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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: WHAT "sexual urges"?! |
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Posted: 05 Feb 2008, 3:05 am
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Replies: 76
Views: 12,816
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| Nothing wrong with not wanting sex at your age. Last thing in the world you should do is make out with someone 'cause it's expected. You have to want to. Whatever you decide to do in the long run, don't worry about it now. By the way, sex with the right person under the right conditions can be a lot... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Was there ever someone that you wanted to be just like? |
| beentheredonethat |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2008, 12:55 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,260
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In highschool, I wanted to be like the popular kids. Then several years later, I saw how most of them wound up. Not that well. So I was happy I was saved from that particular fate.
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you beleve that calling yourself a loser is a good thing? |
| beentheredonethat |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2008, 12:52 am
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Replies: 24
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| So is your definition of 'loser' to mean "one who does not acquire" as opposed to "one who is inept"? You all talk about things being 'hardwired' and I think that is wrong. Mw99, when you say 'loser' and someone else thinks 'loser vs winner', it's not hardwired. These are made up terms that in our ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "You are blahblah" vs. "what you did is blahb |
| beentheredonethat |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2008, 12:38 am
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Replies: 7
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| Right now I'm up to starting to say, when someone does something wrong, "What you did is annoying" or "what you did sucks" rather than "you are annoying", "you suck", etc. How about you? :) Anna: That's what any psychologist will tell you. You explain to someone that the behavior is not okay. You d... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: We Have Mods . . . I Know We Do . . . I'm Sure Of It |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2008, 12:34 am
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Replies: 51
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If you want to report someone, try
[email protected]
He's not a mod. He's the Uber Mod.....er....site operator.
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you beleve that calling yourself a loser is a good thing? |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2008, 12:32 am
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Replies: 24
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| "If I'm not for myself, who is for me?" I don't think I'm a loser. I don't think anyone is a loser. That's something some sick mind (not yours) thought up, and a lot of people bought into it. It's BS. If you give up, you lose, but that doesn't mean you're a "loser." Chin up, head high, if you lose, ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Question about my tics |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2008, 12:29 am
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Replies: 5
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| Tension never helps anyone. But sometimes the stuff they give you for it is worse. If don't have tourettes (in which case, there isn't always something they can do about it)....try meditation. No, I have not lost my tiny mind. I used to have some terrible ticks. Then, one day, sitting on a train pla... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: We Have Mods . . . I Know We Do . . . I'm Sure Of It |
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Posted: 31 Jan 2008, 12:19 am
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Replies: 51
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| Yes. We have mods. Whether they reveal themselves is up to them. But then you really have to be violating the TOS to get to know who they are. But they are there. And the question is, do you really want to know? Why? I know, just 'cause. Well, sometimes, that's not enough. If you violate the TOS (an... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: what do women want from men? |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2008, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 4,768
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| Lots of times, women (and I'm talking about women over eighteen) just want to talk. And that's all. What's wrong with that? You meet the most interesting women online. Why mess it up with a "let's meet and get to know each other." If that's what you're looking for, try a dating site. This isn't one.... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Facebook |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2008, 9:37 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 5,177
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| I'm antisocial, so social sites are of no use to me. I've looked at stuff on myspace (someone used my machine and she didn't realize I had a key logger installed in it, and did a lousy job of cleaning up after herself......and I don't think I want to be involved with the people who use those sites. ... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Running away from home? |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2008, 9:33 pm
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Replies: 11
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| Go if you must, but New York City is EXPENSIVE, unfriendly, and sometimes dangerous. We live in Jersey. I lived in a very nice part of the city a long time ago, but I priced it a few weeks ago. No way. I'm told the East Village is "cheap." and so is flushing meadow. But Cheap is relative. Get a job ... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: I am scared.. |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2008, 9:29 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 3,876
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The only terrorists around right now are in the White House.
Relax.
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it possible to be good at manipulating people having AS? |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2008, 5:20 pm
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Replies: 46
Views: 7,023
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| I'm really good at manipulating people, if I want to be. I did it for years. It was called working, and I was called a supervisor. It's easy. People are easy targets. All you need to know is where the right "buttons" are. Having said that, would I do it as a general lifestyle? No. Why. People you ma... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspies are built for war |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2008, 5:05 pm
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Replies: 53
Views: 4,931
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| Elan_1. You're either a very young kid, or you don't know the first thing about wars (aside from video games). I was in Vietnam. As an E3....that means the lowest of the low. How did I get in? I lied a little bit. I thought it was a good way to have an adventure. Aspies (at least this one) do not ma... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anybody Take a Life Skills Class? |
| beentheredonethat |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2008, 4:50 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,279
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| Anybody take a life skills class? In the near-future I'm going to have to take one, just wondering anybody here take one and whats it like :?: Life skills? Taught by whom....with what life? If this is a "how to make a phone call" "How to get a job" "How to navigate through a railroad station" I mea... |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Anti-cure Cowardice? |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2008, 4:45 pm
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Replies: 240
Views: 23,336
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Elan_1.
In my humble opinion. You're nuts!
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