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 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: my friends are happy without me

Posted: Yesterday, 3:42 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 375


Back when I was a kid, I lived in a neighborhood and played with the other kids. On several occasions, I was left out of their birthday parties. When I was 9, one of the little girls told me that she didn't want me at her birthday while her mom apologetically said, "Oh my goodness, we forgot to...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: my friends are happy without me

Posted: Yesterday, 3:16 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 375


Kitlily: Same here. However, it breaks my heart when people act like you are there and then you aren't and to make it worse, they don't realize they hurt your feelings and nor do they care. I went to a synagogue with a whole group of people who were extremely cliquish and they constantly made plans ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Dumped by a friend. Again.

Posted: Yesterday, 3:05 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 214


I've had the stare a few times, it was after I got carried away talking about something usually and started raising my voice or went into too much detail. :lol: So you're not alone there :D Thanks, that is really helpful! Maybe that's the reason I get The Stare too. But are we to censor ourselves b...

 Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion   Topic: Was Mussolini's Fascism as bad as Hitler's Nazism ?

Posted: Yesterday, 2:55 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 270


I don't know that much about Mussolini but I do know that he shared the same values that Hitler had. In fact, I believe they were allies? However, I can tell you more about Hitler and how he rose to power.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: my friends are happy without me

Posted: Yesterday, 2:27 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 375


Is this the same woman who bailed on you twice? If so, then it sounds like that friendship is one-sided and she also sounds like she's self-absorbed. That's someone who lives in her own little world. However, I really do think it's okay for you to let her know how you feel without confronting her. &...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Dumped by a friend. Again.

Posted: Yesterday, 2:26 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 214


As I suspected, 1 of my 2 friends has disappeared. I noticed that over the last 8 months she has cancelled our last 2 'coffee dates'. She said it was because her son was ill but I don't know if that is true. Then she kept saying 'we must meet for coffee, I'll check my shift rota.' She works in a co...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: my friends are happy without me

Posted: Yesterday, 1:35 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 375


i haven't seen (or spoken to) my classmates, that i at least exchange a few words with every day, since summer break started about a month ago. today i saw an instagram post from one of them and found out they went on a huge, week long camping trip to a country neighboring mine. i wasn't aware of t...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Hoax friends

 Post subject: Re: Hoax friends
Posted: 04 Aug 2022, 12:38 pm 

Replies: 67
Views: 897


Kitlily: I think they are too in regards to narcissism. However, the daughter has an official autism diagnosis as well as other underlying conditions. Though she is my age, she is very immature and very mean. My other friend, who had the birthday confronted her by asking why she gossips about other...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Hoax friends

 Post subject: Re: Hoax friends
Posted: 03 Aug 2022, 3:55 pm 

Replies: 67
Views: 897


Kitlily: I think they are too in regards to narcissism. However, the daughter has an official autism diagnosis as well as other underlying conditions. Though she is my age, she is very immature and very mean. My other friend, who had the birthday confronted her by asking why she gossips about other ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Hoax friends

 Post subject: Re: Hoax friends
Posted: 03 Aug 2022, 3:29 pm 

Replies: 67
Views: 897


I have read that it's really common when someone either is not interested or loses interest will make plans just so they don't hurt he person's feelings and then bail at the last minute. On the other hand... As for fake friends, here are some examples 1. I worked with someone who jerked me around ab...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: So tired of people making assumptions about me

Posted: 28 Jul 2022, 2:30 pm 

Replies: 3
Views: 144


Thanks Earthbound Alien

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Is it common for aspies to be jealous of other people?

Posted: 28 Jul 2022, 1:12 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 263


I don't think it's just aspies, but other people within the disability community, period. However, that includes caregivers such as parents. I have seen it happen towards anyone within the disability community who appears to have things come easier. For example I have known a couple of people within...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: So tired of people making assumptions about me

Posted: 27 Jul 2022, 1:38 pm 

Replies: 3
Views: 144


Hi: I am so fed up with this crap from other people that yes, I appear to be normal but those other people don't know what I can and cannot do. However, these are the same people who are too busy with their own lives that they never make time to get to know or or ever explore what I am can and canno...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Rants

 Post subject: Re: Rants
Posted: 20 Jul 2022, 3:36 pm 

Replies: 8,012
Views: 516,369


Ok, I am triggered by the "Hoax friends" post as I am still working to forgive one of those. Though I have mostly moved on with my life, there days where I realize that the anger and hurt is still with me. I also realize I can't just ditch my feelings but I also know I can't keep letting h...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Hoax friends

 Post subject: Re: Hoax friends
Posted: 20 Jul 2022, 2:45 pm 

Replies: 67
Views: 897


Jamsey, They are quick to ditch us because they didn't have any intention of being your friend in the first place. They probably latched themselves onto you because they want something. Whether that's money or your weakness, they don't care about you. It seems to be hard for me to find ‘true’ frien...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: I feel so drained when talking with a group of people

Posted: 20 Jul 2022, 11:59 am 

Replies: 3
Views: 346


Today, I mean yesterday since it's midnight, I talked with some of my peers after my swimming class, and few people talked non-stop. When the topic came to be about marching band, they did not let me speak about my experiences in marching band, nor did they ask what instrument I play. I patiently w...
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