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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Ass or Bewbies? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2015, 4:28 pm
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Replies: 102
Views: 936
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| I'm a female and I like both equally. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do Aspies want in relationships? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2015, 8:23 am
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Replies: 83
Views: 5,430
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| Besides, the evidence that looks and intelligence are not important in neurodiverse courtship is that I've had girls that were a lot more attractive than me show interest in me, and I've shown interest in girls that were less attractive and intelligent. Therefore, it's not a market of looks and int... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: On Dating Aspie Girls |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2015, 11:45 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,314
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| I think the lack of compatibility has more to do with personality types rather than them being Aspie or NT. For example: while I am a female on the spectrum with sensory issues, I do enjoy some touching, affection, and expression of feelings with a romantic partner. I should add that my mbti type is... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Multiple crushes or one crush at a time? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2015, 6:04 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 1,003
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Do you have crushes on different people going on at the same time or do you crush on only one person at a time?
I fall into the latter. I can only focus on one person at a time. My crush on a person can last years, unless of course that person turns out to be a terrible person.
Which type are you? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is life worth living when you're too ugly for girls? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2015, 3:40 am
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Replies: 41
Views: 19,609
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| You're not ugly. As a female, I can attest to that. Your difficulties lie in your lack of social skills and lack of self esteem. Those are the areas that you should be focused on. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women like shy men? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2015, 8:36 pm
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Replies: 73
Views: 3,914
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| I like shy men, but I find it hard to tell if they like me. Probably because what comes out of their mouths sounds like disinterest, yet somehow the body language is supposed to be "the sign", but when you are on the spectrum you have no idea what the signs are so you just obsessively try ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What percentage of aspies end up marrying or in LTRs? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2015, 2:55 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 2,143
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| Whoops. I voted for the wrong option on your poll. I meant to vote "Female < less 40 and single". |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ethical issue - Should I just leave it alone? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2015, 12:09 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 825
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| Thanks for all your input! tough call. how well do you know the guy? We've only spoken once so I don't even think he'd believe me if I told him. I mean I wouldn't believe me if I was him. If I put myself in his shoes, why would I believe someone I've only talked to once? Logically speaking, he's mor... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ethical issue - Should I just leave it alone? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2015, 1:40 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 825
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| It seems mostly just for attention. Some examples of things she's said for attention: - She told me that someone (she said later that it may have been an employee) drugged her coffee at Starbucks and that she could've been raped. So naturally I didn't think to question it, I called her up immediatel... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ethical issue - Should I just leave it alone? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2015, 12:10 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 825
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| Aspies: would you want to know if the person you are interested in romantically/developing feelings for is someone who has been manipulating you and lying to you? I've been friends with a young woman for almost a year. She seemed so nice and friendly that when she initiated conversation with me, I w... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: ALBUMS you've been digging lately |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2015, 1:15 am
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Replies: 361
Views: 18,999
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| Forgot to add... The Velvet Underground & Nico "The Velvet Underground & Nico" |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: ALBUMS you've been digging lately |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 05 Jul 2015, 12:44 am
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Replies: 361
Views: 18,999
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| The Birthday Party "Prayers on Fire" The Gun Club "Fire of Love" Psychic TV "Dreams Less Sweet" The Smiths "Meat is Murder" T.Rex "Electric Warrior" Suede "Suede" Talking Heads "Remain in Light" Fripp & Eno "(No Pussyfoot... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do you think of men wearing makeup? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2015, 7:53 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,676
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I have a mad fondness for David Bowie's glam days, so I'm very open to seeing makeup on men.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women find this attractive? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2015, 7:50 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,096
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| Do you try to engage in small talk with the women you're planning to ask out? If you try to direct the conversation to be about them rather than you, perhaps one of them will be interested in going out on a date with you. Ask about their interests, what they like to do for fun, and feelings/opinions... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you act around someone you're interested in? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2015, 6:39 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,446
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| This could be someone you know well or not at all. What are some of the "signs" you exhibit? As a female, I notice that around someone I don't know well who I am interested in I tend to want to hide or run away whenever they enter the same room I'm in. For example, if I'm at a store or at ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What does it mean? |
| CoffinCrawler |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2015, 7:48 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 412
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| The first time we met, he had difficulty looking at me/making eye contact and he was fidgeting/stimming a lot. I was in the same boat. He would have his body turned to the side slightly while we talked, while turning his head to shoot quick glances at me. Our eyes only met at the end of the conversa... |
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