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 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: NT's Impression of Aspies

 Post subject: NT Reply ahead
Posted: 23 Mar 2009, 9:06 pm 

Replies: 33
Views: 7,485


Verbose (talks too much) Self-centered (unintentionally, and not the same as selfish) Generous Kind Funny Sweet Sensitive Confused Often Overwhelmed Shamelessly Self-Gratifying Odd Affectionate Overly Attached Pragmatic (doing what works) in some very inappropriate ways Loves Animals Fascinated by p...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Please Just Leave Me Alone?

 Post subject: NT Reply ahead
Posted: 22 Mar 2009, 10:32 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 2,016


Don't go near her. This girl is mocking you. Her goal is to annoy you. She knows she is annoying you. She is enjoying it. If you ask her to leave you alone, it will only get worse. I'm sorry this is happening to you. Girls in Jr. and High School can be HOR-EEE-BLAY, as my daughter used to say. Exagg...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Ever have this happen to you?

 Post subject: NT Reply ahead
Posted: 22 Mar 2009, 10:27 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 2,054


Yes, b/f does that.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: some NT's do not want get involved in a serious conversation

 Post subject: NT Reply ahead
Posted: 22 Mar 2009, 10:21 pm 

Replies: 26
Views: 2,597


LOL Oh, dear. I just had this discussion with my Aspie b/f this morning. What an Aspie considers "serious" and what an NT considers "serious" may be 2 different things. I long to have "serious" conversations about how the human brain works and how to incorporate the practices of one religion into an...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Name some things you shouldn't talk about with people

 Post subject: NT Reply ahead
Posted: 22 Mar 2009, 10:03 pm 

Replies: 56
Views: 6,106


I've noticed something that both my Aspie friends do which tends to set people on edge. They tend to comment on the person they're talking to such as, "You're funny!" or "Why do you look so serious?" or "You just have the most beautiful look on your face right now..." etc. It doesn't matter if it's ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Discussing things other than your main interests...

Posted: 22 Mar 2009, 9:53 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 1,255


When an NT wants you to want to be interested in their interests, how do you feel on a scale of 1-10: [1 = I don't feel this at all. 10 = I feel this very intensely!] Fear? ___ Irritated? ___ Anger? ___ Overwhelmed? ___ Confused? ___ Indifferent? ___ How about Joy? ___ Interest? ___ Amused? ___ Curi...

 Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion   Topic: Anyone else afraid to post?

Posted: 14 Dec 2007, 11:01 am 

Replies: 89
Views: 6,199


Hi. Thank you all for responding. I really want to be able to attend to that misunderstanding that happened here, but I have a work day in front of me. I just want you to know it's important to me. I wonder if it is possible to create code just for this site. If not, act-as-if and just do: [rant] :e...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Impulse Control, Sexual

Posted: 13 Dec 2007, 11:33 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 330


The Laws are different in different parts of the world. If you consider "stalking" to be the same or similar, then my b/f has done it and I would have put him in jail for it if the Court System wasn't so freaking .... inept. Sorry. I guess that sounds horrid. But I didn't know he had Aspergers then....

 Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion   Topic: Anyone else afraid to post?

Posted: 13 Dec 2007, 7:46 pm 

Replies: 89
Views: 6,199


Now you're "singin' my song" (talkin' about something I want to talk about)! LOL BPD What a racket!! It's Complex PTSD which should have been diagnosed as an Attachment Disorder when the window of opportunity was still open to deal with the Parent(s). But no! Now that the Parents are out of the "ca...

 Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion   Topic: Anyone else afraid to post?

Posted: 13 Dec 2007, 12:59 pm 

Replies: 89
Views: 6,199


Also, maybe the issue is immaturity, and people haven't learned how to act. We mature slower. Aspies don't usually go their whole lives in neurological stasis. responding in the same stereotyped way. If someone would politely tell the poster of the "offensive" post to phrase their question differen...

 Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion   Topic: Anyone else afraid to post?

Posted: 13 Dec 2007, 11:58 am 

Replies: 89
Views: 6,199


Whitewave, I think it would comfort you if you that, when we go "NT's are horrible" or "NT's hate Aspies", that they're just making a generalisation. Not a personal attack against you, but rather the NTs they've met. Of course I realize that that correction doesn't do much to help. But I don't make...

 Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion   Topic: Anyone else afraid to post?

Posted: 13 Dec 2007, 2:43 am 

Replies: 89
Views: 6,199


LOL You all are a crack up (funny). I wonder if Spokane_Girl feels a little bit more empowered and not so lost now about that pesky "Adult" Forum... I hope so. But it seems to me there could be a way to add a lock of sorts to a section that is open about sex talk. It does seem to be a measurement of...

 Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion   Topic: Anyone else afraid to post?

Posted: 11 Dec 2007, 1:45 am 

Replies: 89
Views: 6,199


...but then I totally forgot why I clicked on this thread to begin with! :roll: I feel afraid to post. There is alot of generalization and anger vented off here about NT's. I can understand some of the heat. I know how angry and frustrated my two friends feel with me and others. The volume of rage e...

 Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion   Topic: Anyone else afraid to post?

 Post subject: Hmmmm ... words.
Posted: 11 Dec 2007, 12:02 am 

Replies: 89
Views: 6,199


I wonder if there is some confusion between the two meanings of the word "adult". 1. There is "adult" as in grown up, no more fart jokes, poop jokes, snot jokes and other childish behavior. 2. Then there is "adult" as in "Adult Book Store" or "Adults Only". Those two have very different protocols, a...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Anyone not diagnosed until in their 40's?

Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 2:20 pm 

Replies: 103
Views: 15,334


Sins, The search function doesn 't seem to want to work for me. I can 't find a thread called "Dino Aspie Cafe" and the "Getting to know each other, Dino-style" is only basic stats. I'm using the stat of being diagnosed later as a way of filtering who I want to ask various questions. I could do the ...
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