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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Theory of mind

 Post subject: Re: Theory of mind
Posted: 06 Jul 2020, 4:21 am 

Replies: 47
Views: 911


Thought about this and empathy again. Once you have deep empathy you are able to see (!) how others feel (!) by generating the same feelings they have in parts of your brain. For this it's kind of a connection of visual thinking with generating, knowing and feeling emotions. Same for language. It r...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Theory of mind

 Post subject: Re: Theory of mind
Posted: 05 Jul 2020, 11:50 am 

Replies: 47
Views: 911


One sayd to his friends about me after greeting me - "He is the coolest of all". are young males swooning over you relevant to your love and dating life? I imagined myself being twice as broad then I really am at all. Nearly All NT guys - exept one - didn't dare to hit the imaginated virt...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Anyone else feel angry for not getting an early diagnosis?

Posted: 23 Jun 2020, 12:14 pm 

Replies: 68
Views: 1,928


I am self-diagnosed since 6 years & today I made the first step in getting a diagnosis. It seems to me one of the ways in which Germany is backwards is the diagnostic process. In the whole city I live in there is only one man who is eligible to diagnose autism, at the so-called autism ambulance....

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dating Online

 Post subject: Re: Dating Online
Posted: 05 Jun 2020, 5:16 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 678


@quiteanextreme I will repeat. I saw by coincidence the profile of a man I knew in real life who is in his fifties and claimed to be almost a decade younger on his dating profile (I found it very funny), i.e. he is being manipulative and insincere while finding it important to point out he dislikes ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dating Online

 Post subject: Re: Dating Online
Posted: 04 Jun 2020, 11:09 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 678


I saw this selfie of a man who I knew IRL and who is in his 50s as I was swiping. He lied about his age on the dating profile (claimed to be 45 lol) and wrote in his description that he doesn't like women who are manipulative. The irony xD. I had to take screenshots because that was so ridiculously ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: How do you decompress in evenings?

Posted: 23 May 2020, 1:37 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 565


I don't have children fortunately so it's easier for me. Usually when I get home I eat some snacks and then do some necessary household stuff for around 20 min so it's out of the way, then I lie on my bed. I might either just lie there or if I have some more energy left listen to/watch something on ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Coping with coworkers

 Post subject: Re: Coping with coworkers
Posted: 23 May 2020, 1:18 pm 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,339


Just to give an example of people not being able to get a lot out of the information that you're autistic, this is what my ex once said when he talked about Greta Thunberg (he liked her, so he didn't mean it in a mean way!) "She has something... mongoloid or something" - "You mean she...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: I wish I was 20 again

 Post subject: Re: I wish I was 20 again
Posted: 23 May 2020, 1:11 pm 

Replies: 29
Views: 1,064


I feel like the time I was 18 - early twenties went by the fastest. The time since then seems to move on really slowly again. A reason childhood & teenage years seem long is because you're still developing faster mentally. From an 18 year old perspective 10 years ago you were 8 so it seems like ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Coping with coworkers

 Post subject: Re: Coping with coworkers
Posted: 23 May 2020, 6:55 am 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,339


No, I wouldn't tell them. They'll see you through a different lense once they know and while it might make them put in more effort to pretend they're interested in you, it's not guaranteed. Do you think it's important for your coworkers to be interested in your personal life? Do you think you could ...

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: Elon Musk: Gee Whiz that sounds like what an Aspie would say

Posted: 10 May 2020, 8:58 am 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,454


:roll: How is that incoherent rambling even related to this thread. :lmao: Oh - I care you and your political horizon - not really the stuff we are talking about. I'm still not against you of course but it's still kind of fun to annoy you. :wink: Of course it's not at all really important to me. An...

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: Elon Musk: Gee Whiz that sounds like what an Aspie would say

Posted: 10 May 2020, 7:54 am 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,454


Hey why so aggressive? You should calm and to relax a bit more again. :wink: If it comes to me then I do care the ones who come up with such nonsense and why they are doing this but don't give a s**t on the nonsense they come up with. But NTs especially women like being manipulative and many NTs do...

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: Elon Musk: Gee Whiz that sounds like what an Aspie would say

Posted: 10 May 2020, 1:39 am 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,454


"Only idiots and women" sounds like something only idiots and sexists say anyway. Why? Average women care different things than average men do and no man beside of an infantile idiot gives a s**t about some sexual trash talking of an other guys years ago. First of all, it's interesting wh...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: The Lone Wolf test

 Post subject: Re: The Lone Wolf test
Posted: 09 May 2020, 4:55 pm 

Replies: 21
Views: 960


rick42 wrote:
Almost everything for me has stayed in the same.The only difference I see is that I have been laid off and currently unemployed.

I'm sorry about that :(

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: Elon Musk: Gee Whiz that sounds like what an Aspie would say

Posted: 09 May 2020, 4:46 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,454


I wouldn't care reporters to much. They are rather idiots once it comes to the private life of celebrities. Beside of this it doesn't really counts. After I have written in the 3 previous posts to you that Justine Musk has written the article herself, it should be sufficiently clear to you that it ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Social distancing

 Post subject: Re: Social distancing
Posted: 09 May 2020, 2:39 pm 

Replies: 47
Views: 2,499


On the other hand, it's super distressing hearing everyone talk about how horrible living life like this is. They're all talking about increases in depression and anti-depressant meds, increases in drinking, etc... all these guides and self-help apps and stuff to help people "cope with social ...

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: Elon Musk: Gee Whiz that sounds like what an Aspie would say

Posted: 09 May 2020, 12:49 pm 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,454


Hi Lely, I'm not interested enough in celebrities to google details of their relationships or their history of life. They are the ones who have to like each other and to live with each other. :wink: May be they were talking this way towards each other. But even then you don't know whether they were...
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