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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Hating my Aspergers and jealousy.

Posted: 18 May 2013, 5:33 pm 

Replies: 77
Views: 14,026


I think it's a really hard thing to rationalize that a guy can masterbate to a sexy woman and NOT be thinking of having sex with her? That just sounds ... wildly inaccurate to me. Then why need it at all? I guess--if lesbian porn (which is generally made for men) was an example--a guy is non-partic...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Hating my Aspergers and jealousy.

Posted: 18 May 2013, 5:21 pm 

Replies: 77
Views: 14,026


A lot of guys are visual... no correction, the human is visual. Once again--you can determine whatever rules you want in your relationship, emo. Its your relationship how you react to it is entirely justifable--if the relationship ends, its not justifiable. I almost wish this topic wasn't in the hav...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Isolation, Lonely, Issues.. I don't know.

Posted: 11 May 2013, 9:33 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 1,262


It was very toxic. I mean I will say.. you've probably learned some things from this relationship that will help you to not make some of the same mistakes. Keep in mind.. arguing is normal in relationships, but swearing at each other or hitting someone is not. Its abusive, verbal and physical. One o...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Hating my Aspergers and jealousy.

Posted: 09 May 2013, 1:46 pm 

Replies: 77
Views: 14,026


I used to watch schoolgirl/teacher stuff and it didn't bother me how pretty the girls were. This was before I was with him. I just noticed they were jaw-dropping gorgeous. Now that I know he watches it it hurts because I know to a man, compared to a pornstar I'm...well...plain. I already asked him ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Hating my Aspergers and jealousy.

Posted: 06 May 2013, 1:10 am 

Replies: 77
Views: 14,026


He DIDN'T MAKE ME WATCH IT WITH HIM. I just know his friends do. And I recently asked him if he watches porn and he said he does, we had a big fight and he told me he only thinks about getting off when he watches it and doesn't have a crush on any of the actresses or think of them when he's with me...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do girls find it extra hot when big guys bully small guys?

Posted: 03 May 2013, 12:26 pm 

Replies: 149
Views: 43,133


Imo, not many girls like that. There are women out there that like a tough guy for sure, but in those instances it is generally more the girl is interested in the guy "in spite" of the bullying and not because of it. Guys aren't the only ones with a few shallow people in the bunch, there are shallow...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Has Anyone Ever Thought About Taking a Journey to Start Anew

Posted: 03 May 2013, 1:51 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 1,451


Your situation and example given tells me your probably the person to talk to out of everyone who has posted so far. Your example of how you left your home cause you weren't getting the necessary things to further one's happiness and success mirrors my situation. I don't have many good friends, my ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Has Anyone Ever Thought About Taking a Journey to Start Anew

Posted: 02 May 2013, 8:34 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 1,451


I don't know what your problems are.. but regardless, yeah I don't see an issue with making a big change if you think it'd be helpful in the long run. Sometimes the environment we're apart of is toxic--and no matter what potential we have--its almost consistently muffled out due to the toxicity. So ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Hating my Aspergers and jealousy.

Posted: 02 May 2013, 5:15 pm 

Replies: 77
Views: 14,026


OP, if your bf is actually commenting on how attractive these women are in front of you and you've told him not to comment--I can kinda understand, if he's not... you probably need to leave it alone. If he says it in front of you and you're uncomfortable with it--thats one thing, but him viewing any...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: Who Else Can Relate? Got An Office Job, Hell!

Posted: 29 Apr 2013, 8:11 am 

Replies: 37
Views: 5,149


I have time for a quick post. Mine is not an office job, but its retail. I have a very difficult time with it, I generally have a likable enough persona that I can put on an act and customers are able to appreciate me the first time around. The second time, I just feel like i'm totally boring them a...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Feeling overwhelmed at my job...

Posted: 15 Apr 2013, 8:05 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 1,522


Yeah, the best way is probably to have something is a visual reminder nearby. I had similar issues with a job, so I studied at home as to what I had to do and in what order.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Feel so dejeted, story of my life

Posted: 15 Mar 2013, 1:29 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 2,569


I think realistically everyone is a little odd.. and I think ironically even if you're teased about it, you need to be a little odd to stand out. I kinda do things like with the rice krispy bar incident, where i've lied about something in order to fit in. Though I kinda have tried practicing not to ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Depression, fear, and nightmares

Posted: 12 Mar 2013, 7:09 pm 

Replies: 1
Views: 353


Possibly something to talk to your prescribing health care physician about.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Feel so dejeted, story of my life

Posted: 12 Mar 2013, 7:06 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 2,569


It resonates somewhat. Your story and its hard to not let it get you down, if its the way that you feel. But I don't think that makes our lives worthless on any level. ... Being neurotypical isn't really anything to be thrilled over, if you examine and think it over very few people fit the traits or...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: It seems impossible to have a discussion about...

Posted: 11 Mar 2013, 1:49 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 857


Its not just feminism, its religion, race, gay marriage, misandry.. its a spectrum. Any complicated topic will evoke many different opinions and emotional reactions. People who visit a feminism website to complain or talk about topics not at all related to feminism are honestly just a waste of your ...
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