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 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: Random Discussion - Women

Posted: 23 Jun 2024, 11:16 am 

Replies: 119
Views: 10,878


The great thing about forums like this that you can ask the OP what they were thinking. I usually write for a specific audience, particularly on a forum like this where I have posted for a long time. One doesn't write 7000 posts in a couple hours. Most of the real life women I know are in long term ...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: I have applied to target, walmart is next if needed.

Posted: 23 Jun 2024, 9:33 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 1,318


It may be helpful to study the 1987 Movie Spaceballs. The Aliens are like Aspies, far more advanced but far too trusting. Aliens have advanced technology and superior intellect on their side. The humans have lies and dirty tricks to counter that. Professional advice would be best, but is usually una...

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: Random Discussion - Women

Posted: 23 Jun 2024, 9:30 am 

Replies: 119
Views: 10,878


Some pressure may be necessary to achieve one's full potential. People with autism often have executive function disorders. A little pressure may be a reasonable compromise for fixing the inability to get anything done. I'm obviously biased as I've done better than most. I'm sure my outlook would be...

 Forum: Women's Discussion   Topic: Random Discussion - Women

Posted: 23 Jun 2024, 5:55 am 

Replies: 119
Views: 10,878


babybird wrote:
I think there's a lot of pressure on women sometimes

The real issue is the gaslighting. Pressure is OK, gaslighting isn't.

 Forum: LGBT Discussion   Topic: Any guys that envy the social status of some women

Posted: 23 Jun 2024, 1:46 am 

Replies: 4
Views: 858


Woman are judged by appearance. I spent a lot on dental implants so I have a full set of teeth that aren't dentures. I look good without makeup. Which is hard.
It is even harder to as a female to think you look good.

Yes, being a short guy makes you invisible.

 Forum: LGBT Discussion   Topic: Being autistic and LGBT

 Post subject: Re: Being autistic and LGBT
Posted: 23 Jun 2024, 1:37 am 

Replies: 11
Views: 1,524


The way to handle autism is to ask for specific help when you needed. In other words, if the lights are too bright or the talking too loud you need to say that. I'm autistic is not helpful. That is way too vague. Each person on the spectrum is different. Normal people aren't going to figure out auti...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: I have applied to target, walmart is next if needed.

Posted: 23 Jun 2024, 1:25 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 1,318


[quote="Sweetleaf] Well yeah it probably would help to improve them, I just don't know where to find an instruction manual, do they have a social skills for idiots book somewhere? lol. Observe your co-workers and see if you can learn to copy social interactions that work. And avoid stuff that d...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Therapy styles that work for autistic adults

Posted: 23 Jun 2024, 1:21 am 

Replies: 22
Views: 1,085


My wife was a NAMI certified mental health counselor. She concluded that therapy wasn't useful compared to my other options. I have a large yard and spend a lot of time gardening alone. I think a lot of Aspies would benefit from something like that. Perhaps volunteering at a public garden. In the pa...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: I have applied to target, walmart is next if needed.

Posted: 22 Jun 2024, 6:22 pm 

Replies: 20
Views: 1,318


Doing more work to compensate for poor social skills is a very bad idea. Instead, perhaps you could work on your social skills? My wife would come home and complain how bad things were at work. It was better when she went on disability and I didn't have to listen to that. Between disability, my sala...

 Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports   Topic: Laser eye surgery!

 Post subject: Re: Laser eye surgery!
Posted: 22 Jun 2024, 8:11 am 

Replies: 17
Views: 908


https://www.keratonyc.com/

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: I have applied to target, walmart is next if needed.

Posted: 22 Jun 2024, 4:44 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 1,318


If you do you job sooner and wait around with nothing to do but pick up the trash you are sending a very bad message. Are your co-workers also supposed to pick up the trash? Should they be working faster? Does management need to figure out stuff for you to do? Perhaps they have to send you home beca...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: I have applied to target, walmart is next if needed.

Posted: 22 Jun 2024, 1:28 am 

Replies: 20
Views: 1,318


Hi Sweetleaf, You may have fallen into the trap of doing too much, making your co-workers look bad. It is like those reality shows in which your fellow competitors vote you out if you are too good! I'm learning to play social golf. The most important thing is to play fast because nobody likes to wai...

 Forum: LGBT Discussion   Topic: Any guys that envy the social status of some women

Posted: 22 Jun 2024, 1:17 am 

Replies: 4
Views: 858


As a short guy I was pretty close to the bottom in terms of social status. But, as a girl who looks ten to twenty years younger, I've worked on diet and excercise to have an hourglass figure with an obscenely thin waistline. I'm 5'2" and weigh 104lbs. Social interactions are quite easy presenti...

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: What did you cook today?

Posted: 20 Jun 2024, 1:00 am 

Replies: 528
Views: 23,584


Lobster in the double boiler and corn on the cob in the microwave for dinner.
Breakfast was a rolled omelet with sauteed onions and cheese.
I realized todaythat my cooking has improved to where I should run multiple burners on the range to save time.

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: Last thing ya bought?

 Post subject: Re: Last thing ya bought?
Posted: 16 Jun 2024, 11:45 am 

Replies: 5,899
Views: 225,741


Sugar cones, Ben and Jerry's ice cream, and Cabot whipped cream in a spray can!

 Forum: Random Discussion   Topic: What are you eating?/Last thing you ate?

Posted: 11 Jun 2024, 12:10 pm 

Replies: 19,600
Views: 820,093


2ft hotdog!
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