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 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Systems…

 Post subject: Re: Systems…
Posted: 20 Jul 2021, 7:33 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 268

People have designed mechanical systems and electrical systems. However, when one designs human systems (collectivism), one exposes intrinsic human flaws. These are often attempted to control with force which gives collectives such a bad reputation.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Dealing with info dump..???! !

Posted: 19 Jul 2021, 6:27 am 

Replies: 4
Views: 162

I tend to dump a lot of information at once. I only slowly realized that while I would appreciate such an efficient transmission of information, many others do not. It can be difficult to take a lot of information in, particularly if there is emotional content to it. The person who has the informati...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Conformity

 Post subject: Re: Conformity
Posted: 17 Jul 2021, 1:18 pm 

Replies: 97
Views: 13,828

Are Aspies less likely to conform than NTs? What does everyone else think? We may be less likely to conform as a means to achieve acceptance. However, as the years pass and society becomes more "trigger happy". One learns to check reflexive comments so as to avoid drawing fire. This can a...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: Teaching "social skills" at home

Posted: 16 Jul 2021, 9:42 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 126

"Social skills" at school are often a type of peer social dependency. Home schooled kids are often much better at social skills across various age groups. You might consider if he would be interested in; Civil Air Patrol Ham radio 4H/FFA Rodeo Any of numerous volunteer work League bowling ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Best careers for Aspies

 Post subject: Re: Best careers for Aspies
Posted: 16 Jul 2021, 9:36 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 243

If you are an extrovert (which some aspies are), sales might be a fit.

If you are an introvert, IT, Medicine, mechanic, or any work that is more one your own.

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: The hurtful things people say...

Posted: 15 Jul 2021, 1:56 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 226

Sometime in communication with someone we have a relationship with, we can get caught off guard. However, it can sometimes be useful to inquire further to clarify. In the situation you cite with your husband, you might have asked if he thinks you are as unrestrained as you once were and if he sees n...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Anxiety issues over "small" things

Posted: 15 Jul 2021, 1:42 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 266

There are things you can change and things you cannot. For sleep sound issues. I leave a fan running all night. This works wonders to drawn out other sounds. In order to develop the skills to overcome some annoyances, you can use a repetitive situation as an opportunity to experiment with different ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: How many ppl on the spectrum get married? are you Christians

Posted: 15 Jul 2021, 1:32 pm 

Replies: 12
Views: 339

I didn't get married until I was 43. I am a Christian. I think that my development was delayed and marriage at a younger age would not have been wise for me.

 Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion   Topic: Critical Race Theory pt A. What is it? Why teach it?

Posted: 15 Jul 2021, 1:26 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 315

Critical Race Theory is only one of any one of a number of "theories" that derive from the Critical Theory construct developed by the Frankfurt Institute in Germany in the 1920s. The Frankfurt Institute was established to make Marxist objectives more achievable. It was becoming obvious tha...

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: New here

 Post subject: Re: New here
Posted: 14 Jul 2021, 6:44 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 209

One thing that may help is to provide a consequence for bad behavior. For example, if you have him sit on a chair for 10 minutes (which can seem a long time to him) for breaking something. You can also ask him if he knows why he is sitting on the chair. This verbal inquiry can reinforce the impressi...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Criticism on "talking too close" behaviour?

Posted: 12 Jul 2021, 6:39 am 

Replies: 2
Views: 120

Forty years ago I had an employee complain to me about a guy from another department that would stand too close when he talked to her. I asked the guy to stop by my office and I asked him if he had ever heard of the subject of personal body space. He had not. It is always difficult to bring up a sub...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: I’m not autistic I have Aspergers

Posted: 11 Jul 2021, 6:53 am 

Replies: 36
Views: 789

Harry, I am not sure the people sitting around the table have as their primary motive wanting to be useful. There may be elements of ego and a desire to control others that factor in. However, one cannot rule out the financial aspect. A broader category that sounds more threatening would certainly b...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Moderately Severe Chronic Insomnia

Posted: 07 Jul 2021, 5:47 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 209

Some people find the supplement GABA helpful.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Childhood Story and Personal Account of Selective Mutism

Posted: 01 Jul 2021, 6:58 am 

Replies: 4
Views: 177

My two daughters had SM. It is definitely related to anxiety. Your work with the kid in Kindergarten shows how one can transition someone by reducing anxiety. Since it has been decided that an industrial approach to mass education is to be followed, we should expect that there will be those who are ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Adult Aspergers

 Post subject: Re: Adult Aspergers
Posted: 28 Jun 2021, 12:55 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 282

The Tony Attwood videos on Youtube can be helpful. Also the is a free pdf booklet that might be of interest here; ... e_2017.pdf

 Forum: Parents' Discussion   Topic: What's your opinion on physical punishment for kids

Posted: 27 Jun 2021, 6:55 am 

Replies: 35
Views: 762

We would give out children a choice of three swats on the hand with a wooden paint stirrer (low mass) or five minutes sitting on a chair. They always selected the three swats ( I suppose because it was over the quickest.) It helps to see children not as objects upon which to vent anger, but as that ...
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