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Forum: The Haven Topic: Say something positive about yourself. |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 19 Apr 2017, 11:07 am
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Replies: 2,644
Views: 290,553
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| I'm creative and can always come up with new ideas |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you think my former friend was rude to me? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2017, 7:48 am
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Replies: 15
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| I don't understand her intentions when she asked for your drink but then asked if you had spiked it. That doesn't make much sense to me but reading the rest of your post it sounds like she had mean intentions towards you. I definitely think she was trying to be rude to you. She certainly wasn't tryi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: suicide attempt at very early age |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 18 Apr 2017, 7:46 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 264
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| I had suicidal thoughts from a very young age as well and I'm sorry you suffered through them that young. No child should have to feel pain like that. I'm sorry to hear you're still having suicidal thoughts. Have you ever talked to a therapist or someone about your feelings? |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What are you eating?/Last thing you ate? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 15 Apr 2017, 7:03 pm
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Replies: 19,201
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: They're my friends so you can't hang out with them. |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 14 Apr 2017, 9:11 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 562
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| This seems pretty harsh and rude of your friends to me. Do they always treat you this way? It's not fair to you to be excluded from activities for no valid reason. |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Creative writing |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 14 Apr 2017, 9:07 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,100
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248RPA wrote: I used to create characters and spend the entire day imagining what they do. I've only recently started to write it down.
I do that a lot before I go to sleep. I imagine them interacting with other characters and certain situations. |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Creative writing |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 14 Apr 2017, 5:59 am
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Replies: 18
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That is interesting Kurando, I wish you luck on getting your books published.
My college doesn't offer any creative writing courses but I took one in high school and it was fun but very restrictive like you said. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What did you do today to look less autistic? |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2017, 6:41 pm
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Replies: 109
Views: 5,806
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| Today I actually used my voice to respond to someone instead of just staring blankly |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Creative writing |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2017, 6:39 pm
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Replies: 18
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| I know most people with Asperger's syndrome are stereotyped to be very literal and unimaginative but that doesn't fully describe me. One of my biggest interests is creative writing. I write short stories and poetry almost every day and I'd like to think its pretty imaginative. I was wondering if the... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Can never make a friend |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2017, 7:04 am
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Replies: 6
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| I tried that many times before but the psychiatrist still ignores me and treats me like im dumb and don't know anything. I'm looking to find a new one that's actually respectful. You're right about joining a club. I never thought about that. I think I will have better luck there |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Can never make a friend |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2017, 3:32 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Your mom needs to back off. Pushing you to make friends only backfires. You need a bit of a holiday from the friend-making. I guess she just wants me to be happy but I agree. If its not working stop forcing me to keep trying. Maybe it will happen on its own one day. I just feel like I'll never make... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Can never make a friend |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2017, 3:25 pm
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Replies: 6
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| I try really hard in real life to make friends due to my mom's constant pushing but it never works. I get so scared around people I squeak and run away and hide. My anxiety meds don't do crap and the doctor won't even listen to me she just pretends i'm not there and talks to me mom. I'm an adult for... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does this even mean?? |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2016, 7:54 am
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| I was talking to my mom about a job interview I have later today and for some reason she said "I can't do it for you." This really confused me because I did not ask her to or give any leads that I wish she could or I wanted her to? So I replied "I didn't ask you to though?" I sai... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Bad holiday depression |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2016, 6:43 am
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Replies: 4
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| Unfortunately yes, I never got the chance to do anything |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Bad holiday depression |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2016, 12:11 pm
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Replies: 4
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| Im already super depressed and being around family just makes me more depressed. I cant take it. The only person who kind of likes me in my family isn't going to be there so I'm going to be with a bunch of people who dont like me. I'm planning to jump in front of a moving train |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: There's This Girl... |
| aloofdeer |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2016, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 408
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| Start out small. Go up to her and politely say hello and introduce yourself to her. Maybe ask her if she enjoys the class. Ask her what her interests are and see if you have anything in common with her and go from there. She could be looking for a friend but may be too shy to ask. |
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