittedly very limited), sometimes a man will pick fights because he wants to break it off and doesn't have the balls to initiate the break-up himself. He'll fight until the woman says something that he can use as an excuse to break it off and still come out a "nice guy" and make... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being Denied |
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Posted: 10 May 2013, 10:02 pm
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Replies: 23
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| He does not like drama; however, he has instigated fights so I find it hypocritical that he judges me for fighting him. You've invested a year towards him and he seems to be the one holding things up. If it mattered to him the way it does to you, he wouldn't have taken this long or dragged his feet... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being Denied |
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Posted: 10 May 2013, 6:51 pm
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Replies: 23
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| I'm going to explain a bit about my relationship with someone. I feel really lost about it and think other people may have a better grasp as to what everything means. I met someone a year ago; he was a friend of my family's. My family did introduce us knowing that it may end up being more, that we m... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Coming Out |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2013, 11:39 pm
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| yeah, I feel like there isn't a right choice as I'll be unhappy with either one I make. I have looked at a lot of options and I decided I can't change her. No matter how mad I get at her, she will always view me the way she wants to, and it bothers me because I don't think she respects me enough. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Coming Out |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2013, 9:22 am
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| I'm bisexual, but only some people know. I have been reluctant to tell as some people view it negatively, and partly due to their up-bringing, etc. Well, I lived with someone for four years in undergraduate, and I never told her, which is probably unfair to her. I didn't because of the comments she ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do some textures drive you crazy? |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2013, 11:24 pm
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Replies: 47
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| Though I buy a lot of different textures, what I wear most often is based off of texture rather than look. This can cause problems as I gravitate toward the same few sweaters, for example. I need something light, airy, but still warm. This is an impossible combo most of the time. I hate feeling suff... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: the woman that no man will date |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2012, 7:10 pm
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Replies: 11
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| I don't know why this is, but this is definitely me (the woman that no man will date). I think looks are a pretty huge part of it--the same trait in a pretty woman can be seen as acceptable or can be ignored, while in an ugly woman it will be a deal breaker. I don't specifically know any Aspie wome... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: An OKCupid message that about reduced me to tears. |
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Posted: 10 Dec 2012, 10:56 pm
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Replies: 181
Views: 14,462
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| Generally the better people have it, the more they want. Even the poorest of people in the USA are very wealthy compared to most of the people who have ever lived, and yet we all want more. NT make friends easily, so they don't value it as much as we do. They are pickier and throw it away faster, t... |
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