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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Theory of mind

 Post subject: Re: Theory of mind
Posted: 10 Jul 2020, 1:16 pm 

Replies: 47
Views: 922


Lots of people run lists through their heads about what they are doing, going to do etc. Like to do lists? How much time of their waking hours do humans think about stuff they need to do though? 5% would already be a generous guess I suppose. During the remaining time they are still thinking, but n...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: What social interaction would make you happiest?

Posted: 10 Jul 2020, 2:03 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 288


Gift is a sincere sign of appreciation. Not a sense of owing hmm ok. Because you wrote the gift is received after having displayed a certain heroic behaviour toward someone in a weaker position, it made it seem like the gift was given by the rescued person because of a sense of owing something (per...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Alternatives to 'traditional' employment

Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 7:33 am 

Replies: 24
Views: 848


Hi all, Just a question I wanted to ask fellow aspies here regarding working. Those of you who found employment of any traditional kind full time or part time, difficult or impossible to sustain in the long run for whatever reasons, what do you do for an occupation instead? I am also wondering. I t...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I'm extremely lonely

 Post subject: Re: I'm extremely lonely
Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 7:25 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 191


The last time i had a friend was 6 years ago. Humans are social beings but how come i can't even talk to anyone? And why nobody talks to me? Am i the only one who spends all the time alone without talking? I dont feel like a human. This is getting unbearable each day. You're not alone with that. Ma...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Is it OK to have a crush on a YouTuber if you're in a relati

Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 7:20 am 

Replies: 12
Views: 547


It is normal to still get crushes. If someone gets married for example, will that human-made contract/social structure suddenly wipe out their hard-wired instinct to feel attracted to others or to get crushes? Would be very hard to believe that a married person never feels attracted to/gets a crush ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: brain research on communication and social interaction

Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 6:50 am 

Replies: 10
Views: 274


arjsto wrote:
About ten years ago, we started

Who are you though?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is it time to give up

 Post subject: Re: Is it time to give up
Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 6:47 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 1,278


I think I might have to give up because I haven't been able to get a girlfriend most of my adult life. The only time I did have a girlfriend, it was someone I settled for out of desperation. Those (not that it were many lol) who I dated, I only dated out of desperation because I knew realistically ...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: What social interaction would make you happiest?

Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 6:42 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 288


none of those makes me feel loved. How is - discussing a book - being a leader - spending time with people who see me in a wrong light (as being like them) or even a false sense of belonging - someone feeling like they owe me something related to love? none of those would generate happiness in me ei...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Lockdown - am I a misanthrope?

Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 3:38 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 897


I don't miss a single human. I have never missed a person in my life. I have no idea what it feels like but have often wondered what people mean when they say they miss a human. Is it just a meaningless phrase, or do they really experience a kind of yearning emotion or what? :huh: Sometimes I hear ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is it time to give up

 Post subject: Re: Is it time to give up
Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 3:17 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 1,278


I think I might have to give up because I haven't been able to get a girlfriend most of my adult life. The only time I did have a girlfriend, it was someone I settled for out of desperation. Same. It's going to sound cruel/selfish but I am going to say it honestly: I only dated people I was not int...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is it time to give up

 Post subject: Re: Is it time to give up
Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 2:44 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 1,278


Minuteman wrote:
Hey, it could be worse. You could be in a loveless marriage with kids who want nothing to do with you and in a financial situation that makes divorce difficult. Yep, that's me.

It is fascinating how money has enslaved humans, isn't it?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is it time to give up

 Post subject: Re: Is it time to give up
Posted: 08 Jul 2020, 4:07 am 

Replies: 50
Views: 1,278


I don't think it's a negative thing "to give up" if it brings you peace of mind.
If someone comes your way one day you can still date them, right?

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Don't pee in the pool, in the ocean, in the shower or in

Posted: 08 Jul 2020, 4:02 am 

Replies: 34
Views: 627


In the pool is absolutely disgusting, I agree.
I think it's ok to pee outdoors like in the woods, or in the ocean. There's worse stuff in there than human urine.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Who else hates fireworks?

Posted: 08 Jul 2020, 3:54 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 574


I hate them. They stink, they create noise pollution, environmental pollution, and they frighten animals. They're not that pretty. There are so many other pretty things for people to look at, but people simply want to create loud noises and pollution, and stick to their yearly rituals. Crazy :ninja:

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Theory of mind

 Post subject: Re: Theory of mind
Posted: 08 Jul 2020, 3:46 am 

Replies: 47
Views: 922


Especially young girls are often this way and especially very young guys (are) likely to do what they want hoping that they do like them more afterwards. It's rather the opposite. It's quite normal even that not all women are this way. I added a verb (the word "are") to the sentence to ma...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Theory of mind

 Post subject: Re: Theory of mind
Posted: 07 Jul 2020, 2:19 am 

Replies: 47
Views: 922


1. According to scientific studies only about 60 % of the population are visual thinkers. I don't know where you got your numbers from. Which numbers? It's actually a good question, and that was what I was indirectly asking. You are not backing up your claims with any scientific findings. You have ...
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