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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is it time to give up

 Post subject: Re: Is it time to give up
Posted: 09 Jul 2020, 2:44 am 

Replies: 53
Views: 1,975


Minuteman wrote:
Hey, it could be worse. You could be in a loveless marriage with kids who want nothing to do with you and in a financial situation that makes divorce difficult. Yep, that's me.

It is fascinating how money has enslaved humans, isn't it?

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is it time to give up

 Post subject: Re: Is it time to give up
Posted: 08 Jul 2020, 4:07 am 

Replies: 53
Views: 1,975


I don't think it's a negative thing "to give up" if it brings you peace of mind.
If someone comes your way one day you can still date them, right?

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Don't pee in the pool, in the ocean, in the shower or in

Posted: 08 Jul 2020, 4:02 am 

Replies: 34
Views: 641


In the pool is absolutely disgusting, I agree.
I think it's ok to pee outdoors like in the woods, or in the ocean. There's worse stuff in there than human urine.

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Who else hates fireworks?

Posted: 08 Jul 2020, 3:54 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 661


I hate them. They stink, they create noise pollution, environmental pollution, and they frighten animals. They're not that pretty. There are so many other pretty things for people to look at, but people simply want to create loud noises and pollution, and stick to their yearly rituals. Crazy :ninja:

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Theory of mind

 Post subject: Re: Theory of mind
Posted: 08 Jul 2020, 3:46 am 

Replies: 47
Views: 994


Especially young girls are often this way and especially very young guys (are) likely to do what they want hoping that they do like them more afterwards. It's rather the opposite. It's quite normal even that not all women are this way. I added a verb (the word "are") to the sentence to ma...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Theory of mind

 Post subject: Re: Theory of mind
Posted: 07 Jul 2020, 2:19 am 

Replies: 47
Views: 994


1. According to scientific studies only about 60 % of the population are visual thinkers. I don't know where you got your numbers from. Which numbers? It's actually a good question, and that was what I was indirectly asking. You are not backing up your claims with any scientific findings. You have ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Theory of mind

 Post subject: Re: Theory of mind
Posted: 06 Jul 2020, 4:21 am 

Replies: 47
Views: 994


Thought about this and empathy again. Once you have deep empathy you are able to see (!) how others feel (!) by generating the same feelings they have in parts of your brain. For this it's kind of a connection of visual thinking with generating, knowing and feeling emotions. Same for language. It r...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Theory of mind

 Post subject: Re: Theory of mind
Posted: 05 Jul 2020, 11:50 am 

Replies: 47
Views: 994


One sayd to his friends about me after greeting me - "He is the coolest of all". are young males swooning over you relevant to your love and dating life? I imagined myself being twice as broad then I really am at all. Nearly All NT guys - exept one - didn't dare to hit the imaginated virt...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Anyone else feel angry for not getting an early diagnosis?

Posted: 23 Jun 2020, 12:14 pm 

Replies: 141
Views: 17,435


I am self-diagnosed since 6 years & today I made the first step in getting a diagnosis. It seems to me one of the ways in which Germany is backwards is the diagnostic process. In the whole city I live in there is only one man who is eligible to diagnose autism, at the so-called autism ambulance....

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dating Online

 Post subject: Re: Dating Online
Posted: 05 Jun 2020, 5:16 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 756


@quiteanextreme I will repeat. I saw by coincidence the profile of a man I knew in real life who is in his fifties and claimed to be almost a decade younger on his dating profile (I found it very funny), i.e. he is being manipulative and insincere while finding it important to point out he dislikes ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dating Online

 Post subject: Re: Dating Online
Posted: 04 Jun 2020, 11:09 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 756


I saw this selfie of a man who I knew IRL and who is in his 50s as I was swiping. He lied about his age on the dating profile (claimed to be 45 lol) and wrote in his description that he doesn't like women who are manipulative. The irony xD. I had to take screenshots because that was so ridiculously ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: How do you decompress in evenings?

Posted: 23 May 2020, 1:37 pm 

Replies: 10
Views: 750


I don't have children fortunately so it's easier for me. Usually when I get home I eat some snacks and then do some necessary household stuff for around 20 min so it's out of the way, then I lie on my bed. I might either just lie there or if I have some more energy left listen to/watch something on ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Coping with coworkers

 Post subject: Re: Coping with coworkers
Posted: 23 May 2020, 1:18 pm 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,674


Just to give an example of people not being able to get a lot out of the information that you're autistic, this is what my ex once said when he talked about Greta Thunberg (he liked her, so he didn't mean it in a mean way!) "She has something... mongoloid or something" - "You mean she...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: I wish I was 20 again

 Post subject: Re: I wish I was 20 again
Posted: 23 May 2020, 1:11 pm 

Replies: 35
Views: 9,298


I feel like the time I was 18 - early twenties went by the fastest. The time since then seems to move on really slowly again. A reason childhood & teenage years seem long is because you're still developing faster mentally. From an 18 year old perspective 10 years ago you were 8 so it seems like ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Coping with coworkers

 Post subject: Re: Coping with coworkers
Posted: 23 May 2020, 6:55 am 

Replies: 24
Views: 1,674


No, I wouldn't tell them. They'll see you through a different lense once they know and while it might make them put in more effort to pretend they're interested in you, it's not guaranteed. Do you think it's important for your coworkers to be interested in your personal life? Do you think you could ...

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: Elon Musk: Gee Whiz that sounds like what an Aspie would say

Posted: 10 May 2020, 8:58 am 

Replies: 61
Views: 1,637


:roll: How is that incoherent rambling even related to this thread. :lmao: Oh - I care you and your political horizon - not really the stuff we are talking about. I'm still not against you of course but it's still kind of fun to annoy you. :wink: Of course it's not at all really important to me. An...
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