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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: I lost my memory |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2014, 5:25 am
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Replies: 15
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babybird wrote: KingdomOfRats wrote: on any medications,babybird?
these can often cause memory issues. Yes I take mirtazapine at night an Equasym in the day. It hasn't happened since I made this thread, strangely enough.
That's because it can be controlled by third parties. |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Being told I'm selfish |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2014, 5:20 am
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Replies: 12
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| That must be hard. I get called selfish by people too. One lady kept telling me I was selfish and I didn't understand. I'm sorry you are depressed. It seems like I can relate to people if I've gone through something similar in my life but if I've felt that way or experienced something related I fin... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Being told I'm selfish |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2014, 5:17 am
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| NT's have difficulty understanding that self-referencing (which is conceptual) is different from being selfish (which translates into negative behaviours like greed). Everyone is self-referencing, Aspies generally more so, because a lot of NT assumptions/rules/behaviours lack validity to us. What w... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Uncontrollable Aggression - Close to Jail |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2014, 5:16 am
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Replies: 13
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| I hate to say uncontrollable because there is always some way to either prevent or calm down a bad situation but I haven't quite found a good way at doing it yet. I've had bad "aggression" from the time I could talk, going gorillas over pretty small things. I have not began to tame my aggression ne... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Accused of being manipulative |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2014, 1:42 am
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Replies: 9
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Pobbles wrote: AztecQueen2000 wrote: She knows about my AS, but she throws it in my face when she's mad at me. She has also frequently called me manipulative. Sounds like this person doesn't deserve you as a friend.
She sees her as higher than hereself evident by calling her manipulative. Human psychology is quite unresearched. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I want a stronger Image. |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2014, 1:38 am
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Replies: 13
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| You see those guys who have that "do what I want when, where and how I want"? Those guys that just have a really strong character? Those guys that make others look up to him because he has....... well.......... it? Well I want to have that image. I want that air of dominance that these guys seem to... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How do I approach a group of people? |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2014, 1:35 am
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Replies: 3
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NeonReggae wrote: Thank you for your input! 
But don't judge if they are "that bad" too hastily. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I hate compliments. How do I fix this? |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2014, 1:33 am
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Replies: 16
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| I get extremely uncomfortable whenever I get any kind of praise from anyone. The greater the compliment, the more uneasy and awkward I get. I feel the worst when someone compliments me in front of others, or makes a point of telling others something positive about me. I don't know if this is a comm... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I can certainly see why some people are single. |
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Posted: 18 Mar 2014, 1:29 am
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Replies: 63
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Jono wrote: I don't get it, he's right. There's nothing wrong with a guy having lot's of female friends and calling him a loser for that seems bit disingenuous to me.
I know right? There's this guy who can kill 10 people at once in unarmed combat. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Who here thinks the Alpha/Beta Male theory is false? |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 16 Mar 2014, 12:27 am
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Replies: 31
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| Yes. A good person makes a good friend; a bad person makes a bad 'friend,' whose friendship is contingent and who, like as not, is just using you for some ulterior motive rather than true friendship or loyalty. Noone is really a bad person. And I mean noone. My life to it. It's a misundersranding. ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: lluminati - Do you think they exist? |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2014, 2:03 am
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| It doesn't matter. They should no longer exist. After the holy war againdmst Lucifer and the first evil was successful. There will never be any corruption again. Now remember: everyone is a good person and has a reason to do wharever they're doing. And everyone of the same gender are accepted in a p... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you get accused of bragging? |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2014, 1:49 am
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Replies: 12
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| One of the few aspies I've met in real life was a guy who seemed, to me, to be constantly bragging about his accomplishments. On the other hand, I've been accused of being "a braggart" myself. I get the impression it's never ok to say anything good about yourself/mention any of your accomplishments... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Afraid of women? |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2014, 1:26 am
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Replies: 32
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| I know this may be stupid for me to say this and im not sure where to put this and its kind of embarressing to admit it as a guy but sometimes I am afraid of women. I dont bother doing the approaching because I fear rejection and fear being considered as a creep or whatnot so I dont bother. I let t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: AS people = Beta males/females? |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2014, 1:20 am
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Replies: 82
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| I do not intend to offend anyone with this post. But is it true that all people with Aspergers Syndrome, without exception, are "beta"-males/females in the social hierarchy/dating scene (because of being social outcasts/having pervasive developmental disorders)? Meaning we are basically considered ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Who here thinks the Alpha/Beta Male theory is false? |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2014, 12:54 am
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Replies: 31
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| So one of my friends, who knows all the tricks of the trade of being a pick-up artist...is standing very firm on his belief of the "Alpha/beta male" theory. One thing is that all animals in the wild, have alpha and beta males. "The alpha spreads his stronger genes while the weak ones die out." He s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Alpha Male Body Language |
| Erwin |
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Posted: 14 Mar 2014, 5:06 am
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Replies: 42
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| I've never seen introverted alpha males. They're ALWAYS loud, obnoxious and quite obviously extroverted. If there's an "assertive" introvert in the crowd, their voice and behavior will always be trumped by a real alpha male, who has been an alpha male their whole life, and to whom it isn't some "le... |
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