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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Disappointed in myself... |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 11:35 pm
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Replies: 15
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| I'm not sure what to say other than I have gone through, and am still going through, feeling much as you describe. I am disappointed in myself, almost every major life decision I have ever taken has proved to be a mistake, so I have lost faith in my own judgement completely. I hope things get better... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I will not have children because I dont want to spead AS |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2010, 7:55 pm
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Replies: 68
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| Good taste in music, mechanicalgirl39. If you do want kids you shouldn't refrain from having them in case they had AS. AS isn't the end of the world in itself. You don't HAVE to let those kids go through school and get bullied half to death and their mind and emotions broken. You can teach them at h... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I will not have children because I dont want to spead AS |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2010, 11:26 pm
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Replies: 68
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| The numerical probability of aspie reproduction says absolutely nothing of the ultimate potential of their genetic superiority over the average mindless and witless NT who doesn't even know how to survive in this world without receiving paid orders from someone greater than he. On the contrary, it ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I will not have children because I dont want to spead AS |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2010, 10:24 pm
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Replies: 68
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| I guess I'm selfish for wanting to have cool and quirky kids. Who fits in in the world anyways? There's only one person with a standard deviation of zero. Therefore, I think that they're the weirdest person of them all! There's my stats joke for the day lol. I think that more people are getting dia... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Repairing a Friendship |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2010, 10:07 pm
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Replies: 8
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| I've been sort of on the other side of this behaviour - of being stood up, etc by people I considered, to different degrees, friends. I must admit I never forgave any of them - this is not to say I hate them, or I see them as enemies, of anything, simply I don't regard them as friends and have no in... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I will not have children because I dont want to spead AS |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2010, 9:35 pm
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Replies: 68
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| I guess I'm selfish for wanting to have cool and quirky kids. Who fits in in the world anyways? There's only one person with a standard deviation of zero. Therefore, I think that they're the weirdest person of them all! There's my stats joke for the day lol. I think that more people are getting dia... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To Date or Not to Date |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2010, 3:34 am
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Replies: 31
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| I've completely given up. Spare me the fights and disappointments, the rejection and the breakups, the drama, etc. Yes, I know I will end up very, very alone - but I don't think it would be any different if I didn't give up, the only difference would be a lot more bitterness and frustration. My only... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: domestic violence- need to understand |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2010, 10:30 pm
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Replies: 29
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| Let's be logical about this: presumably, these men who have hit you had he option of ending the relationship - if you weren't pointing a gun at their heads, or had them chained in the basement, they had this option, period, Now, if what they're saying were true, that you humiliated them or whatever,... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: What movies have you seen recently? |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2010, 11:08 pm
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| Inspector Bellamy. Worst Chabrol film ever. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Are friendships temporary? |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2010, 1:24 am
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Replies: 23
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Moog wrote: Nothing is permanent. Don't worry about the duration of the friendship, focus on enjoying it to it's maximum while it is in effect.
Yep. It's best to enjoy them while they last, and when they end, accept it and move on. Just because they're temporary doesn't mean they're worthless. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What's the last weirdest dream you had? |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2010, 12:28 am
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| It's got to be one in which I was a kid waiting, along with other children, for my turn to be asked some sort of theological question, to be tortured on a vertical version of the rack if I didn't give the desired answer, with someone whispering to me that nobody could actually endure it, the only qu... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Moral questions about aspies/auties having children together |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2010, 10:35 pm
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Replies: 37
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| Let's see, apart from AS, diabetes and Alzheimer's run in the family. So I personally don't feel I should pass on my genes, the world is overpopulated enough as it is. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Living Abroad (as a Coping Mechanism) |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2010, 1:30 am
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Replies: 70
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| France: Paris is by far the most hostile place I've ever been to. Speaking French isn't necessarily a huge advantage, as it means you can understand the insults. Urban mentality has nothing to do with it, other cities, even bigger ones, aren't like that. I wouldn't dream of living there. Are you im... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I am a single male and I want a baby. |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2010, 12:13 am
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Replies: 34
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| I wonder about those who ask aspergian_mutant why he wants a baby, I mean, if he had been a girl, I doubt he would have got that question? Or maybe I am just guessing wildly... but I think it's a funny question, to ask why, because isn't that a natural thing to want? (I'm not saying that people who... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: What movies have you seen recently? |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2010, 12:44 am
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Replies: 20,195
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| Grbavica - Land of Dreams. It's pretty good. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Favorite quotes, sayings. |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2010, 11:09 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,719
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Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing. |
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