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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My heart is broken

 Post subject: Re: My heart is broken
Posted: Today, 1:19 am 

Replies: 21
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Ok. I slept most of the day and ate a whole cake by myself. What type of cake? :D Cheesecake is my Achilles heel, I figure that on the days that my appetite is affected by depression any food is better than no food, I usually take a multivitamin "to add more value" to my diet that day lol...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My heart is broken

 Post subject: Re: My heart is broken
Posted: 18 May 2019, 5:16 pm 

Replies: 21
Views: 272


I keep trying to distract myself, but it keeps creeping up on me and I just sit and cry. I've never had anyone be this interested in me. Then to have it suddenly stop is devastating. I know this happens to people all the time and I should cope better, but it's so difficult for me to find people I g...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Sleep Hygiene

 Post subject: Re: Sleep Hygiene
Posted: 18 May 2019, 3:24 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 283


Had terrors as a child and paralysis in early adulthood.
The paralysis was the typical experience, I couldn't move and was certain that there was a demon of some description sitting on my chest though I could only see an outline.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: What do you do when you feel your mental health slipping?

Posted: 18 May 2019, 2:49 pm 

Replies: 17
Views: 164


I try to be kinder to myself, to balance out the building negativity. I do some things I enjoy, baths, massage, being outdoors being with animals, more so of late I've been considering returning to yoga to help with mind body regulation. Once i recognise what is happening it can feel like I've been ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Being disliked hurts

 Post subject: Re: Being disliked hurts
Posted: 18 May 2019, 7:53 am 

Replies: 237
Views: 3,703


SaveFerris wrote:
I think I've said all I need to on the matter. It's not a discussion any more.


Quote:
The only reason I wanted to become a mod is to make this a safer place for all.


It's not a job I could do, and it sickens me to see your energy being taken for granted.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Being disliked hurts

 Post subject: Re: Being disliked hurts
Posted: 18 May 2019, 7:35 am 

Replies: 237
Views: 3,703


We move together or we fall apart as a community. Apart from Alex , moderators are the only members allowed to interpret the rules in a way they see fit. Members don't get to decide if there posts are fine or not. Do you think I am trying to destroy the community or something by calling out a few m...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Being disliked hurts

 Post subject: Re: Being disliked hurts
Posted: 18 May 2019, 7:13 am 

Replies: 237
Views: 3,703


For tolerance and inclusion to work people need to realise when boundaries are being crossed. If they won't or cant understand where those boundaries are , then they have to have it spelled out to them. The boundaries part is also a two way piece. It's like the person shouting the loudest always ge...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Being disliked hurts

 Post subject: Re: Being disliked hurts
Posted: 18 May 2019, 6:55 am 

Replies: 237
Views: 3,703


I don't believe it's possible for anyone to be receptive to advice until they have fully accepted their situation. Ive learned that the hard way... The person doesnt intend to take other autistic people for granted, but that is the tangeable effect they have on me. I've seen it here with other poste...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Honestly... Aspie or not?

Posted: 18 May 2019, 12:27 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 365


As an adult woman, in your financial situation i wouldnt persue an official diagnosis. It is a luxury for those adults who have the means. From what I recall you tend to have more pressing matters to deal with such as security/basic human needs, food shelter etc. I've read your posts and I couldn't ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: I Learned Something New Today!

Posted: 17 May 2019, 11:34 am 

Replies: 29
Views: 315


Wow, you guys are in trouble. There must not be much emphasis on critical thinking in the US primary and secondary education... We had a similar heartbeat rule here based on the 1861 legislation passed under British rule, but even with that regressive policy ending ectopic pregnancies was not consid...

 Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion   Topic: A defense of marriage

 Post subject: Re: A defense of marriage
Posted: 15 May 2019, 2:36 pm 

Replies: 145
Views: 2,134


I'm in the 'stay together because of love category', work through the challenges together and never take the other person for granted, no need to conform to a predetermined understanding of a relationship ... Ive done the marriage and the religion bit, no thanks, not to be repeated. Didn't do the su...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I professional zoned him

Posted: 13 May 2019, 4:48 pm 

Replies: 82
Views: 1,115


Face of Boo, I made the Professional Zoned part up. I talked to a good friend last night who I have known since high school and she said that it sounded like it was a form of sexual harassment by giving my a nice room for sexual favors in return which I would never do with anyone who works at a hot...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I professional zoned him

Posted: 13 May 2019, 4:10 pm 

Replies: 82
Views: 1,115


Face of Boo, I made the Professional Zoned part up. :lol: I talked to a good friend last night who I have known since high school and she said that it sounded like it was a form of sexual harassment by giving my a nice room for sexual favors in return which I would never do with anyone who works at...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I professional zoned him

Posted: 13 May 2019, 3:53 pm 

Replies: 82
Views: 1,115


Quote:
How do you know this.? Do you exactly how the upgrade was processed or what oppoval or authority was given for this of upgrades in general

That is a fair point, there are a few assumptions due to gaps in the information.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I professional zoned him

Posted: 13 May 2019, 3:31 pm 

Replies: 82
Views: 1,115


The chap will have been fired by now, there would be too much of a chance that he could ruin the hotels reputation... He took a risk with someone else's business and I have to agree that the outcome is not on you. There is no way of knowing his intentions, but there were some negative signs, such as...
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