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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do some people play games? |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 6:43 am
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| Getting on with someone online, is not a pre-requisite for being a perfect match, when meeting in the flesh. Imo, it's a fairly straightforward case of her not seeing you as boyfriend material, but not being blunt about it. Possibly not to hurt you. These are risks you must take if you put yourself... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do some people play games? |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2013, 6:33 am
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auntblabby wrote: Nonperson wrote: You'd probably have a lower opinion of a woman if she seemed desperate. definitely NOT! 
I agree with blabby. I would not have a lower opinion after that. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do some people play games? |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2013, 7:19 pm
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| I think this may have been her way of telling you that she didn't fancy you without hurting your feelings. At least she liked you enough to not want to upset you though. I wouldn't get to hung up on it though, the problem with online dating is that there's a lot more unsuitable people and than ther... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do some people play games? |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2013, 4:05 pm
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| Possible reasons she won't see you again after one date: 1. She's reconciled with her husband. 2. Her boyfriend is back. 3. Her wife is getting suspicious. 4. You've been "Friend-Zoned". 5. You've been "Creep-Zoned". 6. She's just not into you. Go find someone else - you deserve better. I don't thi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do some people play games? |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2013, 4:02 pm
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| So if I picture myself in that situation, I would actually assume that because the person doesn't want to see me anymore that he is uninterested no matter the excuses he makes. He had a profile on OKcupid so therefore he must have wanted to meet someone. Therefore I would simply assume he was unint... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do some people play games? |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2013, 3:54 pm
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| You are overgeneralizing quite a bit... She told you that she is not interested in dating right now. I have a theory: She is not interested in dating you right now. Whether she will be interested in the future, is up to her and you. She may have said in a tactful manner that she is not too keen on ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do some people play games? |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2013, 2:53 pm
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| UGGGH. ARRGH. Why do they? I met a woman online through OkCupid about 3 months ago. We finally met at a coffee house last Friday, 22 March 2013. Things had been going very well. She has a great personality, great looks, and I loved making her laugh (it was sort of in a bashful, cute way). I think th... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Majorly hyper today |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2013, 9:42 am
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Replies: 4
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| Turns out, I likely missed my Lexapro (Escitalopram) that day, so it was probably anxiety-related. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Majorly hyper today |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2013, 2:50 pm
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| Oh, gosh, I feel so hyper today. I keep getting up and sitting back down, crap like that. It's driving me nuts. The way my mind works is changing. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: ADD and milk (of cow, that is ~) |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2013, 1:21 pm
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Replies: 25
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| Another diet-related thing: I just figured out that certain my migraines are triggered by chocolate. Possibly ADD symptoms, too. I had an intense migraine yesterday, and ended up at the hospital for a few hours. They gave me a shot in the upper thigh/lower buttock area. Sent me on my way with a bunc... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Uggh. |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2013, 6:34 am
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| Damned brain. I woke up feeling like crap today. Bad images in my head. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The Hot Aspies Pictures and Chat Room |
| Frieslander |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2013, 4:20 pm
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Replies: 27,161
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Shatbat wrote: I wonder, what does your graining routine look like? Lately I've been heavily into ab-wheel exercises, I can't laugh properly  *ouch*
You meant "training routine", I take it? |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: The Hot Aspies Pictures and Chat Room |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2013, 4:17 pm
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Kinme wrote: A few more weeks of progress: 
Is that University of Michigan "M"?
You look really good, but you look too young for me. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: ADD and milk (of cow, that is ~) |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2013, 10:13 am
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Callista wrote: Well, allergy testing isn't exactly a 100% reliable procedure. There's no such thing in medicine, and allergy testing is less reliable than many. Not worthless, but not totally reliable either.
"No such thing" -- what do you mean by "There's no such in medicine..." |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: hating my sensory issues |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2013, 10:10 am
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| Do you mean laundry soap? You can buy ones that are gentle on your clothes and don't leave much residue. It could also be that you're using too much detergeant or fabric softener. I notice that really strong fabric softeners can leave a slimy feel to clothes. No, I mean shower/hand soap and hair sh... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: ADD and milk (of cow, that is ~) |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2013, 9:37 am
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| I don't see what the point is in cutting out gluten and casein without first determining that you have an intolerance. Just because you have stomach trouble doesn't mean you should cut them out. Your problems could be related to an allergy to a different food. Not everyone who has an allergy is all... |
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