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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Are looks an Aspie's best friend in dating?

Posted: 07 Apr 2015, 9:22 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 1,557


That's a problem for a lot of shy guys. When they see a girl they're physically attracted to, they get nervous and tense up and they all of a sudden don't know what to say and are more self-conscious about how they look and what they say. You have to remember that even these beautiful girls are peo...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Trying to approach women?

Posted: 05 Apr 2015, 12:00 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 1,018


alex wrote:
Flirt with her


That statement alone is a dispatch to loneliness. I can't flirt and I take everything seriously. I am nice and I tell a few jokes, though. Unfortunately many people have been telling me, "That's not enough".

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Are looks an Aspie's best friend in dating?

Posted: 05 Apr 2015, 11:23 am 

Replies: 18
Views: 1,557


For both guys and girls. Especially girls, since I'd tremble at a beautiful and socially awkward girl , unlike all the social blondes. I do realize that some Aspies are way different than others in terms of personality. Note, the right side of the slash is my personality. Some like to flirt/others j...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Can we lay down the absolutes and look at facts?

Posted: 03 Apr 2015, 2:44 pm 

Replies: 1
Views: 339


Fact is: Not all Neurotypicals have a happy life. Not all Aspies live a depressed life. Yet the reason so many people here justifiably complain about being on the spectrum is because of the "more likely" factor, in addition to their frustrations in life. The reason people tell you not to e...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why flirting?

 Post subject: Re: Why flirting?
Posted: 25 Mar 2015, 3:34 pm 

Replies: 39
Views: 1,782


As far as "just doing it", when you flirt, again where do you draw the line? If you use word that come on too strong or aren't suggesting interest, you aren't doing it right and that's exactly why I stay away from it. "Your eyes will make any scavenger jealous because they're the bes...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why flirting?

 Post subject: Re: Why flirting?
Posted: 24 Mar 2015, 8:05 pm 

Replies: 39
Views: 1,782


I don't know how to flirt. I don't care to learn how either. If I like someone I will say hey want to hang out, talk about common interests, maybe we'll hit it off, if not oh well. If someone else likes me I want them to be blunt with me too. I just don't have the time or energy to master the art o...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Why flirting?

 Post subject: Why flirting?
Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 6:25 pm 

Replies: 39
Views: 1,782


Wouldn't dating be a helluva lot easier if a guy went up to a girl he's been friends with for a few months and said: "Hello, I like you, let's go on a date." If dating was like this, there would be no more frustration. I despise the people who go up to my face and shout "BOOORRRING!&q...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: All Aspies: Resort to lying if all looks hopeless

Posted: 18 Mar 2015, 8:56 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 1,031


Yes, we heard this many times: "Autistic people can't lie" or "I have Asperger's and I always tell the truth." There are times in life where you need to save your face and find a way out of disaster. An example is when you're with a girl who asks if you're a virgin. You say "...
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