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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do you know any female loners? Are male loners...

Posted: 21 Apr 2013, 9:31 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 10,715


okay, from what I gathered from this thread, being loner means you have a ton a friends, offspring, and are well-liked by all your colleagues and cohorts. Well done everyone! We butchered this word so badly that it might as well be removed from the dictionary. I'm sorry, I sound like I'm joking but...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What's the Point of a Loveless Life?

Posted: 19 Apr 2013, 8:02 am 

Replies: 38
Views: 7,234


Appreciate the tips so far. To address the many comments on "more than love/other than romantic love", I think something that helps to understand me is I consider myself a nihilist; essentially I believe that absolute truth doesn't exist, and that the universe is nothing more or less than random ch...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do you know any female loners? Are male loners...

Posted: 19 Apr 2013, 7:44 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 10,715


LittlePenguin22 wrote:
When I need my social interaction tank filled, I chat room it up, and that's usually good enough for me.

That's pretty much what I do. I play an MMO and occasionally interact socially with the other members of my group online and I come to WP.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Rants

Posted: 19 Apr 2013, 7:30 am 

Replies: 9,219
Views: 633,714


I don't understand why I keep doing this to myself: settling for a sub-par partner with some naive notion that everything will be great as long as we love eachother. I don't have very high standards and I am not hard to please. Not compared to the media depiction of a typical woman, anyway. (Not sur...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Got anything random to say? Adult Version

Posted: 18 Apr 2013, 8:57 am 

Replies: 20,195
Views: 189,189


All my life I've chosen some niave romantic notion of "love" over everything else. I've been married twice.. both times to guys that I wasn't particularly attracted to and didn't share much sexual chemistry with... because I admired their (percieved) personality traits. And I really thought that wou...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Rants

Posted: 15 Apr 2013, 7:00 am 

Replies: 9,219
Views: 633,714


Starting to realize that every major decision I've ever made in my life has been a mistake. I feel like I had to make those choices because I couldn't live with the "What If"s but .. now that I know what's at the end of each of those roads.. I should have made a different choice. My life would be be...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dealbreakers for women?

Posted: 15 Apr 2013, 6:56 am 

Replies: 30
Views: 3,972


About the only thing I can think of is:

He lies.

That's been my one and only dealbreaker, essentially. I've tolerated and overlooked almost every other thing on everyone else's lists.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do you know any female loners? Are male loners...

Posted: 15 Apr 2013, 6:44 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 10,715


I am a loner. I am capable of small-talk and general social niceties. I believe that I am generally well-regarded at my place of work as being a nice and helpful person. However, I only do those things as far as it is required for me to get along in life. I have 0 friends and am not seeking any. I d...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Rants

Posted: 11 Apr 2013, 9:03 am 

Replies: 9,219
Views: 633,714


Well, I guess it was only a matter of time. Knuckle-dents in the walls at our new house. Sigh. As if I weren't already constantly agonizing over all the other repairs that I need to make. Make some holes in the walls, yeah. That will definately help. As if he wasn't already enough of a burden to me....

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Women are not attracted to me because I'm not 'masculine'?

Posted: 26 Mar 2013, 1:05 pm 

Replies: 267
Views: 26,021


I've always been attracted to "feminine" men as well. I don't like beards or body hair and I greatly prefer a slim physique. I've actually even had crushes on actual gay guys. :shrug:

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do other Aspie girls ask guys out?

Posted: 15 Nov 2012, 10:55 am 

Replies: 100
Views: 15,304


I've "asked out" (or been the first to confess attraction to or whatever else you want to call it) almost every guy I've ever liked. Which is about .. uh.. 6 people?

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent

Posted: 15 Nov 2012, 10:21 am 

Replies: 4,952
Views: 532,774


Dear you, I am sorry. I don't think you will ever know how much I loved you, and still love you. I wouldn't go back and if I did, I wouldn't change any of the actions that I took but I regret every single day how things turned out. If you had loved me half of the amount that I loved you, maybe thing...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: What medication are u on?

Posted: 15 Nov 2012, 8:25 am 

Replies: 35
Views: 3,617


My husband is on cymbalta for depression, anxiety, and rage control issues (essentially just all ends of bad mood spectrum and stability control problems). It works well at leveling him out a bit for a few weeks but then starts to lose effectiveness until they up the dose again. His doctor recently ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Desire Acknowledgment of my Accomplishments

Posted: 05 Nov 2012, 12:51 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 1,158


Thanks for the input, I appreciate all the comments :) I do try to thank him and tell him I really appreciate it any time he does anything around the house, like you said it can be hard sometimes. In regards to medication, he's always been one of those that is highly resistant to everything, even ib...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Desire Acknowledgment of my Accomplishments

Posted: 05 Nov 2012, 12:11 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 1,158


Thank you :) Nushidorei - yes, he is not happy with the way things are and expresses feelings of "uselessness" to me frequently. He used to handle more sorts of things a few years ago so it is either that the struggle to do those things has left him completely burnt out for many years or it is this ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Desire Acknowledgment of my Accomplishments

Posted: 05 Nov 2012, 10:16 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 1,158


I am a wife of somewhat sketchy neruopathy (non-NT) who has been married to an Aspie for 3 years. I was somewhat severely socially disabled as a child and have made gigantic leaps and bounds within the past 6 years toward being a highly-functioning normal-enough-to-get-by human being. I'm very proud...
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