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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2014, 8:19 am
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| one of the people i know is having the same doctor issue as mine. she went to the er all suicidal(super suicidal) and was told to get a job if one of her stresses was having her disability payment cut. i also really need to talk to my shrink about stuff but i'm worried she'll tell authorities and ha... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2014, 2:43 am
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| i hate doctors. i really do. saw one today. don't know much about her life but she came off as a middle income earning jerk who knows nothing of reality or mental illness. besides autism i have severe depression, anxiety and ptsd(which i've told her about but she doesn't ever remember. she barely re... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Only a manipulator and narcissist would offer these seminars |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2014, 8:03 am
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| He is definitely a jerk, but those women (asian or not) that let it happen or even go into it are even worse imo. so the victims are even worse than the abuser? and it's their fault? no. don't be so hard on them. it's never a victims fault and a pua is trained to manipulate so the person won't know... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Only a manipulator and narcissist would offer these seminars |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2014, 2:50 am
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| i've known about these guys for ages and have a personal vendetta against them and i'm so happy this finally reached mainstream news and got people angry. watching julien get banned from many countries gives me much joy. it feels a little bit like justice. wanted to kick his butt when he came to syd... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2014, 4:36 am
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Replies: 9,251
Views: 640,898
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| went to go to the doctor to get a medical certificate for centrelink so i can go part time. this process has been stressful. the doctor, when filling out my certificate, said my current depression was caused by an unhelpful relationship that triggered previous rape trauma. she called the casual sexu... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2014, 4:18 pm
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Replies: 9,251
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| tried to give my sister books i had spent hours picking out for her and had her okay but my cousin was there and his ridicule ensured that she's not going to read them. it occurred to me to check out the youtube history or a guy i had formerly dated. he said he hates puas but he's subscribed to one.... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2014, 4:01 am
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Replies: 9,251
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| so in my Special Ed class the teacher was lecturing us on deaf and bind people. apparently it's okay to say that without using people first language. hypocrite. oh and apparently it's okay for deaf people to identify with Deaf culture as something to be proud of but if i wanna make the argument for ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2014, 1:50 am
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Replies: 9,251
Views: 640,898
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| so i wrote and finished an essay that was ableist on autism. all the texts i used to reference viewed even harmless autism traits as something to fix and the obsession with making autists socialise just made me feel sick. and my teacher wanted me to use people first language which i disagree with an... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: 05 Sep 2014, 12:36 am
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Replies: 9,251
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| forgot to add last rant that i dated the guy i've had a crush on for 3 years and he turned out to be a douche in some ways. not a complete dick but he was just urgh. he'd changed since i met him. he used the word ret*d and c**t. told me to get over it. called me a c**t once. decried the racism of th... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2014, 8:39 am
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Replies: 9,251
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| so my life has almost completely gone to s**t. went to hospital a couple of months ago with what i thought was a 24 hour virus and the need for some new glasses and came out with a diagnosis of multiple sclerosis. i now have to get injections of something that either could save my life or kill me an... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: need help. i had sex & i need help. i'm scared and confu |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2014, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 32
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| so it's been a while since i posted that and i guess i just wanted to say that i stayed with him for too long but i ended it on monday. he did try manipulate me back into bed after the conversation but i just left. that's all i guess. i'm not seeing him again. just wanted to say that. thank you. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: need help. i had sex & i need help. i'm scared and confu |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2014, 8:16 pm
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| You sleep with this guy and stay over while apparently having another partner who knows about it. Why is your partner fine with this arrangement? The other guy will make the argument that what he did wasn't rape because everything in your (sexual) relationship(s) seems to be so unconventional. we'r... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: need help. i had sex & i need help. i'm scared and confu |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 10:30 am
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| thing is i never said stop. the fact that he started when i wasn't even conscious means consent was never given, so does the fact that he did it without a condom. i think he knew what he was doing because he felt he had to say sorry and make excuses. i feel like that's why he offered to help me too.... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: need help. i had sex & i need help. i'm scared and confu |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2014, 8:48 am
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| um i haven't been here in a long while but i needed a fresh look on something and i didn't know where else to go. the problem i was having related to the casual sexual relationship i'm in; more specifically to what happened on monday. i've been in this relationship since half way through last year. ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today. |
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Posted: 02 Jul 2013, 8:37 am
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Replies: 31,981
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| so my boyfriend and i had these plans and we made them 2 weeks ago. two whole weeks ago and they were set. i was looking forward to it so much because it's not something that we'd normally get to do together and just now one of the families he tutors rings and asks him to come tomorrow and instead o... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Got Anything Random To Say |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2013, 8:15 am
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Replies: 120,228
Views: 4,104,018
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| grossing people out in the library with boyfriend is fun. our affection is repulsive. |
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