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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What's with my male coworker? |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2019, 8:24 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 952
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| Just seems like a person. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: New dating site strategy |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2019, 8:23 am
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Replies: 92
Views: 3,349
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Facebook is pretty fake. I really only use it now to waste time on groups. The internet in general is fake, so is real life. I keep to myself and tend to my plants.
Too much fake to deal with otherwise. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "You need to work on yourself!" |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2019, 7:16 am
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Replies: 494
Views: 14,958
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| I think that you should take HaleBopp's offer. It might turn into something more. I’m not interested in dating internet people, but I would like to be friends. You can meet a lot of aspies on Facebook, there are more groups there than here. You can also stop people you hate/hate you from seeing you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How are you gonna spend your valentines day? |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2019, 7:13 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 849
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| Worked, ate steamed vegetables, watched TV and played some video games. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate Asperger's and I want to kill myself |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 07 Feb 2019, 4:59 am
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Replies: 53
Views: 1,807
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| Me too. Sorry you feel that way, it’s awful. I can’t tell you how to feel better. But know you aren’t alone. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Taller Men |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2019, 5:39 am
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Replies: 80
Views: 3,695
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Wolfram87 wrote: I'm 1,2 cm short of being 6 feet tall. Does this explain my relative success compared to other aspie men, or my relative lack of success relative to other men in general?
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Taller Men |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2019, 5:22 pm
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Replies: 80
Views: 3,695
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| Overweight women should realise that it’s okay to ask about weight if they ask about height. Its not the first time I’ve seen women losing it over that after demanding height. I’ve been accused of being too fat after giving my dress size, and there is no point being offended as it’s personal prefere... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dont feel like being bothered? |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2019, 5:13 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 680
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It’s not really normal, but I’m the same. I deleted tinder again even though I had a heap of matches for the same reason.
It’s okay to be like that. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help me please |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2019, 8:32 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 1,695
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^ I’m more annoyed that she’s making excuses for this guy.
She will continue to get abuse if she’s okay with it. The guy won’t leave, he gets away with doing what he likes. She has to.
Aspergers isn’t an excuse for that behaviour. Though he seems more like a sociopath to me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help me please |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2019, 6:07 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 1,695
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| Get out. Trust me, I’ve been there. You think you’re happy but you’re in love with the idea of them, and how wonderful they would be if they didn’t do the hurtful things, not the abusive package they actually are. That idea is not real. The sooner you realise the sooner you will feel happiness again. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Anime convention experience ended in failure |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2019, 6:01 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 625
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| The fact you had conversations with people and a friend to go with is better than I would have done, I would have stood alone looking creepy. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My Relationship |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2019, 5:17 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,012
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That sounds a bit dodgy. The only phones without cameras now days are in museums.
I hope for your sake, I’m wrong. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Finding a prostitute to sleep with |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2019, 7:35 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 323
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| It’s because it’s about money, not any sort of relationship. Anyone can fake being interested in you if you pay them enough. Maybe try one of those sugar daddy websites. But to be honest with you, you’re going to just find gold diggers. You can’t buy real interest. But if you meet enough of them, yo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "You need to work on yourself!" |
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Posted: 27 Jan 2019, 5:44 pm
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Replies: 494
Views: 14,958
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| I don’t get what’s so bad about working on yourself. Clearly you aren’t happy with the way you are, so why wouldn’t you want to? It’s not to say change who you are, but learn new things, try new ways. It's not so much I think it's a bad thing. My mind just keeps telling me I am too "damaged&qu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "You need to work on yourself!" |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 26 Jan 2019, 3:02 am
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Replies: 494
Views: 14,958
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I don’t get what’s so bad about working on yourself. Clearly you aren’t happy with the way you are, so why wouldn’t you want to?
It’s not to say change who you are, but learn new things, try new ways. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I can't cope living where I am |
| hale_bopp |
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Posted: 23 Jan 2019, 4:42 am
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Replies: 31
Views: 787
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| I feel you. It sucks. Hope you’re ok. |
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