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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: i'm screwed! |
| Spieder |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2006, 9:24 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,547
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| Well, there could be a thousand reasons why he won't kiss you but here's what to do. Set the mood. Ie par picnic, dance club where your close, etc. Start by closing in on your body language. Holding arms closely, tickling, etc. It will work. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dumped? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2006, 11:53 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,074
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| I'm sorry. I know how painfull a break up is. My advice is that no matter how you feel suck it up in front of her. Let her know you care but that you are in control and that you are strong. It is a turn on, believe it or not. The problem is, if she gets back together again with you, you will probabl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What should I do... |
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Posted: 23 Jul 2006, 11:21 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,422
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| I wish you the best of luck! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Some advice for dating... |
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Posted: 23 Jul 2006, 3:20 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,739
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| I felt the same way you guys do but I have to tell you it works. Another point I left out is that the more women you date the better you get at dating and the less intimidating they appear. Take it for whatever it's worth. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Awkwardness problem after (seemingly) innocent conversation |
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Posted: 23 Jul 2006, 3:16 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,319
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| Definitely DO NOT CONFRONT them. That will make things worse. My suggestion is to act like you just don't give a sh*t at all. Act the same now as you did before the conversation. She has the problem, not you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't know what's going on- need advice! |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2006, 12:18 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,622
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| She's not asking your opinion about her choice or how birth control works so give it a rest. Do you want to know the truth? This is very hard to take but when someone tells you they do not want a relationship right now it usually means they do not want one with you. I have been on the receiving end ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Some advice for dating... |
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Posted: 20 Jul 2006, 11:52 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,739
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| If you're trying to attract an NT female, then I might suggest askmen.com as a reference source to use with wrongplanet. It gives you some very good insight into what NT females are looking for in NT males. The best part of all is that I think guys with AS have a lot of the traits that attract women... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Isn't it time to speak up against NTs? |
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Posted: 09 May 2006, 9:40 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 4,603
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| You took that out of context. My main premise was that we cause discomfort and pain to NT's, which is absolutely true. If we say things and do things that hurt NT's emotionally then why do they have a reason to be around us? Should they hang around us for the pleasure of being abused? It is not a p... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Isn't it time to speak up against NTs? |
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Posted: 08 May 2006, 9:58 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 4,603
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| quote 'NT's have no reason to accept us' excuse me but that simply doesnt fit with my world view, be like a black person saying whites have no reason to accept us or Gays saying straights have no reason to accept us. We exist and that alone is sufficient reason to expect acceptance. I don't buy int... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Time Article about Autism, what do you think? |
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Posted: 07 May 2006, 9:00 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,016
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| As far as cures go; I believe in time all maladies will be curable. It's just a matter of a few hundred years at most. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being cured of Asperger's... |
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Posted: 07 May 2006, 4:12 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 6,334
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| I am not arrogant enough to think that if I had the same abilities as someone who was NT that I would not do the same things however. That is where I think some people with AS can be judgemental because you do not really know if you had those abilities to move gracefully in social situations or not... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Isn't it time to speak up against NTs? |
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Posted: 07 May 2006, 3:58 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 4,603
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| First of all, Aspies have the condition not the NT's. Therefore it is our burden to adapt. NT's have no reason to accept us. There are more of them than us (by great numbers) and society is structured around them. Second, we are accepted as a general rule. However, if the time comes when we are not ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being cured of Asperger's... |
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Posted: 07 May 2006, 2:17 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 6,334
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| If there was a cure I would take it. I really think there is a common misconception about AS and/or people that have it. There is this mythical belief that we are gifted in certain areas in EXCHANGE for our condition. So I always read/hear that people with AS won't give it up because they don't want... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Happy birthday to me |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2006, 12:09 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,425
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