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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Your first kiss?

Posted: 09 Apr 2014, 8:51 pm 

Replies: 64
Views: 6,981


I was 18, it was with a friend of my cousin's. My cousin, her, and I hung out all day and then decided to have a party at her place that evening with some friends. We all got drunk, and then she started texting me. Eventually she asked me to come outside for my first kiss (literally what she said). ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: People coming by unexpected

Posted: 09 Apr 2014, 12:49 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 1,239


I must be the only person here who doesn't mind this. Sure, it's inconvenient that they might have caught me off guard, but otherwise it's not that annoying..... I think maybe you don't understand what reaction is happening to maybe some of us. It's not just annoying or inconvenient, which is a pre...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: People coming by unexpected

Posted: 07 Apr 2014, 10:39 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 1,239


I must be the only person here who doesn't mind this. Sure, it's inconvenient that they might have caught me off guard, but otherwise it's not that annoying.....

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Should I try to help my friend find a GF?

Posted: 05 Apr 2014, 5:38 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 535


Yeah I realize that. I'm not just gonna like find him a hooker or something :roll: What you need to do is help fix his attitude and self image first; My cousin did this for me. He helped me by getting me some better fitting/looking clothes, giving me some tips about attitude and perspective and tak...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Not Feeling Any Connections…

Posted: 03 Apr 2014, 8:51 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 753


I also do the "online dating" thing and my strategy is "Don't worry about people who can't hold the conversation themselves" or another words "Don't worry about people that you can't find a topic to speak with". From my experience there are actually people who I can talk for hours with, since the f...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Not Feeling Any Connections…

Posted: 27 Mar 2014, 11:28 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 753


Personally, I despise conversations over text messages. I have a lot of trouble making any kind of connection through text. I don't think that it's a problem, though, because I've learned to be more engaging in person. I totally understand that, it's the same thing with emails for me too. I find it...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Not Feeling Any Connections…

Posted: 27 Mar 2014, 11:13 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 753


"instant connection" is a christian myth that feeds into marriage dogma. Thats not to say it doesn't exist, but dont put too much stock into it. The "instant connection" actually is your libido influencing your emotions on non-sexual interactions (based on my experience). If you are inexperienced w...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Not Feeling Any Connections…

Posted: 27 Mar 2014, 6:04 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 753


I'm trying to do online dating and is going all right, currently a succeeded in doing a little bit of an email chat back-and-forth with a girl and now I have a number. I texted her a little bit about a day ago, but I kind of dropped it because I didn't know what to ask her or talk about. I'm finding...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: I Want to Change My Life But I Don't Know How

Posted: 23 Mar 2014, 6:39 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 901


I think you might be doing alright actually. I hope things get better for you though, if that's what you try for. Maybe you are just being a little bit impatient? I know I am. I want it all, too. Writing about your frustrations has just brought you one step closer to your solution. possibly; I just...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: locking up under strong emotions?

Posted: 22 Mar 2014, 2:22 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 726


how long does it take for this locked up feeling to pass? usually until I put great effort into expressing myself, or until I calm down. It's really a problem of expression, I hit a bit of a mental locked door… maybe you and your GF can work it out, that if she is with you, she can distract you som...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: locking up under strong emotions?

Posted: 22 Mar 2014, 1:17 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 726


auntblabby wrote:
how long does it take for this locked up feeling to pass?

usually until I put great effort into expressing myself, or until I calm down. It's really a problem of expression, I hit a bit of a mental locked door…

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: I Want to Change My Life But I Don't Know How

Posted: 22 Mar 2014, 12:03 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 901


I'm 21, and I still live at home. I'm 45. Moved back in with parents (admittedly) to save money, but it seems like getting out without a darn good paying job is not happening anytime soon. I have no post secondary education / I'm not in a career or job that I enjoy or even make decent money from. I...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: locking up under strong emotions?

Posted: 21 Mar 2014, 11:29 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 726


When I start to experience, or try to express strong emotions, my communication becomes a little bit locked up; both facially and vocally. for example: when I had my first kiss, the girl initially thought she was a very good or did something wrong, as I'm sure the expression of my face was somewhat ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: online dating emails, what to say?

Posted: 18 Mar 2014, 10:25 pm 

Replies: 15
Views: 1,037


I wouldn't discount them entirely. It's just that if you've answered 100 questions and 15 of them are about masturbation, that's a whole lot of nothing useful. I don't know if it works the same way for men, but because of the way I've answered the questions about sex I get men who are similarly sex...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: online dating emails, what to say?

Posted: 16 Mar 2014, 11:39 pm 

Replies: 15
Views: 1,037


I was thinking more personality-based, which has been successful for me on my first and only try in having a few days of great conversation with someone who's only a 79% match. We're naturally similar when it comes to personality and preferences (more in our heads, happy to wait, open to all topics...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: online dating emails, what to say?

Posted: 16 Mar 2014, 4:17 pm 

Replies: 15
Views: 1,037


If you're talking to people you're incompatible with in the first place, that can make conversation much harder. Two ideas: 1) Answer 100, perhaps even 200-300 good match questions (not just about how often you masturbate or where you like to go out to eat). This will allow you to browse a list of ...
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