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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: i don't know how i should deal with my ex

Posted: 15 Jan 2014, 1:11 pm 

Replies: 15
Views: 1,202


Trust your instincts. This guy sounds completely cold and heartless, and he is only interested in being with you in order to upset you. A nice person would make you feel good about yourself if he wanted you back. Be polite and say its best for both of you this way and that you know there is someone ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Keeping a girl interested is a monumental feat

Posted: 15 Jan 2014, 12:15 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 697


It could be a lack of connecting with her....I have that issue as a girl, which wasn't so bad when I was younger. I used to be able to just be flirty and cute (but still awkward, drinking a little too much to feel comfortable with eye contact and still talking too much), and the guy would look past ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Keeping a girl interested is a monumental feat

Posted: 15 Jan 2014, 12:07 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 697


It could be a lack of connecting with her....I have that issue as a girl, which wasn't so bad when I was younger. I used to be able to just be flirty and cute (but still awkward, drinking a little too much to feel comfortable with eye contact and still talking too much), and the guy would look past ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: new relationship

Posted: 15 Jan 2014, 11:32 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 991


Please give him a chance. Talk to him, maybe lay things out, because perhaps he doesn't know. All I know is I find when I fancy some woman, I yearn, yearn, yearn to know what they feel about me. I just want someone to say they like me. And I'd do anything...ANYTHING to get into a relationship with ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I don't understand. Thoughts?

Posted: 15 Jan 2014, 11:23 am 

Replies: 30
Views: 1,804


So she didn't respond to your text...?...it is possible she didn't get it and a lot of girls don't want to be the aggressive one to just contact you after meeting in person. And I can relate to feeling frustrated and lost with the...what the heck did I do wrong...?....I'm typically left to figure it...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: No sex after great sex?

Posted: 13 Jan 2014, 2:02 pm 

Replies: 48
Views: 6,309


This sounds like a pretty tough situation, and I honestly don't know based on what you've described. Some guys will with hold sex as a powerplay (which of course is abusive), but in that instance he would let you what he wanted from you. Is this typical of him in relationships? The sex and desire to...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Okcupid problems...

Posted: 13 Jan 2014, 1:51 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 1,088


Yeah I constantly have to remind myself to not be too honest. A general but true response to his question would have been sufficient. I always think in terms of how much info is ok for now. I'm being honest in what I'm saying but I'm not tell him everything as it comes up. Just small pieces of info ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Difficulty knowing when to make a move

Posted: 13 Jan 2014, 1:40 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 4,066


It is really tough for me to tell if a guy is interested, but I have gotten better with practice. It took me decades to understand that when a guy is trying to be my friend he is really interested in fooling around and maybe dating but not so big on the friend part. Just as an example. With the kiss...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why is this the case?

Posted: 13 Jan 2014, 1:22 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 1,410


A lot of theories on this out there...if you look cross culturally, some cultures will have a certain sector of the population show deference in public to another sector, but then the roles are often switched around at home. So while the man might hold the door or pull out the chair for the woman in...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Okcupid problems...

Posted: 13 Jan 2014, 1:07 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 1,088


I'm sorry to hear about his response. A lot of people have similar views of the mental health profession and believe they pathologize individuals/society. However, his response sounds really cold and judgemental, and if it were me I would take that as an indication of the type of person he is. Not o...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dating Report 3

Posted: 13 Jan 2014, 12:54 pm 

Replies: 24
Views: 4,801


I to am in love with the prospect of falling in love...of how I can relate... So I'm guessing you didn't ask her at the end of date one if she would like to get together again? That's typical, but not a big deal if you didn't. It might actually make her more interested. I would say send her a messag...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: new relationship

Posted: 13 Jan 2014, 12:48 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 991


Please give him a chance. Talk to him, maybe lay things out, because perhaps he doesn't know. All I know is I find when I fancy some woman, I yearn, yearn, yearn to know what they feel about me. I just want someone to say they like me. And I'd do anything...ANYTHING to get into a relationship with ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: new relationship

Posted: 09 Jan 2014, 4:51 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 991


I know...I sound neurotic don't I...?...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why is this the case?

Posted: 09 Jan 2014, 4:49 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 611


I don't know. Girls being the social experts want guys who meet their social requirements? Can you talk to girls okay..? Do you have any female friends?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How creepy am I?

Posted: 09 Jan 2014, 4:44 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 1,329


People who write books want people to read them. ; ) I would say read the book in school and see if she asks you about it. Its a pretty old fashioned and rather sophisticated way to possibly get a girl's attention. If you try to approach her about it, it can be more complicated to navigate successfu...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How these trashy men even get into relationships?

Posted: 09 Jan 2014, 3:22 pm 

Replies: 62
Views: 3,409


I mean he has NO friends, doesn't socialize and doesn't work (hasn't worked for 6 years and fears returning and having to tell people this). He tells me he does not think people or work will benefit him. This is pretty unusual behaviour you have to admit... and add to this the fact he is anxious, h...
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