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Forum: The Haven Topic: guilt and shame over overdisclosure |
| poopylungstuffing |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 4:52 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,332
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| i am always nice to him in person. i am as nice to him as nice can be... i am not the greatest person in the world, but i do as well as i can by him...i just have messed up neurotic issues...am going on another antidepressant soon. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: guilt and shame over overdisclosure |
| poopylungstuffing |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 3:23 pm
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Replies: 5
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| i feel very badly about narrowly fixating on my perceived relationship problems..i have done my bf a terrible injustice and it is tearing me up..i am so wrong and so sorry..i dont know what is wrong with me. i want to crawl into a hole...i am bad he is good...aaaaaaah.....fooey...i assume he does no... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Communication in relationships |
| poopylungstuffing |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 1:58 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 2,933
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| I am aware that my perception on this matter is wrong and stupid and that I am doing him a grave disservice by expressing anything about it. Unfortunately I can no longer edit/delete my post. I am bad and am guilty of having circular thought pattern that is completely off base...there is no logic in... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: cymbalta...awful.. |
| poopylungstuffing |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 11:57 am
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Replies: 2
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| I am so used to adderall that i notice it more when i stop taking it. I notified my doc, and she is giving em a different med to try..um..i forget the name of it....celexa |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: "Nurturing Instincts" and Women |
| poopylungstuffing |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 2:54 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 7,795
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| i have always been good with small children, though i might not be great with people my own age. Sometimes i might be overly nurturing though on a significant other, as i am prone to fixate. i tend to become a kid when i am watching kids, so it does not really feel like nurturing |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Dermatillomania - and a question. |
| poopylungstuffing |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 2:38 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,510
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| i do something like this to my boyfriend..who presumably enjoys it..i think of it as a stim and an expression of affection...under my assumption that he enjoys it..it goes along with my compulsive backrubs which are dual purpose stim/affection activities...it is something i would manage to not do if... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: cymbalta...awful.. |
| poopylungstuffing |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2012, 1:28 am
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Replies: 2
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| my shrinkydoc has been very keen on putting me on an antidepressant from the beginning.. .i was going thru some bad times and tried Prozac for a number of months. ..it seemed to make things worse so i tapered off of it..had a friend express the opinion that maybe i was depressed enough to try an ant... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are Aspies afraid of disapointing or hurting other people? |
| poopylungstuffing |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2012, 2:16 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 4,571
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| Yes I can be and then it totally backfires...there are certain rules of engagement that always get the best of me...like the notion that a person will like you more of you keep ignoring them. I end up really doting on someone. .and they can sit back and coast on that for a good while and I will keep... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Communication in relationships |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2012, 2:30 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 2,933
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| Have been in a relationship for 2 years with virtually no communication about the relationship ..it has caused me depression and has hurt my self esteem to no end, but if I try to break up with him he freaks out. My sense is that he does not love me, but does not want to be alone, and does not want ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What was your first special interest? |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2012, 1:06 am
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Replies: 109
Views: 7,530
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Arguments in relationships |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2012, 12:58 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 5,268
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| I am inflating it to sound worse than it is...i don't even trust the validity of my own thoughts on the issue... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Arguments in relationships |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2012, 12:10 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 5,268
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| I am in an AS/AS relationship with virtually no fighting..e. I suggest trying communicating using email or txt. he may find that easier. even if you're in the same physical place together! women need to understand that some men really have very poor perception of their own emotions. I need to make ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: any tips for overcoming severe avoidance and anxiety? |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2012, 5:07 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,191
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| It has become increasingly difficult for me to communicate with the very few people outside my "comfort zone" and the difficulty just keeps turning in upon itself and making things worse. It is hard to explain all of the specific things I am having trouble with...but there are tasks that I can't see... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Losing the ability to have special interests |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2012, 4:59 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,101
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| I have been depressed and overwhelmed and not able to focus on special interests just from being too overwhelmed. I do have repetitive behavior...but can never really feel "in the zone" with a special interest...there are some things that I still do, but they don't bring me much joy anymore...and i ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Single most of your life |
| poopylungstuffing |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2012, 4:46 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 7,548
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| I am the polar opposite and it can still feel lonesome |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Arguments in relationships |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2012, 4:43 pm
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Replies: 31
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| I am in an AS/AS relationship with virtually no fighting..alas it means no functional expression of emotions at all. He has a complete aversion to such things..and I am afraid to press the subject. We don't live together..We don't see each other very often..so it has been par for the course of our 2... |
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