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 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Creating Free Bank Account in US

Posted: 02 Sep 2014, 7:11 am 

Replies: 5
Views: 907

Actually - JP Morgan Chase does really cheap accounts. As long as you have some money you can put in right a way and pay $5 a month, you should be golden. The hard part is that you have to go make one in person, but it's better than doing a really expensive one over the internet. Definitely don't g...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Why are employers like this?

Posted: 02 Sep 2014, 7:04 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 2,660

I get looked at as "nasty" in that respect just because I look unhappy, however in my head I'm usually in the clouds looking forward to soemthing later that day :) This is one of the main problems (i feel!) of why I am not employed :\ This is not insurmountable. NT's interpret smiles as happiness. ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now?

Posted: 01 Sep 2014, 5:06 pm 

Replies: 33,259
Views: 1,610,109

I'm about a +6. Been better, been worse.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Im not sure I can trust anyone in a relatioship!

Posted: 01 Sep 2014, 4:13 pm 

Replies: 29
Views: 3,298 I apologize for having to say this, but this image is just judgmental. We have all been "fake" at one point in time in our lives or another. It is really just a measure of someone's s...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: The sex & friendship was amazing now I want to die!!

Posted: 01 Sep 2014, 4:01 pm 

Replies: 25
Views: 2,750

We met at work, he was very helpful and attentive towards. He always said "I'm here for you for anything". I emailed him my number and we began texting daily. He asked me so many questions about myself that he left little room for questions about himself. We both began to express attraction and int...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Bump when horny

Posted: 31 Aug 2014, 6:58 pm 

Replies: 3,147
Views: 32,463


 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: My perfect Asperger's job...

Posted: 31 Aug 2014, 8:38 am 

Replies: 13
Views: 1,595

You are still in the honeymoon phase of the job. I'm glad you like it so far but try to start looking at the job through a more objective eye. I'm not one of those believers in a perfect job as some days will be better than others. You may want to come up with a plan for a bad day. There will come a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Consequences in "why to ask first"

Posted: 31 Aug 2014, 8:08 am 

Replies: 373
Views: 13,767

Asking for permission is a sign of wanting approval, one should never ask for permission. This is just a bad idea. I let the girl I'm interested in guide me to some degree. I won't make the mistake of misunderstanding a social cue. Catching a sex offender rap will make life infinitely more difficul...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Anyone been through vocational rehabilitation?

Posted: 31 Aug 2014, 7:39 am 

Replies: 21
Views: 3,404

I'm just starting the VR process so the jury is still out for me. My first meeting was somewhat ignominious and left me feeling hopeless and even a little angry at having my hopes dashed. Realizing that the intake counselor's heart was in the right place, I sent her a very nice thank you email. My a...

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: ugh, bought a new car

Posted: 30 Aug 2014, 2:57 pm 

Replies: 19
Views: 4,811

I love the big luxury cars from the late 70s through 85. They are just plain really freakin cool!

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to break up with boyfriend in the cleanest way possible

Posted: 30 Aug 2014, 2:14 pm 

Replies: 16
Views: 2,739

I've been recently on the receiving end of this and while it is sad and does hurt, the sooner you break the news to him the better. This isn't easy but stringing it out longer will actually cause him more psychological trauma. Be as kind and gentle about it as possible. You are really doing this for...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Longest a failed romance has #$%ed you up?

Posted: 30 Aug 2014, 2:07 pm 

Replies: 22
Views: 3,161

engaged for three years. was madly in love. he hit me. i broke up with him. was upset (depressed and angry) for about a year afterward. As bad as you felt, I'm so glad you got out of that situation. If really loved you, he would never want to hurt you. Hitting someone you love is NEVER acceptable.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: neurotypical attempting to date someone with aspergers

Posted: 30 Aug 2014, 2:00 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 2,149

This guy has some other underlying issues that he needs to get taken care of before he is able to be a good partner for you. It's refreshing to see that you don't discriminate against men with ASD but this particular gentleman has some growing up to do. Some Aspies mature more slowly and, yes, I'm o...

 Forum: Adult Autism Issues   Topic: Post here when you're drunk

Posted: 30 Aug 2014, 1:53 pm 

Replies: 869
Views: 9,711

I missed this thread while imbibing last night. I love Oktoberfest and pumpkin beer. Fall is just my favorite season! :-D

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Psychiatrist vs thorough assessment usefulness?

Posted: 30 Aug 2014, 1:46 pm 

Replies: 15
Views: 2,712

Some states like PA will help pay for a diagnosis if you can reasonably articulate that you might suffer from ASD. Check out the PA Office of Vocational Rehabilitation.

 Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion   Topic: Advice for newlyweds?

Posted: 29 Aug 2014, 6:02 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 4,295

We have been married almost 25 years. I got my diagnosis about 15 years ago, so the first 10 were very difficult. Now that we both know what AS is all about it has made it easier but still at times my wife will forget what I have difficulty with or expect me to act NT in situations that want to mak...
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