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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: W: Invasion of Iraq "Unjustified" lol |
| MaxE |
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:24 am
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Replies: 3
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Does anyone here believe they've been used for sex? |
| MaxE |
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Posted: Yesterday, 5:42 am
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Replies: 14
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| Having women straight up ask you for sex? You must be pretty good looking for women to be forward with you, especially if it happens on multiple occasions. I guess some have found me attractive. I wasn't in big demand in college but I had a lot of competition. I have to confess that things seemed t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Almost Cried In Front Of Coworkers |
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Posted: 17 May 2022, 12:32 pm
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Replies: 13
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| I think they'll feel bad if they feel responsible for making you cry. I hope today is going better for you! I just feel bad for possibly making them feel bad. :( I also stayed home today because I'm sick, and honestly I really didn't want to go after yesterday, so I'm glad I had to stay home. I'll ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Almost Cried In Front Of Coworkers |
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Posted: 17 May 2022, 11:51 am
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Replies: 13
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| I think they'll feel bad if they feel responsible for making you cry. I hope today is going better for you! |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate being white!! |
| MaxE |
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Posted: 17 May 2022, 9:40 am
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Replies: 114
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| Michael Jackson looked much better when he was natural, with dark skin and a wide nose. The way he looked after all his surgeries……was ghostly and grotesque. I can recall hearing or reading that MJ wanted to look like Diana Ross who is light complexioned but not actually white. The skin color thing... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Does anyone here believe they've been used for sex? |
| MaxE |
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Posted: 17 May 2022, 8:59 am
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Replies: 14
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Fnord wrote: She used me for sex; I used her for room and board. So what?
If everybody involved knows the score, then no harm no foul. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Does anyone here believe they've been used for sex? |
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Posted: 17 May 2022, 6:19 am
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Replies: 14
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| I've thought about it and I think I can explain how I was used. I took part in a university run summer program when I was 23. I started hitting on a young female participant (a year or two younger) i.e. just chatting her up and hanging around her - nothing creepy. After a couple of days, she suddenl... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How to foreplay |
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Posted: 16 May 2022, 2:48 pm
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Replies: 15
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BlossX wrote: How to foreplay?
Kindly ask your partner if you can, start with something soft and proceed to harder stuff
Not sure what "harder" stuff would be but I don't think it's part of the picture in this case. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How to foreplay |
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Posted: 16 May 2022, 6:19 am
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Replies: 15
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| Some suggestions: Take off your clothes before beginning so there are no issues with your partner trying fumbling with them during the session. Keep the lighting low as none of us look as good naked at 40 as we did at 20. Begin by making out in the usual way, getting yourself ready to be touched. Wh... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Does anyone here believe they've been used for sex? |
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Posted: 14 May 2022, 7:50 pm
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Replies: 14
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| There's been a couple situations where I've been "used" for the sexual gratification of someone else. I don't think it full on "traumatized" me, since I did agree to it, though I realized later on that I was pressured to do it, which makes me uncomfortable when I think about it ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: War in Ukraine: both sides are wrong |
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Posted: 14 May 2022, 5:41 pm
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Replies: 222
Views: 2,112
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| There was a strong interest among Iraqis to depose Hussein, establish a democracy, and open up friendly relations with the West. It was easy to get control over and occupy Iraq with minimal loss of life. That’s just how you fight a war. You do what it takes to win. As to whether the US was right to... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Does anyone here believe they've been used for sex? |
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Posted: 14 May 2022, 3:22 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Depending on how you would define that. I have the impression that women on the spectrum are more concerned about being used for sex than women in the general population. And what qualifies as being used for sex? I would suggest that it has to involve some degree of deceit on the part of the user. A... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: War in Ukraine: both sides are wrong |
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Posted: 14 May 2022, 2:53 pm
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Replies: 222
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| how important it is to understand Putin's point of view in this situation. It's important in order to predict his next move. Well that's an obvious reason to pay attention to whatever Putin does, but I leave that to the Intelligence ministries and would prefer to discuss something else at the dinne... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: War in Ukraine: both sides are wrong |
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Posted: 14 May 2022, 2:21 pm
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Replies: 222
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| I never said I agree with it, just like I never said that I didn't. Because ultimately, whether that assertion is true or not, is a moot point. The part that is not moot is whether or not one country is allowed to set up special operations in the other country if the other country does something wr... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Ever Lost a Friend Because of Autism? |
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Posted: 14 May 2022, 2:10 pm
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Replies: 26
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| I would say yes although I've never had many close friends. When I was (I guess) 23 I was in college (after having left and come back) and I became very close friends with this 16-year-old gay kid. To be clear, there was never anything remotely sexual between us, but sometimes I wondered if I was so... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How much to give up in a relationship? |
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Posted: 14 May 2022, 12:17 pm
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Replies: 27
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| Whether giving up is the issue or not, in my opinion you should simply move forward i.e. plan to get married, I mean set a date and place and make the necessary practical arrangements. I happen to think marriage is more than just romance and happily ever after, it's also to some extent a business ar... |
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