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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Had a "maybe-date-maybe-not" - what do I do? |
| businezguy |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2014, 2:34 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,217
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| Keeping asking to see her. She will get the idea that you are interested in her and she can decide from there. I think there is a very good chance she will say yes. I also see a lot of overthinking coming from you out of this. This, which by the way is what I suggested as well. Ask her to do someth... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I tell my ex I'm leaving? |
| businezguy |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2014, 8:58 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,265
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| I agree with the folks who are saying just leave, and don't contact him. You are over him, now put him behind you forever and move on with your life. May sound cold, but it isn't. It's pretty normal. If this was the 70s, there wouldn't be Facebook and cell phones, etc. anyway. Just because we have s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Had a "maybe-date-maybe-not" - what do I do? |
| businezguy |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2014, 8:02 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,217
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| I think she is trying to determine if she likes you as more then a friend. I'm telling you dude, three hours of spending time with somebody and then inviting them out for dinner, that's not something you'd normally do with a "friend". So just to be clear, I don't think she's madly in love with you, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I need some dating advice from women |
| businezguy |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2014, 7:35 am
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Replies: 88
Views: 4,239
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| So today is date night #1, and the second date with the lady who is the basis of this thread. I'm a bit nervous, but at least I took as many steps as I felt I could to make an impression. I've been going to the gym 6 days a week, and unlike the past I've been systematically lifting for each area of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Banned from POF |
| businezguy |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2014, 7:26 am
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Replies: 130
Views: 10,442
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| I know this won't be very helpful in your situation, and I'm sorry about how things went down. FTR, I hate, Hate, HATE condoms, too. My wife decided after we had our first child there would be no more birth control. I didn't like it, but I respected her decision. Some 9 months later, we were really... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Had a "maybe-date-maybe-not" - what do I do? |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2014, 10:08 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,217
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| This girl has spent a lot of time with you, FMX. She spent over 3 hours with you, and not tired of your company, she invited you to dinner. She let you pay the bill, and when the waiter referring to her as your date, and you didn't hear him, she repeated what she said and used the word, "date". I th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: sex and AS--performance anxiety |
| businezguy |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2014, 9:54 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 3,350
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| You're welcome. You kids have fun. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: sex and AS--performance anxiety |
| businezguy |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2014, 9:02 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 3,350
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| Sorry for the graphic nature of this reply. I can't say I have an issue with premature ejaculation, but I'm not going on 21 either. :( With that said, I have methods I use to extend the length of sex, because I like to extend the amount of time I spend going things I enjoy. I would recommend he lear... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would Anyone Want Me?? |
| businezguy |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2014, 9:51 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 795
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| I don't feel qualified to answer your question, but I really wish you lived near me. I'd teach you how to drive. I've had the opportunity to do it before, and one kid I taught was really nervous. Oh well, if you ever find yourself in Colorado, look me up. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I need some dating advice from women |
| businezguy |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2014, 9:47 pm
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Replies: 88
Views: 4,239
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| There are a couple of women that I hinted around that you might best ignore. I hope you haven't let their "advice" cause you any problems. You gave some very useful advice, and I was able to selectively pick advice from those who posted. By piecing together the advice, I was able to figure out a wa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: so if you didn't feel like you had to get a girl.... |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2014, 5:45 pm
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Replies: 634
Views: 125,729
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| BG, have you tried to date single moms? They might be more understanding to your situation and are already moms, so the mom role idea wouldn't freak them as much; nor it would scare you to become a dad figure for her child. And I guess there are more single moms than single dads, more options for y... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I need some dating advice from women |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2014, 5:01 pm
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Replies: 88
Views: 4,239
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| Thanks for the encouragement, totally appreciated. Maybe this is a sign, but I don't feel like I have the rapport with this lady that you have with your girlfriend. She seems to be the type who, if I asked, would try to be discreet which is nice and fine, but I'd not understand the hidden meaning b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: so if you didn't feel like you had to get a girl.... |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2014, 10:14 am
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Replies: 634
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| 2- Many guys here in this thread have said no, and explained they want a partner for other reasons (ie. need for companionship). Yes, and I've acknowledged this, and asked followup questions, which have been graciously answered. Several posters have also commented on the validity of the idea in the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I need some dating advice from women |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2014, 9:41 am
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Replies: 88
Views: 4,239
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| Thanks for the encouragement, totally appreciated. Maybe this is a sign, but I don't feel like I have the rapport with this lady that you have with your girlfriend. She seems to be the type who, if I asked, would try to be discreet which is nice and fine, but I'd not understand the hidden meaning b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I need some dating advice from women |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2014, 7:13 am
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Replies: 88
Views: 4,239
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| Thanks for the encouragement, totally appreciated. Maybe this is a sign, but I don't feel like I have the rapport with this lady that you have with your girlfriend. She seems to be the type who, if I asked, would try to be discreet which is nice and fine, but I'd not understand the hidden meaning be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Flirting can never work on me now |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2014, 6:20 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,420
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| Hey FMX, maybe she thought you're gay? The thought had occurred to me, though I don't know why she would think that. Anyway, I made sure to mention (on two separate occasions) that I'm not. :) Aspie1 , yes, that makes some sense, I guess. What you describe does sound similar. But it just confirms w... |
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