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Forum: The Haven Topic: So I have a depressed boyfriend... |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2014, 8:56 am
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Replies: 5
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| If he hurts himself, no matter whether you stick around or leave, if he hurts himself, then it was not because of YOU. Exactly this. You're not responsible for someone's mental state, if you break up remain friends, don't be cold or distant (its possible if you guys have been only dating for a few ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate Nts and want to die |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2014, 2:10 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 3,420
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| Nope won't say NTs aren't like that or autistics are "worse". I'll say we're all human and imo people are either capable of making a conscious decision or they aren't. I personally think both NT and AS are both people and as both are--both are flawed. I can lie if i want, I could play games if I wan... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: To those who think depression is a joke |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2014, 6:52 pm
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Replies: 16
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| I am thinking the OP more means Major Depressive disorder not just the emotion of 'depressed' which in itself is not a disorder...Also though I have had diagnosed depression since I was 15, though I know i had it before then that is just when it came to light. But I have tried all kinds of medicati... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: To those who think depression is a joke |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2014, 8:31 am
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Replies: 16
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| Parkinson's is hard to pin down. There are times when it affects cognition; other times, it doesn't. It must be frustrating for Muhammad Ali; he suffers from a Parkinson's-type disorder bought about by being punched constantly. Apparently, his cognition is 100% intact. Wow, didn't know that about A... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: To those who think depression is a joke |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2014, 8:08 am
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Replies: 16
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| Depression is not a joke, I also agree with what kraftiekortie is saying. Its not easy to mitigate depression--its a spiral and its something that affects the way you view and look at things in your life. That being said--it is chemical and it can be changed, just like things that are upsetting and ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Oh great, I'll be 25 in 6 days. |
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Posted: 19 Aug 2014, 5:36 am
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Replies: 19
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| 25 isn't old, infact its a really good age. Your bodies done maturing, your mind is at a good stage for self improvement and learning, you can have kids or get in shape by exercising--which at least improves the way your mind handles and deals with stress. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm going to start being mean to people |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2014, 9:33 pm
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Replies: 23
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| People with ASD often end up with the short end of the stick socially and on top of that you are dealing with overt and subtle racism. But there isn't a one best response that fits all situations... for example if you are friendly to everyone you will be taken advantage of, and if you are mean to e... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Attempting to contact a girl from the past: Bad idea? |
| Greatsharkbite |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2014, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 55
Views: 13,900
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| You can contact this person if you want Gwiz. Honestly I wouldn't let the posts here dissuade you, even if its a possible mistake. We're as humans meant to make mistakes. Contact if you want--if you've put this much time in it, you'll probably need closure--no matter what the means. I just hope the ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Living in my hometown is hell! |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2014, 11:48 pm
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Replies: 3
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| What exactly are your neighbors complaining about? |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Correct response when a girl complements another girl? |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2014, 9:47 pm
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Replies: 7
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I don't think you have to do anything to be honest. You can give your opinion, or not give it. Same thing as if a girl is complimenting a good looking guy.
Tho i'm probably incredibly awkward with that type of stuff also. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: when the going gets rough |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2014, 11:55 am
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Replies: 7
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| I do not get the impression that is the case at all based on the increase of certain PTSD symptoms such as flashbacks and the associated panic attacks...seems more like my brain is actively trying to make sure I can't escape from that. Also I was depressed before anything 'traumatic' per say largel... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: when the going gets rough |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2014, 10:54 am
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Replies: 7
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| The thing is I am not depressed because my life 'is' crap...I mean I have some close family, even aquantinces/friends more or less and now I can breath a little easier because I am on SSI so now I for sure know I get an income every month(not a great one but better than nothing) I'd say it was wors... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: when the going gets rough |
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Posted: 16 Jun 2014, 5:54 pm
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| There is some stuff in there I sort of agree with, but a lot just sounds like the same old self help BS I see all the time and don't find useful in the least so here is my opinion on these: 2. 'Its only a problem if you think its a problem'....WTF? yes when that lock down happened at my school the ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My friend and I are having a friendship ending fight. |
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Posted: 04 Jun 2014, 8:53 pm
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Replies: 9
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| I know this post couldn't fully summarize the extent and depth of a friendship you guys have had for a year, but what throws me off a little is the fact you guys are considering potentially being together.. yet are not exclusive in that time frame. I mean I guess it works--but you seem to put a lot ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I am tired of myself |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2014, 10:27 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 536
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| OP, do you really want friends..? Have you had them? For me when I was your age I really just wanted to be included but honestly, I could count the people I wanted to hang out with at age seventeen on one hand. I wouldn't really worry too much about it, when you've truly had enough.. when you find o... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: A Poem I Wrote In Response To Someone Still Bullying Me |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2014, 10:11 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 455
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| I'm not a poetry expert or anything, but I thought it hit home based off of a lot of my own personal experiences. I liked it a lot to say the least. |
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