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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Not saying what you mean |
| olympiadis |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2015, 1:56 am
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Replies: 16
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| There is a very simple explanation for this effect. We are not geared for the psychological manipulation of others, and that is because we don't run the hive mind software that NTs run. However, NTs are conditioned to expect the incoming psychological manipulation, and expect it from us, and read it... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Things NTs do that appear rude |
| olympiadis |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2015, 1:39 am
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Replies: 140
Views: 6,242
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Greenhat wrote: Making themselves the victim when they're the bullies.
Yep. I've seen this a lot.
The hive mind that controls their behavior is aggressive and invasive, and they don't even realize it because they are embedded within the context of their own identity. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can AS/Autistics dance or play sports? |
| olympiadis |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2015, 2:08 am
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Replies: 40
Views: 1,367
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| I was a dancer and did gymnastics. Not really any motor problems. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why don't more guys on here weight lift |
| olympiadis |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 12:44 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,026
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| I do it. It seems to be the best treatment for me to deal with depression and anxiety, especially the anxiety. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Mobbing in the Workplace - a danger for us? |
| olympiadis |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2015, 12:37 am
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Replies: 129
Views: 2,886
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Pepe wrote: Once again, I assert that mobbing is essentially a neurotypical "disease", imo... Bad, bad neurotypicals... 
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Mobbing in the Workplace - a danger for us? |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2015, 2:40 am
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Replies: 129
Views: 2,886
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| Mobbing seems to engage/embrace this reptilian brain with it's inherent tribalistic component... Which makes me wonder why there aren't more case studies on mobbing-- my experience is that 90% of humanity uses logical thinking about 10% of the time, whilst the other 10% uses it 90% of the time. The... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Mobbing in the Workplace - a danger for us? |
| olympiadis |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2015, 2:28 am
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Replies: 129
Views: 2,886
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| Ever notice how these things are almost always related to suppression of truth? This is why we are targeted, simply because we are truthful. Yes I have noticed. In the NT world of perception, the truth or "real" reality is not wanted, needed, or even acceptable. Why? It's far more efficie... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Mobbing in the Workplace - a danger for us? |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2015, 2:17 am
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Replies: 129
Views: 2,886
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| This happened to me in the last conventional job I held, after which I was determined to become self employed even if it was only scrubbing toilets. Which it was. I had always worked retail beforehand. In my final retail job, everything started out fine. I was a diligent worker who always kept my h... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is this why some people find us creepy? |
| olympiadis |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2015, 5:04 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 1,651
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Elensar wrote: What are your thoughts on this video?
It's usually NTs that creep me out.
They're often like zombies being controlled by mind viruses.
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Complaints that you make people "uncomfortable" |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2015, 4:52 pm
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Replies: 66
Views: 2,862
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| Being complimented makes me feel very uncomfortable. Maybe because so many times it is not sincere and I have a hard time telling the difference? I have the same issue. How many times have you heard a compliment and then have that followed up by a request to do something for the complimenter? That'... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: When did bullying begin for you? |
| olympiadis |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2015, 9:55 pm
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Replies: 44
Views: 1,238
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| Public pre-school, age 5. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Complaints that you make people "uncomfortable" |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2015, 6:57 pm
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Replies: 66
Views: 2,862
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| No no no no no! It's not at all about people needing to manipulate you or using "you make me feel uncomfortable" as a lie to justify why they are bullying you. YOU MAKE THEM FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE!! ! ! ! Your logic is missing or flawed. What you state implies external intent where the mechan... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Complaints that you make people "uncomfortable" |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2015, 3:31 am
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Replies: 66
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| Yeah - why are we made to feel defective when maybe instead we're the more evolved ones? No wonder this whole world seems so insane to me!! ! ! ! Religion, ideology, politics, international relations, war... to say nothing of human relationships! The primary types of intelligence is different betwe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you have a younger than your age sounding voice? |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2015, 9:02 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 5,648
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being Misunderstood |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2015, 2:29 pm
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Replies: 72
Views: 2,677
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| You can observe uncertainty being used for "gaming" quite easily with politicians. A politician may say "let me be clear..." and then make a statement with absolutely no specifics or defined parameters. Then when someone opposes them, they can say that those people misunderstood ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Complaints that you make people "uncomfortable" |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2015, 11:26 am
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Replies: 66
Views: 2,862
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| (i.e. "so-and-so says you make him/her feel uncomfortable"), I have no hesitations in calling them out on it and telling them "I'm very skeptical that so-and-so is genuinely afraid of me. What this is is passive-aggressive harassment and belittling behaviour, and I'm not playing the ... |
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