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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm worried about becoming a terrible husband/father |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2013, 7:39 am
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Replies: 25
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| I have very similar concerns, albeit not to the extent of worrying about physically abusing the kids involved. But I imagine I'll quite likely not be kind of parent a child needs- patient, affectionate, encouraging and such. And I know the impact that that has on a child, given that I am the result ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Surprise Aspie breakup |
| TM1337FalconPunch |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 12:27 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 2,798
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| DISCLAIMER: sorry for the length of my posts guys, I've got a lot going through my mind and it is helping to put it on paper. I'll format the important bits which I want to discuss with bold to highlight them. YES YES YES it all makes sense now! The relationship became stagnant because we both felt... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Rape |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 11:37 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 963
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| I think in all 3 situations the personal responsibility lies with both parties equally. However the blame (which is not the same) would lie more with the party most conscious of their actions in these situations, given that as the more compus mentus person they have a greater moral responsibility (... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Rape |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 10:48 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 963
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| I think in all 3 situations the personal responsibility lies with both parties equally. However the blame (which is not the same) would lie more with the party most conscious of their actions in these situations, given that as the more compus mentus person they have a greater moral responsibility (... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any athiest or agnostic women? |
| TM1337FalconPunch |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 10:33 am
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Replies: 42
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Misslizard wrote: ^^^That's why you smoke after. 
Or just not at all  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any athiest or agnostic women? |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 10:01 am
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Replies: 42
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Misslizard wrote: TM1337FalconPunch wrote: trollcatman wrote:
What use are weekends when you can't drink or smoke?
Weekends where you have sex instead? Why not all three?Sex first,than a cig and a nice cold beer.
I'd like to be able to have my circulation running at maximum capacity when indulging in such activity, for obvious reasons. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Rape |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 9:56 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 963
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| I think in all 3 situations the personal responsibility lies with both parties equally. However the blame (which is not the same) would lie more with the party most conscious of their actions in these situations, given that as the more compus mentus person they have a greater moral responsibility (... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Rape |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 9:09 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 963
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| I think in all 3 situations the personal responsibility lies with both parties equally. However the blame (which is not the same) would lie more with the party most conscious of their actions in these situations, given that as the more compus mentus person they have a greater moral responsibility (... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Rape |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 7:19 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 963
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| I think in all 3 situations the personal responsibility lies with both parties equally. However the blame (which is not the same) would lie more with the party most conscious of their actions in these situations, given that as the more compus mentus person they have a greater moral responsibility (a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any athiest or agnostic women? |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 6:48 am
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Replies: 42
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trollcatman wrote:
What use are weekends when you can't drink or smoke?
Weekends where you have sex instead? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: online flirting w/other ppl okay if you're in relationship? |
| TM1337FalconPunch |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2013, 2:52 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,570
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| No, no and no. It's just not cool. DOn't send out messages of availability if you're not available. Thats how you hurt people. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How far gone am I? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2013, 9:23 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 5,463
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| If you think 300$ an hour is an equitable compromise to your inability to form a connection with girls with less than a DD cup size then I think you are pretty far gone. Yeah pretty much this. I think there's probably a problem beyond ASD/social awkwardness driving this. You're going to need profes... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Reasons why I never will have a boyfriend.What do you think? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2013, 9:07 am
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Replies: 72
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| I cant speak for everyone else, but here's what I'd be thinking if I were considering dating you (based on whats written here)- 1.everyone hates me. People are conceited, I don't value their opinions 2.I have difficult character. I seem to end up with high maintenance girls, so that's not a problem ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Interesting |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2013, 6:27 am
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Replies: 18
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| I get the impression you're more interested in the prospect of being with a guy than actually being with the guy. Given that, dating him probably won't yield anything worthwhile aside from a mental note to "never do that again ever". Don't let the thought "an attractive person is flirting with me" t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: is this empathy? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2013, 6:10 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 952
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Yes, it is. It's sympathy we lack, not empathy, as far as I'm concerned.
And empathy is better :p |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you ever date someone you are not attracted too? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2013, 4:28 am
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Replies: 31
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| If there's no physical attraction, I wouldn't call it dating. I'd call it a platonic friendship. http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/demisexuality You may be confusing physical attraction with sexual attraction there. I would agree if you said sexual attraction, but physical attraction is just one way to... |
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