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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I pursue online dating or not? |
| BTDT |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2024, 7:42 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 469
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| I think you are better off meeting possible dates via your volunteering and charity work. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Is anyone on HRT? |
| BTDT |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2024, 11:41 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 773
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| https://thatsnotmyage.com/style-at-any-age/why-everyone-is-carrying-cross-body-bags/ A cross body bag is an option to keep your hands free. A light colored skirt or skort will help to hide the lack of hips and provide more balance to your upper body. Junior size jean sizes are odd numbered, while wo... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Cutting Hair |
| BTDT |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2024, 8:03 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 386
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| $16 pair of hair cutting scissors for trimming the split ends off my hair for the past four years. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Is anyone on HRT? |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2024, 10:00 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 773
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Yes, you may need a purse to hold your stuff.
I find that golf skirts often have useful pockets. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Is it true that women are more mature than men? |
| BTDT |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2024, 9:25 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 846
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I have a lot of life experiences that most folks don't get until they are older, yet I look like I'm in my late 30s!
A lot of people here have executive function issues which means they don't take advantage of opportunities until later in life. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Finding and Keeping jobs - Tips and Advice |
| BTDT |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2024, 8:39 am
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Replies: 242
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The biggest mistake I see is people here doing too much to make up for some perceived shortcoming.
You want to do the same amount of work as everyone else. No more, no less.
Unless you are making $$$ |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Being the resident autistic at work |
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Posted: 20 Aug 2024, 8:01 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,404
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| You are expected to have a business relationship with him. You are expected to figure out what he needs to do his job. This can be a challenge if someone is good at masking, but that is why they need you to figure it out. "You need to be patient" says they know it can be a challenge and wi... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Is anyone on HRT? |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2024, 10:09 am
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Replies: 9
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| I've considered it but I already have an hourglass figure with a thin waist. Guys can get breast cancer. The risk is greater if you are on HRT. Many MtFs get mammograms as a precaution. What I would suggest is either dressing male or female. While dressing "in the middle" can elicit strong... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to cope with comments related to perceived privilege? |
| BTDT |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2024, 1:18 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 792
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I think the real problem is that people have trouble accepting help!
So many people struggle trying to do things without help!
They turn down offers for assistance.
We live in an world in which nobody would survive for long on our own. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it "your fault" if you're 30+ and haven't found the One? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2024, 11:57 am
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Replies: 45
Views: 2,594
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No, just that she is someone that has taken a long time to grow up.
She has been in the public so long that the changes are quite easy to see. |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Frontpage Autism News not updated in 6 years? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2024, 6:35 am
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Replies: 4
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Yes, it is quite amazing that as much of this site is still useful for Aspies. Lots of Internet resources have gone away.
Lots of vibrant communities have vanished because someone pulled the plug! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it "your fault" if you're 30+ and haven't found the One? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2024, 6:31 am
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Replies: 45
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| No it isn't. It takes longer for some people to grow up. Taylor Swift is a great example of someone that has taken a long time to grow up. She was busy learning how to be a great entertainer and businesswoman! Those skills took a very long time to acquire! Most singers never get to her level of busi... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Do you live alone? Do you want to? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2024, 11:00 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,130
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I live alone in a single family house surrounded by hundreds of flowering plants that I take care of.
It is expensive but I can afford it! I paid off the mortgage over a decade ago. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Morro Bay |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2024, 2:47 am
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Replies: 3
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Twenty years I visited a lot of the coastal towns in California.
It is nice living next to the ocean as the water keeps the weather from getting too hot or cold as your sister said. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My executive functioning is crap. How about yours? |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2024, 7:16 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 968
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| I find it helps to keep a list of stuff I need to do and try to do one a day. Keep a calendar on the refrigerator to keep track of what I've done. It is obvious when I'm doing stuff and when I'm not. I pay my bills as soon as I get them, except for those medical ones that take time for the paperwork... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Have you managed autistic traits successfully? |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2024, 2:31 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,066
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It may help to find a special interest group where you can be kind and helpful.
Often, we can be a resource of knowledge.  |
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