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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: 15 May 2025, 12:08 am
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Replies: 21
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| If you separate the desires of marriage and children the choice should become easier @chris1989... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 10:23 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I see raising children as another lifelong contract much like marriage but at least marriage can be reversed!! ! So in reality...while marriage and children can be put together, it makes the most sense to see them as 2 separate lifelong contracts! In order to truly understand what is driving your de... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 9:22 pm
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^also in order for a marriage and parenting to succeed you MUST learn how to multitask and effectively manage resources!! !
This is part of why I am ambivalant about all of this... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility Communication and stuff |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 7:25 pm
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Replies: 94
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| Getting married for the first time is SCARY!! ! We really need to de-emphasize it because the constant societal conditioning about marriage is DESTROYING PEOPLE'S LIVES! I think it's up to the couple, if there is one, to take control of the union and stuff the social pressures. If marrying hooks th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Societal Conditioning about Marriage!! ! |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 7:00 pm
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Replies: 6
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| I agree, but unfortunately that's the way society is and will continue to be. If being single and childfree was shown more in a positive light in the media more people would feel comfortable with where they are in life. But...what if society showed us the darker side of marriage and parenting? Woul... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 6:58 pm
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Replies: 21
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| Certain things by a certain age like not experiencing sex and relationships before 30 for example? It really does my head in and I seem to think it makes people feel worse and more ashamed and regretful because they didn't do these at an earlier stage than at a later stage. I feel like some people ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility Communication and stuff |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 5:36 pm
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Replies: 94
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^I personally think that both marriage and motherhood are overrated
Doesn't mean I no longer desire those things, I am just thinking rationally & logically before I jump in to something I might not truly be ready for... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Societal Conditioning about Marriage!! ! |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 5:31 pm
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Replies: 6
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| I feel this is a MAJOR problem! The messaging about if you aren't in a romantic relationship you are inadequate and a total failure of a person is very problematic because it places all your worth on having a partner instead of yourself I feel that our music, movie and TV industries are feeding into... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Compatibility Communication and stuff |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 4:55 pm
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Replies: 94
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Getting married for the first time is SCARY!! !
We really need to de-emphasize it because the constant societal conditioning about marriage is DESTROYING PEOPLE'S LIVES! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A part of me wants marriage, child etc, a part of me doesn't |
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Posted: 14 May 2025, 11:01 am
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Replies: 21
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^the solution is to de-emphasize marriage and children which is already kinda happening!! !
People need to realize that there is MORE TO LIFE THAN GETTING MARRIED AND STARTING A FAMILY! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does "losing my virginity" make me "more of a man?" |
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Posted: 13 May 2025, 7:07 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Lol I had sex (lost my virginity) and I don't feel like a changed woman In that sense, sex is overrated because people place SO MUCH stock & emphasis on it! The things that would actually make me feel "more like a woman" are as follows... -Getting a good job/career -Learning how to dri... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: struggling with dating |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 11:58 pm
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Replies: 5
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Yes...listen to this!! !
Start from the bottom!! !
It's the only way to gain experience & confidence with dating! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are your thoughts on having kids as someone with asd? |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 7:23 pm
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| ^yes you have to be a mature adult in order to be able to successfully handle and raise children!! ! I'd even argue that the same holds true for getting married as well! EDIT: I feel too many immature people are signing themselves up for something they aren't truly ready for and it destroys them!! !... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: How to fight boss in The Legend of Zelda: Skyward Sword? |
| Mikurotoro92 |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 6:37 pm
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Replies: 20
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| The mine-cart sequence is kinda hard though... But it is a LOT of fun!! ! On a semi-related note about the game's bosses I know that many people say the most epic battles are against Koloktos & The Imprisoned but I will actually put Levias above those 2 in terms of epicness and scale! Why? Well... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: How to fight boss in The Legend of Zelda: Skyward Sword? |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 6:32 pm
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Replies: 20
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| I beat the tentacle-monster and am now at the Eldin Volcano Silent Realm... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The 80/20 percent thing |
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Posted: 12 May 2025, 2:17 am
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Replies: 290
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| ^so obviously the conclusion to draw from these statistics is the older you are the more likely you are to be married or co-habitating with a partner? Am I reading that correctly? According to the provided information, and for men, that does seem to be the case, as the rate of "singleness"... |
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