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 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: The Worst Boss In My Life

Posted: 22 Sep 2014, 2:17 pm 

Replies: 2
Views: 993

Sounds like this was a sweatshop and I'm pretty certain he's violating all kinds of laws. I'm from the US but I do know that Canada has a lot of laws protecting the worker. You might be able to stick it to this guy if you chose: check with the department of labor.

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Getting vocational help from the State. Comments welcome.

Posted: 22 Sep 2014, 1:59 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 6,850

I got vocational help from the state. The counselors were very nice and caring people but the onus is on you to know what you want out of life. I had a lot of difficulty figuring this out so I used my therapist to help organize my thoughts. I thought long and hard about learning to drive a truck. I ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Frustrated by recent interview...

Posted: 22 Sep 2014, 1:29 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 921

These personality tests are just hogwash. Some psychometrics companies figured out how to develop a vertical market by selling the accuracy of these tests to HR departments. Really they are an incredibly inaccurate predictor of success in the workplace and you might be able to challenge this in cour...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Aspie as driver?

Posted: 22 Sep 2014, 4:33 am 

Replies: 12
Views: 1,950

I learned to drive an 18 wheel tractor trailer. If I can do that, I'm sure you'll be fine.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I am falling back and getting worse

Posted: 21 Sep 2014, 6:37 pm 

Replies: 2
Views: 933

I've been at my current job go r six months now and I was doing pretty well until two weeks ago. But one bad phone call, in those six months, has completely ruined me. Before then my medication was actually helping me act less autistic.; doing my job well and getting along with my coworkers. But no...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: want to die

 Post subject: Re: want to die
Posted: 21 Sep 2014, 6:33 pm 

Replies: 30
Views: 3,588

please help,please say anything,am desperate to die,cant think of a way around it as everything is locked in the office with the sleep in staff and am sat up with a waking night staff who am not even able to show this to as they wont understand-am in desperate need to find a way around this otherwi...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Guide to not caring (For people who do)

Posted: 21 Sep 2014, 6:26 pm 

Replies: 2
Views: 593

I found a nice article after doing a related search. Here it is Basically it goes into detail about not getting wrapped up in what people think about you. This may not be a great issue of people on the autistic spectrum, as empathy tends to be low as I hear, but it's something relevant to me and I ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Careers for NVLD

Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 9:14 am 

Replies: 23
Views: 6,175

Nex year I'm going to start college for History major as I always wanted to. Now I'm IT Engineer but I hate this job - for me it's just wasting lifetime, 10 hrs per day. I've never been fond of software, bug fixing, developing, testing and so on while sittilg in front of laptop screen. I'm sill not...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Am I getting Fired?

Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 8:58 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 1,592

Do you know if they are ordering more computers and growing their staff? One bad week doesn't make the end. NTs have bad weeks too. I wouldn't jump to conclusions and let your thoughts ruminate too much. See how this plays out and continue to do the work to the best of your availability. IMHO, a bos...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Frustration Tolerance at Zero.

Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 8:26 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 1,022

If it helps, I've been there before and I'm there now. Lately I've been startling very easily too. My phone will beep with an email or text message and I'm scared outta my skin. At the suggestion of my therapist, I'm trying conventional Japanese Zen meditation. Last night was my first time and I fel...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I hate human beings!

 Post subject: Re: I hate human beings!
Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 8:08 am 

Replies: 26
Views: 2,221

Well, I was just reminded once more how since almost everything I like is supposedly only for kids (like cartoons, toys, and video games with an E, E 10+ or even T rating), and therefore I must be treated like a serial killer who slowly eats babies alive in front of their parent's eyes. (Actually, ...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: I love Tuesday nights

 Post subject: I love Tuesday nights
Posted: 16 Sep 2014, 6:47 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 10,952

Tuesday nights are my new favorite! The local bar is great! One of my favorite bar tenders, a very sweet NT makes a nice home cooked meal on Tuesday nights. She does it out of the kindness of her heart and it's just good, old fashioned relaxation. I don't cook so I appreciate the fresh, nutritious f...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Why would this annoy others?

Posted: 15 Sep 2014, 9:56 am 

Replies: 10
Views: 6,670

The unfortunate assumption is that by not holding down employment, you are somehow irresponsible or deficient. Sometimes you have to just love the human tendency to jump to conclusions. In actuality, I'll guess that you haven't found the right job just yet. I think at 37, I might have just stumbled ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I feel like I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.

Posted: 15 Sep 2014, 9:37 am 

Replies: 8
Views: 3,869

Has anyone else felt like they're never going to be happy? Like they're going to be alone for the rest of their life? I certainly do... For the first time, I actually drank alcohol since people keep saying it makes you feel numb.. but instead it made me feel worse.... SO much worse. I honestly feel...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Next step...Work evaluation

Posted: 13 Sep 2014, 11:18 am 

Replies: 16
Views: 1,588

I had my assessment this past Thursday and I was surprised, no shocked, at what the employment counselor recommended to me. Despite having tons of experience in Information Technology, she basically, no pun intended, steered me to truck driving. My first reaction was that no way I would be driving a...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Moved to a new place.

Posted: 11 Sep 2014, 7:11 pm 

Replies: 4
Views: 855

Change isn't easy, bud. Hang in there and stay hopeful. Things will get better :D
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