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Forum: The Haven Topic: Can you help me stay calm? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2017, 8:24 pm
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Replies: 10
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get a psychologist
get a psychiatrist. discuss anxiety meds. see if the psychiatrist will prescribe them
get a support group
deep breathing
Google relaxation exercises
look up instructions on meditation
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: cracking my joints |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 24 Apr 2017, 11:01 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 4,053
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jaw, snapping jaw syndrome
shoulder, when putting hand behind head and rotating elbow forward
left hip, external rotation
knees sometimes |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Pointless Thread of Death |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 24 Apr 2017, 9:42 pm
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Replies: 1,213
Views: 23,345
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| yes. why should you bother doing anything, when it is all meaningless anyways? there are a lot of events from the past, that i perceive as bad, that i obsess with. some of them, i have obsessed with for over 20 years, daily. for example, when i was 12, i wrongfully accused someone of stealing someth... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Sick of being a total dumbass |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2017, 10:23 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 302
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| I can't accept the fact that I have such a severe form of autism. No one likes me or wants to do anything with me. My life is f*****g pointless. I used to think that I will become rich and forget about social life but I see that it's not possible either. Wealth and society are connected and it's imp... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I've got something really shameful to say. Help? |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2017, 10:02 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 1,081
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| maybe. when i told the licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) at school (community college) about my defecation habits, the lil moron made an involuntary grimace. as if it was the most disgusting thing she had ever heard of. even her involuntary nonverbal communication (surprise @ when i told her my... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Thinking of quitting my job and just never leaving my house. |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2017, 10:28 pm
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Replies: 70
Views: 2,623
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| "Is it though? Mean if min wage is seen as same as no job, is it really better? It often adds lot of stress I've had more acne since the last 6 months. Before the job I'd almost gotten rid of it. Seems like one only matters as a man if one has a middle class income job. For me besides find By a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone here hate themeselves? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2017, 9:58 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,140
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| there are no "bad people", only threats to certain interests of certain groups at certain times. that may be what is meant by "bad" in some cases. yes, and there are no "good people" either. and that makes me even more paranoid than i was before i came to that enlighten... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you happy today. |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2017, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 30,633
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the 87 cent tuna salad was delicious.
bowel movements did not take as long a time as usual.
nobody and nothing bothered me today. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Fear of abandonment |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2017, 8:47 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 394
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| yes i got a fear of abandonment too. and b/c of that, among other things, i tend to abandon them before they get a chance to abandon me. in my defense, plenty of precious little "people" in the past have had the nerve to tell me that they were my precious little "friends". they h... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can anyone identify with this? |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2017, 8:39 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 600
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| yes. when i worked as a Tax Preparer, they took a break for lunch. someone bought a large bucket of vietnamese noodles for everyone to eat out of. and they sat around eating and talking. while i went upstairs. empty floor. sat alone and ate. and then after that went outside. maybe i should've intera... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Food sensory problems? |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2017, 10:25 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,576
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| mayonnaise is fine. but i do not add it myself. if i eat a hummus sandwich and the mayo is already on then i eat it. prefer cooked vegetables. but i am chinese so maybe it's b/c when i was raised they cooked vegetables. usually microwave one serving spinach and eat it in the morning. and eat about 4... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you do the same way everytime? |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2017, 10:08 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,629
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| What are the most things you like doing over and over the same way every time, do you play the same song over and over agian? tae care _______________________________________________________________________________ unless something really unusual happens, i go to bed from 10-6. once in a while i sle... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm lost |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2017, 9:56 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 697
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| this post is going to be kind of unfocussed. I'm not sure where to put this post. I have a feeling I'm more interested right now in dealing with my own issues rather than general issues. I don't really know what to do with my life. or what I CAN do. I think I'm built my life to be restrictive, so th... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Over Thinking |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2017, 9:29 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 2,437
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| Does anyone struggle with obsessive thoughts or over thinking? I struggle with them a lot. I over think a lot and obsess over certain things and it is very annoying. My obsessive thoughts lead to anxiety and depression. My brain just has to analyze everything instead of letting it go. I was wonderin... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My life is pointless |
| shortfatbalduglyman |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2017, 9:16 pm
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Replies: 16
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| "Can relate to this - there is nothing that I am interested in, and everything feels futile." :!: :?: :idea: :arrow: :ninja: :jester: :heart: yes, sir. yes, ma'am. likewise. in the past (and still in the current), i have had various obsessions. for example: eating a certain number servings... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: *binge rant* |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2017, 10:30 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 533
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| ANRED support group psychologist some medication reduces appetite read books about it diversion ________________________________________________________________________ having said that, sometimes i binge too. and paranoid about getting fat. and not much $$ to waste. some merchandise that i want to ... |
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