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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have I Blown It? |
idlewild |
Posted: 18 Aug 2015, 3:18 am
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Thanks. I'm just sad and angry. I'll do the online dating tortire round again and maybe have better luck. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have I Blown It? |
idlewild |
Posted: 18 Aug 2015, 3:09 am
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Yeah, it's done. He's a pig. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have I Blown It? |
idlewild |
Posted: 18 Aug 2015, 2:23 am
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Well, after happily having sex with me for months he told me he isn't physically attracted to me. In other words, I'm too fat for him. This was after he went on a vacation I paid for. His feelings are pretty shallow and obvious, and a reply to this dormant thread right after he tells me I'm not attr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have I Blown It? |
idlewild |
Posted: 11 Aug 2015, 8:06 pm
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Seriously: I understand you've got feelings for the guy. I should have been more sensitive to that. It would be nice, though, if he would change just a little bit to compromise with you. That's why I'm here. We've agreed to talk and I need to figure out how to explain this all to him. He's been a b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have I Blown It? |
idlewild |
Posted: 11 Aug 2015, 7:11 pm
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Well, that's just depressing. This is the best and longest relationship I've had in 10 years. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have I Blown It? |
idlewild |
Posted: 11 Aug 2015, 7:02 pm
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My dating history suggests otherwise. He's funny, kind, and easy to be with. I can be affectionate and sweet with him. We have a lot of common interests. The night he was rude to me I think he just needed time alone to recharge but didn't cancel our date. And the stuff he says is just stupid, like t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Have I Blown It? |
idlewild |
Posted: 11 Aug 2015, 6:35 pm
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So I've been seeing this guy for months. He's awesome and I really love him. But I'm doing the whole hyper-analyze thing trying to understand him and make sure I don't come off as Aspie (I told him early on). It's exhausting. Occasionally he says really hurtful things, and when I explain that I'm up... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Anti vaxxer Dr. James Bradstree found dead gunshot to chest |
idlewild |
Posted: 27 Jun 2015, 9:34 am
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But how often when learning someone they knew has committed suicide do friends and relatives say they can't believe it, they just talked to them, they would never do such a thing, etc.... ? I think the circumstances sound suspicious for a suicide, but I'm more likely to place bets on a jealous lover... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Anti vaxxer Dr. James Bradstree found dead gunshot to chest |
idlewild |
Posted: 26 Jun 2015, 9:22 pm
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androbot01 wrote: Maybe Jenny McCarthy did it.
Thank goodness I wasn't drinking anything when I read that! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Monks/monasticism . |
idlewild |
Posted: 08 Feb 2015, 11:39 pm
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*healthy, consensual, unashamed sex |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Monks/monasticism . |
idlewild |
Posted: 07 Feb 2015, 11:20 pm
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Many monasteries have room for guests. I knew a mother of seven who would go on retreat with nuns for a wek every 6 months. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Monks/monasticism . |
idlewild |
Posted: 07 Feb 2015, 9:05 pm
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When I was a kid I thought about being a nun. I'm a religion nerd (one of my special interests) and the idea of routine and quiet was appealing. The lack of sex was not. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Tried To Quit My Job Today |
idlewild |
Posted: 07 Feb 2015, 8:57 pm
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I don't have anyone to turn to for help if I lost my job: family or friends. I spoke to my employer again. They value me as an employee, made some minor accommodations, and are planning to hire more people to handle the ever-increasing workload. I don't feel like I'm in danger of being fired. I just... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Fantastic Article On Vaccines and Autism |
idlewild |
Posted: 07 Feb 2015, 8:33 pm
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I didn't see that anyone else had posted this, so I apologize if there is another thread. This article made me want to dance around the room! I’m Autistic, And Believe Me, It’s A Lot Better Than Measles I’m not about to take any solace in the idea that they’re willing to make exceptions for autistic... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Bar. (L&D's own chatroom) |
idlewild |
Posted: 24 Jan 2015, 10:39 pm
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Replies: 1,403 Views: 113,851
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Did someone say it was Pata Pata time?
*begins dancing*
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Bar. (L&D's own chatroom) |
idlewild |
Posted: 21 Jan 2015, 9:45 pm
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Replies: 1,403 Views: 113,851
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