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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Ex boyfriend acting weird around me = avoiding eye contact

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 6:27 pm 

Replies: 59
Views: 15,963

I don't get the "women want men who already have a woman" thing. At all. I've seen a lot of guys be that way - i.e., wouldn't talk to me when I was single, but when I was in a relationship or married suddenly I became very attractive to them. From what I've heard from guy friends, I understand that...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Who here thinks the Alpha/Beta Male theory is false?

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 6:22 pm 

Replies: 31
Views: 4,873

Kyuubi wrote:
I think that many females are still rooted to their basic, primitive tastes in men. those tastes tell them that they want a man who constantly dominates others.

Don't know what you're talking about, they've always been "like this". Dominating others is not attractive though.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Obsessed

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 6:20 pm 

Replies: 19
Views: 1,724

This is sort of a dumb thing to say to a fellow aspie, but I will say it, anyway; Don't over-think it. Don't try to figure out whether or not she was being sarcastic. I know, easier said than done, especially since I am the queen of over-thinking/analyzing, etcetera. Her initial response to your co...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to know when a girl is flirting with you?

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 5:56 pm 

Replies: 50
Views: 4,325

Mitrovah wrote:
Is a sign a a woman is interested if they ask the question: "do you have a girlfriend?"

Oh right, they ask that too.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: It's very hard trying to live a normal life when people..

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:50 am 

Replies: 54
Views: 6,655

I'm on the verge of a meltdown because of this. In one ear I have people yelling at me "Stop using aspergers as an excuse to be depressed" when they have no f***ing idea. I'm sick of the injustice people with this condition have to suffer and in silence! I don't see what else it can be. I'm like th...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How to be friends with a girl

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:47 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 883

Im 15 but I don't feel comfortable having a relationship yet so How can I just be a friend My social skills and everything with boys are okay but what about girls I want to be friends but I don't know how I can have a conversation with some girls for a bit until I **** up a social cue but I want to...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Purple gift ideas for a girl, from a guy

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:44 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 986

I have a friend (not my girlfriend, so nothing too personal!) who is a girl and her favorite color is purple and her favorite season is fall. I am leaving for a year in July to study abroad and would like to get her something (again, she's not my girlfriend so keep it under $20) before I leave. Obv...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Not always knowing what to say to people

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:42 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 1,516

A couple of weeks ago I was on the bus, and a colleague from work got on at a stop just after mine. I'm not like the best of friends with her, but we do often have that colleague-to-colleague small talk when we're at work, and this was the first time I had bumped into her outside of work. She said ...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why are some kids more popular than others?

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:40 am 

Replies: 29
Views: 7,820

The people you see as popular are not really any more popular than you. It's an illusion.

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Why are some kids more popular than others?

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:37 am 

Replies: 29
Views: 7,820

i know someone who is popular where ever goes. he doesn't drink, he is an athiest and like punk music, but for some reason everyone, inlcuding me, want to be his best friend. he has confided that it sometimes is a bit much for him. It so much pisses me off. i just don't get it. maybe he has that fa...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Interesting conclusion about not having friends

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:32 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 916

Humans are pack animals so they naturally feel depressed without a pacl. The two genders have separate packs though so they feel creeped by each other no matter what. Noone rejects you from the pack and everyone tries to be as good a friend as they can. Any conflicts are a result of misunderstanding...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Did I behave the right way in this social situation?

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:25 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 2,349

Last night I did drink 5 pints of beer in the bar with my friends. I left the bar at 2 in the morning and I saw one of my friends talk to these 2 girl and I knew one of the girls. This girl I knew has a history of interrogating me and harassing me a little when I see her in public or social situati...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: Need help. Thinking of approaching a girl

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:21 am 

Replies: 2
Views: 587

Short version if you don't want to read it all: 1) I run a song lyric+English translation website dedicated to songs in a particular foreign language, but I'm only a beginner at that language. So I need help with adding translations. 2) I met a girl who is a native speaker of that language 3) I wan...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: I don't know how to talk to people?

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:13 am 

Replies: 26
Views: 6,723

Hello, everyone. I'm new here, and joined because I felt like meeting more people that go through similar things as I do, but I haven't seen a thread about this topic yet. I don't know how to talk to people. I can only actually hold a conversation with people that are very close to me, and it seems...

 Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends   Topic: How to say "I care about your problems?"

Posted: 22 Feb 2014, 2:09 am 

Replies: 12
Views: 877

I'm not confident that any of my methods are appropriate. If I say I've experienced the same problem, and understand how they feel – I'm making it about me. If I say "oh no, that's really awful" – I make them feel worse about it. If I say "I'm sorry that happened" – they see it as empty words, and/...
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