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 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: My fantasy is coming true

Posted: 05 Apr 2014, 9:44 am 

Replies: 27
Views: 2,520

Think of all the things that you may have wanted to have a go at (like living alone) and see if you can get yourself out to try and do some of those things. Volunteering is a really good idea. Walking dogs in a dog shelter or just spending time with cats in cat shelter, if you are not keen on hangin...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic:

Posted: 05 Apr 2014, 9:26 am 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,347

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I seriously wonder how you ladies manage all these tons of messages you receive on several sites. If I receive that much I would just limit it to one dating site.

I know! I had to hire a PA to handle all my OKC correspondence, it's getting completely out of hand!


 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: An NT woman will dump you because your an Aspie! Its True!! !

Posted: 05 Apr 2014, 9:23 am 

Replies: 33
Views: 1,879

I will consider guys who are not exactly super models as long as they have a full head of hair ( shaved heads freak me out) and the profile is well written. Nothing in a profile turns me off like misspelling every other word. Or they admit to being "temporarily" unemployed. No, I am not playing tha...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Dating who pay for it

Posted: 05 Apr 2014, 9:18 am 

Replies: 66
Views: 2,025

Asker pays. This. Expecting to go halfs sounds really cheap/stingy. I wouldn't want to date anyone who was concerned with getting the woman to pay her half as if the date is just a business deal. Why would you expect the man to pay in the first place, unless you subscribe to the old fashioned value...

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: mansplaining

Posted: 05 Apr 2014, 9:04 am 

Replies: 45
Views: 2,813

Your all confused, be patient, in order to learn life is about patience, about listening., which is even hard for me to do. we can not address their own pains unless we can understand them, and them us. it can not be one or the other, when we are one race. Human ??? Ohhh I get it. You're demonstrat...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: What is it about guys who bully weaker guys?

Posted: 04 Apr 2014, 2:46 pm 

Replies: 50
Views: 3,747

Do girls care about how their bfs treat other guys. I mean the girls at my school really seem to have this "as long as he's nice to me he can do whatever he wants" mentality. Based on the amount of toleration i would actually come to the conclusion that they enjoy it when their bf is mean to people...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Articulation help for my hubby (NT)

Posted: 04 Apr 2014, 2:40 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 794

It's your life but read again the bit I bolded. Either you are lying or your husband is more concerned about his own needs than yours. Either he is forcing you " I should just force myself to go to loud stimulating environments and stay even though I get panic attacks. " or he isn't " H e doesn't dr...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Limpet people

Posted: 04 Apr 2014, 1:56 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 727

^ Yes! But why are there no known protections against them!? Should I wear garlic necklace? Would that help?

I am the one being shellfish though, lol, hiding inside my shell

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Articulation help for my hubby (NT)

Posted: 04 Apr 2014, 1:47 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 794

Hi, I am new to being an Aspie, or I suppose I should say new to knowing I am one. I have always known there is something different in how I think and process than other people and I finally have an official diagnosis. The problem is I am very high function/coping and my struggle is mostly internal...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: If you've ever felt bad about online dating...

Posted: 03 Apr 2014, 9:36 am 

Replies: 49
Views: 2,325

I am messaging a girl and we talked swapped "war stories". One thing that struck me was how she complained about how I was the only guy who had intelligent things to say and said how most men only give a quick, generic hello that she doesn't respond to. The irony seemed to be lost on her (she initi...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Limpet people

Posted: 03 Apr 2014, 9:34 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 727

[quote="em_tsuj"I am also an angry-looking, burly black guy, so that helps keep people away.[/quote]

That sounds kinda hot lol (from a safe distance of internent anonimity, obv I'd probably be scared too if you were glaring over me)

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Limpet people

Posted: 03 Apr 2014, 9:32 am 

Replies: 14
Views: 727

no, it's not what people do so much as how they are. It's their energy that's problematic, it;s like they have invisible suckers that drill into you and suck life force out - anyway that's what it feels like. Of course, if they are just standing near you not saying much, it's difficult to deal with ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: If you've ever felt bad about online dating...

Posted: 03 Apr 2014, 7:06 am 

Replies: 49
Views: 2,325

^^both, idk why I am trying to give advice, there is a reason I am on this forum so much :roll: at self. the only thing I will mention is that old chestnut - it's not so much what you say but how you say it. But you have to be a bit of a mind reader to know what the other person will respond to (so ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: If you've ever felt bad about online dating...

Posted: 02 Apr 2014, 5:27 pm 

Replies: 49
Views: 2,325

^ I'm a bit confused...where in those messages does he go beyond small talk? It all sounds pretty generic and casual to me. Also, what would be a "sign" that she wants to step it up? I have no clue about those things, could be very useful info for many of us. Well maybe it's not then, idk, I guess ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: If you've ever felt bad about online dating...

Posted: 02 Apr 2014, 4:08 pm 

Replies: 49
Views: 2,325

I like that headline. The red chair picture has been one of the most controversial ones I've posted. People either seem to love it or hate it. Some people have said it looks great that I can make fun of myself falling out of a chair and smile. Others have said it looks like a drunken mess. Here are...

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: To the males who keep posting in Women's Disscussion

Posted: 02 Apr 2014, 3:44 pm 

Replies: 78
Views: 6,047

Believe me ladies, there ARE some guys that do try to understand. Oh we know that. A lot of us women also try to understand things from the male point of view. For example, I think I know what it must be like to have your prostate examined, or to get kicked in the balls. But sometimes I would like ...
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