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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Creating a Penpals group |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2015, 9:18 pm
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Replies: 31
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I have looked for penpal sites and cannot find anything appropriate. I like your idea of starting one  |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Why do women give men blowjobs? |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2015, 9:44 pm
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Replies: 69
Views: 1,132
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| It turns me on and it gets him really prepared for other pleasures:-) |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Cuddling |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2015, 8:30 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 2,456
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| I like cuddling, but only with my husband. Cuddling is very intimate for me. I do not enjoy hugs for greetings or departures. I don't enjoy prolonged physical touch outside of being flirtatious or sexual intimacy. Being leaned on, hung on or held is very uncomfortable for me. Only my husband can do ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Poll: Migraine and Autism - Aspergers |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2015, 7:42 am
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Replies: 70
Views: 15,957
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Does anyone else ever get headaches when they talk too much?[/quote]
Yes. I get headaches from talking too much. The over stimulation causes fatigue followed by the anxiety of wishing I hadn't talked so much.  |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Help please - undiag AS, cheating, low-sex |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2015, 8:08 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 122
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| Are you willing to sacrifice the rest of your life to keep him pacified for the rest of his life? |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Do you like to eat olives |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2015, 6:49 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,016
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| I love olives. Especially with extra sharp cheddar cheese. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is eating the same things over and over an Aspie thing? |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 10 Mar 2015, 9:51 pm
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Replies: 114
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| I'm glad to hear about this. My husband jokes with me about it. I can eat the same thing everyday. I can actually eat my favorite foods every meal. I don't cook much for my husband. It is too much pressure to plan and present a meal. I'll eat my favorite foods together, even though they don't typica... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: What did you want to be as a kid |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2015, 12:26 am
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Replies: 434
Views: 34,693
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| Astronaut. I became an Accountant. They both start with A |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Masturbation Addiction help |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 16 Feb 2015, 9:12 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 532
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| If you are going to be obsessive with masturbation try to keep from damaging yourself. Drink a large glass of water afterward to help prevent cystitis or urinary tract infection. These infections are bacterial and stick within the urinary tract. Water helps flush out any bacteria. Also, never hold i... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Do I look part Cherokee? |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2015, 9:57 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,266
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| Yes you do. For those of us who are familiar your native ancestry is evident. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: aspie girlfriend |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2014, 8:16 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,348
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| Chart her meltdowns on a calendar. Seriously. You may find a pattern. I suspect her meltdowns are worse during hormonal fluctuations. Believe me, I live it and it took me years to figure this out about myself. If you see a pattern at least you can be prepared for her meltdown. Perhaps you can be a c... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Is it demeaning to women when fantasize and masturbate? |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 29 Nov 2014, 10:31 pm
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Replies: 47
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| No. What you fantasize is personal to you. Demeaning anyone only occurs in reality. Just know the difference between fantasy and reality. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Gonna be honest with you guys: Impotence |
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Posted: 29 Nov 2014, 10:20 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 193
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It‘s best to know, rather than not know. Just find out what‘s going on. It maybe nothing or something very simple. Your future partner/s will appreciate that you understand yourself. I don‘t want to meddle too much  |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Help! I think I am in love with my friend. |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 29 Nov 2014, 9:53 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 188
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| There is nothing wrong with asking her for a coffee. Just be careful not to be over emotional. You may not like her as well over time, but it is perfectly acceptable to get to know someone (if they accept). It is ok to fantasize about her, even if nothing comes of it. Realize that your fantasy of he... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Did you feel morally dirty after masturbation? |
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Posted: 29 Nov 2014, 2:17 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 861
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| Christian here. Spouses are not to withhold sex unless they both agree and then only for a short time. My husband could care less about sex (meds/stress/chronic prostatitis). So mastubation is my only sexual outlet. I do not feel guilty. I just wish I had someone who loved my body as much as I do. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Gonna be honest with you guys: Impotence |
| Zilphy |
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Posted: 29 Nov 2014, 1:58 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 193
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| Medication, stress, low testosterone and physical illness can cause impotence. Male testosterone levels are highest in the morning, that‘s when erections should be the strongest. Go see a competent urologist as soon as possible. This is unusual at your age. Do not let it slide. If you have a health ... |
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