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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Go Woke Go Broke...Let's ask Gina Carano |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2023, 12:04 pm
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Replies: 34
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| I do like the new site, Mastodon. So far it's very nice on there, I haven't been attacked, and people seem to be intelligent, thoughtful, wanting real connection rather than likes, follows, clickbait etc. Very relaxing. I'm sure WP is mostly that way (well it could be) Oh yes, WP is much better tha... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2023, 12:03 pm
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Replies: 8,428
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| One of the best things that helped me was simplifying my life, and that involved avoiding toxic people. It may seem contradictory, but it does give you time to recover even if it feels "grey". You're giving great advice Pepe, thank you, but I've done all of it already. I work alone at hom... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to get on with Neurotypicals |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2023, 11:57 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 283
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| I get on really well with neurotypicals, most of the time, but I don't know how or why. It's a mystery to me. I can't explain it. I say and do whatever and they seem to think I'm amazing, even if what say and do is crap. Not boasting at all here, I'm genuinely perplexed by this. Unless it's like a ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to get on with Neurotypicals |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2023, 11:55 am
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Replies: 12
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| I think these are good points and worth remembering however... I also think that one of the big mistakes I make in dealing with people is adherence to rules and pre-planning my interactions. I don't want to sound defeatist but I find applying rules to NT interactions gets me so far, and is VERY hel... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Go Woke Go Broke...Let's ask Gina Carano |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 08 Mar 2023, 6:57 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 701
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| I've learned to ignore the nasty people online and focus on the nice, friendly ones. I am tired and bored of endless arguments so I prioritise harmony. I do like the new site, Mastodon. So far it's very nice on there, I haven't been attacked, and people seem to be intelligent, thoughtful, wanting re... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Go Woke Go Broke...Let's ask Gina Carano |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 07 Mar 2023, 10:21 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 701
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I haven't met any nasty pro-woke people. I've met plenty of nasty anti-woke people.
Of course, I haven't met everyone in the world thank goodness  |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Go Woke Go Broke...Let's ask Gina Carano |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 06 Mar 2023, 5:10 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 701
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DeathFlowerKing wrote: KitLily wrote: Mwah hahaha. It turns out that anti woke people aren't very nice people. No offense meant but neither are some pro-woke people I know. 
The key word there being...SOME |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Things I Don't Get |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 06 Mar 2023, 5:07 pm
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Replies: 1,028
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IsabellaLinton wrote: I miss you, Pudding.  
Yes. Me too. |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Go Woke Go Broke...Let's ask Gina Carano |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 06 Mar 2023, 11:47 am
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Replies: 34
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| Mwah hahaha. It turns out that anti woke people aren't very nice people. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to get on with Neurotypicals |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 06 Mar 2023, 8:55 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 283
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| Sorry if I've posted a similar thread before, I hope I haven't. I’ve started this thread, mainly for myself so I can put all my observations in one place. Feel free to add to it! Sorry if these points are blatantly obvious, I just hope it helps some people, including myself. • When talking with NTs,... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Keep grieving for the son I'll never have |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 05 Mar 2023, 10:47 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 1,452
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| I hear you. I use community resources. Love our local libraries. :heart: That's the problem. Why oh why did I think living in a small village with no car was a good idea for someone with a tiny child? No libraries or community resources really. We used to have a Sure Start Centre til the government... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Things I Don't Get |
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Posted: 05 Mar 2023, 10:24 am
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Replies: 1,028
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| Things I don't get at all: Fashion. I wear clothes to keep warm/cool. That's it. How do I 'express my personality' through clothes?? What even is that? Same goes for jewellery, make up and hairstyles. I rarely wear jewellery or make up, what's the point of it? I like my hair to look neat, I don't 'e... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Keep grieving for the son I'll never have |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 05 Mar 2023, 6:59 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 1,452
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| I hear you. I use community resources. Love our local libraries. :heart: That's the problem. Why oh why did I think living in a small village with no car was a good idea for someone with a tiny child? No libraries or community resources really. We used to have a Sure Start Centre til the government... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Keep grieving for the son I'll never have |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2023, 7:04 am
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Replies: 34
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| ...That's what I wish I'd had, but I didn't plan anything and so was just left to struggle alone for 9 months with no one even visiting. Hugs. It's sad and amazing what we can/do/have to get through. I hope you've had more times of sufficient support than less. Or at least some moderation. Ebb and ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 04 Mar 2023, 6:58 am
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Replies: 8,428
Views: 557,449
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| I am a slow thinker but a deep one. Define what your problems are and develop customised solutions. "Baby steps" is one of the most powerful strategies in the universe. Yes. I've done all that. Next year we are moving house, away from this area. I've put everything in place, done everythi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| KitLily |
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Posted: 03 Mar 2023, 6:23 am
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Replies: 8,428
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| To those planning on becoming a hermit: I suggest all hermits form a community and live in isolation altogether... Erm... :scratch: D'oh! :wall: I'm not planning on becoming a hermit, Pepe, I'm planning to end it all if I have to live here much longer. I can't live in this cage anymore, I can't see... |
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