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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why shouldn't I hate myself? |
Lely |
Posted: 03 Sep 2019, 4:03 pm
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How does it help other people if you hate yourself? Why is it not enough if they decide to hate you? When someone wrongs me I don't care if they love or hate themselves because it has nothing to do with how they treated me (maybe it would even make them treat me worse because they would become more ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Learning new languages |
Lely |
Posted: 02 Sep 2019, 2:09 pm
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Replies: 13 Views: 485
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I don't see the point in learning a new language because I'm not good at talking even in my mother tongue. Once my French teacher in school said to me, my written French is good but that I can't put my French into spoken words very well. It made me realize it is of no point to learn languages. Langu... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you have family photos on display in your home? |
Lely |
Posted: 29 Aug 2019, 3:43 am
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Replies: 33 Views: 1,019
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I don't have relationships to my family members, so no. But I am not a person who enjoys looking at photos anyway. My ex-boyfriend had about 20 pictures of his nieces and parents on the fridge. I don't believe he would have even noticed if some pictures were suddenly missing, so the individual pictu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you believe in the idea of a Soulmate? |
Lely |
Posted: 20 Aug 2019, 3:43 am
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Replies: 57 Views: 1,864
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No, but humans are wired to form bonds and to look for strong connections. They might think they have a soulmate. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Tarot Card and Cartomancy Randomness |
Lely |
Posted: 16 Aug 2019, 8:15 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 735
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This is the Sun from my Lenormand deck.
edit: that upload of the picture was really bad I thought it would show bigger, but you have to click on it to see it properly. I never uploaded a picture on a forum before. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Do you believe in spirits? |
Lely |
Posted: 16 Aug 2019, 8:04 am
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Yes. But imo it doesn't mean spirits are necessarily deceased people, even though some might be. Maybe all spirits dead and conscious minds alive are part of one big thing. There is a term for it but I forgot it. I find it would explain things such as prophetic dreams or premonitions. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Tarot Card and Cartomancy Randomness |
Lely |
Posted: 16 Aug 2019, 7:49 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 735
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TheCherokeeRosePrince wrote: I don't like The Sun card because it shows a naked boy riding a horse. Child nudity disturbs me even when it's art. I guess because I was molested by cousin when I was a little kid. that's sad, I'm sorry to hear your cousin molested you |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Tarot Card and Cartomancy Randomness |
Lely |
Posted: 16 Aug 2019, 7:18 am
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I think I have do some traits of The Emperor and Death. I certainly get my way a lot in a passive aggressive kinda way. :lol: :P Also strangely 13 (Death) is unlucky in Western philosophy and 4 (The Emperor) is unlucky in Eastern philosophy. I have two unlucky numbers of east and west in my birth c... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Tarot Card and Cartomancy Randomness |
Lely |
Posted: 16 Aug 2019, 6:43 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 735
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I think I have do some traits of The Emperor and Death. I certainly get my way a lot in a passive aggressive kinda way. :lol: :P Also strangely 13 (Death) is unlucky in Western philosophy and 4 (The Emperor) is unlucky in Eastern philosophy. I have two unlucky numbers of east and west in my birth c... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Tarot Card and Cartomancy Randomness |
Lely |
Posted: 16 Aug 2019, 5:42 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 735
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I never read for strangers such as Trump. I only ask questions about something in my life, pull the cards and then write down in a journal. Then later I come back and look at how well it applied or where I misread a card. Because I am socio-emotionally underdeveloped I wouldn't trust myself that I c... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Upcoming Job Interview - Anxiety Being an Issue |
Lely |
Posted: 08 Aug 2019, 12:43 pm
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Replies: 4 Views: 410
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My name is George. I have just graduated from college a couple of months ago with my Bachelor of Arts degree in Communications geared toward radio broadcasting. It has been two months since I've been looking for a job opportunity in radio stations. I have looked on networking business websites and ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Today i realized.... |
Lely |
Posted: 08 Aug 2019, 12:22 pm
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Replies: 11 Views: 247
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Highly_Autistic wrote: Hi again. Today i realized something pathetic about my life. i dont talk to anyone. 30-40 words in a day. i dont have friends btw I'm the same. How do you spend your days, where do you go? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friendship Board - Age 19 Onwards |
Lely |
Posted: 31 Jul 2019, 2:55 pm
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I'm a 26 year old woman in Germany. I'm unemployed and worked in factories for the past years. I like to crochet and am interested in cartomancy. Send me a private message I'm not the best at conversation, so apologies in advance. But I would love to try chat with someone anyway.[/quote] |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Im ugly and repulsive |
Lely |
Posted: 31 Jul 2019, 2:46 pm
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Replies: 27 Views: 875
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Im in the same situation and I do the same. Hide at home. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Nothing |
Lely |
Posted: 31 Jul 2019, 2:42 pm
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Replies: 6 Views: 302
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-unemployed -no family -no friends -Broke up with boyfriend of a year today. Now I have nobody. I miss him but we weren't compatible anyway for many reasons so I understand it was only a matter of time. Ex boyfriend often complained after social functions why I don't speak to his friends / family an... |
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