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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What am I? What am I? |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2013, 12:13 pm
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| Hello! I think I'm like you, but I've always considered myself gay. I guess a few of the things on your list don't apply to me, but pretty much the rest do. Particularly I find it interesting that you are turned off by seeing anal intercourse, fake sex, moans etc. That's exactly how I feel, too. I ... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What am I? What am I? |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2013, 12:11 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Thank you both for the replies, I really appreciate it. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What am I? What am I? |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2013, 11:23 pm
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| Sorry for the trite title but I couldn't think of anything else. I'm going to be brutally honest here. I want to know if there is even a single person out there who feels like this. I've never been so lonely as when I don't fit into any sexual category. I'm not a bad looking guy, but I just don't ex... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neurotypical parties/social gatherings of more than 3 |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2013, 2:40 pm
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Replies: 19
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| ... Even if I end up having fun they are still somewhat stressful... This is the weirdest part for me. When I attend a gathering it's almost never as bad as I anticipate. But when the time comes for the next one, I completely forget that I made it through the previous one and get stressed out all o... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Opinion on possible OCD comorbidity? (youtube video) |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2013, 11:34 pm
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Can this be accounted for by AS alone, or do you think I have a commodity?
Many thanks,
- Jay
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9V25AHz2laA[/youtube] |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neurotypical parties/social gatherings of more than 3 |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2013, 5:34 pm
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| Wow it's fantastic hearing about these things. I have identified very much with these responses. I have gone through the honesty route, but my friends (totaling 5-6 and fully OK with that), still keep nagging me. I think it's because they can not imagine how I would be any different in the presence ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: blocking sound at night |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2013, 3:19 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I've found running the brown noise from this site at night really helpful. In fact I often have it on during the day as it makes me more calm when I'm at my computer. http://simplynoise.com/ It did take me a couple nights to get used to having the sound in the background though but its a lot easier... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neurotypical parties/social gatherings of more than 3 |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2013, 3:10 pm
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| Hi, through university I put up with going to parties or clubs even though I hated them, for both sensory and social reasons. I just end up watching other people, studying their interactions in a detached kind of way. I wasn't being expected to interact really, as the majority of people were total s... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Speed Round: Stims |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2013, 1:40 am
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Replies: 7
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| This is worth a try. I find noticing my stims very satisfying. It's like I have stepped out of the system and made an observation about myself. I find it enticing to know what I seem like through the eyes of others. Here is a youtube vid on my stims. What are some of yours? [youtube]http://www.youtu... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Lack of sexual "projection". Please share thoughts |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2012, 12:28 am
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Replies: 7
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| I read what you are saying, but I didn't entirely mean to bring societal roles into this, though maybe thats why I was lashing out then. I stood my ground, I guess I mean there was never a time where I wished I could be like other kids. It was a one way street - I'm not changing, how/why are you? Th... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Lack of sexual "projection". Please share thoughts |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2012, 12:35 am
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| Hi, I am a 22 year old guy with what I imagine is a relatively strange form of sexuality (though I'm hesitant to even call it a sexuality based on it's definition). This feels like an extraneous detail, but I am a virgin. I am not looking for advice regarding this. OK so here is where I think someth... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: how would YOU describe aspergers in 25 words or less. |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2012, 10:18 am
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Replies: 35
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| "Do I have to?". "Try/see/feel this doesn't that sound/look/feel weird? do it again and tomorrow". No party, I'll google. See music, 7hrs at piano. |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: The Synaesthesia Laboratory! |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2012, 10:59 am
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| Red and black, not mixed, separate in some distinct kind of way that's not a clean split. Stomach (anatomy) Also, I am reading a book on synaesthesia and it's probably the best one I've come across so far, I like how it's not a "pop-psychology" book, and has some real scientific substance: Wednesday... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Which sounds/noises do you find tolerable vs. intolerable? |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2012, 4:37 pm
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Replies: 33
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| 10/10: if you have the patience. Hypnotic. My ears pick up/create new sub-melodies every time I hear this. Just choose the notes you want to accentuate in the back of your mind and small little auditory nothings appear/disapear. Repetition is a lot less concrete than one may think, it leaves some ro... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Which sounds/noises do you find tolerable vs. intolerable? |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2012, 12:12 pm
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Replies: 33
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| ....That voice meant instant hysterical fear. I couldn't have been more scared if I was looking death in the face. I've gotten used to it over the years, but I still don't like it. It kind of makes me laugh to think about it now though, because I have no idea what makes it scary at all. That is how... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Which sounds/noises do you find tolerable vs. intolerable? |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2012, 1:31 am
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| I've never heard of this band. Freaky. No kidding. It's not a band though, and it's origin is also pretty freaky if your interested: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Numbers_station The most famous number station is probably UVB 76: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/UVB-76 Hear it live here: http://uvb-76.n... |
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