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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Holding grudges? |
| goldfish21 |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2014, 3:24 pm
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| I used to. My twin brother still does. I've reduced my symptoms big time, including my propensity to hold grudges. I've also read quite a few self-help books that have included some great passages about the power of forgiveness. Once you realize that holding a grudge and not forgiving someone ONLY h... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I want to make pizzas repetitively. |
| goldfish21 |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2014, 3:21 pm
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Replies: 8
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Go volunteer at your local food bank and sort/pack food hampers for Christmas & weekly grocery pickups.
Or go volunteer at a local homeless shelter/soup kitchen and prep/serve meals for those who need them. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: A man on a mission to cure Autism |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2014, 3:09 pm
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Replies: 64
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| my my, four pages and still no popcorn worthy flamewar, well done folks. though I guess without greg giving updates to take the discuttion forward you just reiterate the same conclusions of the matter thus far. That's because any of us who would actually have a conversation about this stuff or natu... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Does anyone else have this problem? |
| goldfish21 |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2014, 2:44 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Do you take any adhd meds? If so, you could be deficient in magnesium &/or sulphur. The solution for me has been to use an epsom salt lotion on my skin to absorb both. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Hug Stuff |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2014, 6:05 am
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For years I used to have one of those really long "body pillows" that I'd kinda hug as I fell asleep. Now I have 4 regular pillows on my bed and the heaviest memory foam one is the one I end up hugging as I fall asleep. Sooo, yeah, I guess I do. Otherwise I hug real people.  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Which Field of Entertainment do you NOT get? |
| goldfish21 |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2014, 5:56 am
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Replies: 77
Views: 4,809
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| I comprehend that some people find each of the things on your list entertaining or enjoyable, but for myself I don't really care about most of them very much. Movies & Television I put the tv on & it plays in the background, but I'm online reading something more interesting. I rarely ever wa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do "nice guys" care about gay girls? |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2014, 9:17 pm
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Replies: 31
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| ^That's what the effed up thing is. There are plenty of actual decent guys out there who are confident and get what they want out of life, but nobody will date them. It's not as black-and-white as "stop being nice because it means you are a wuss." Really? How contradictory of you to say s... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is self-diagnosis okay/valid/a good thing? |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2014, 7:40 pm
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Replies: 614
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B19 wrote: I don't make a habit of paying people to tell me what I already know... and whether you believe it really isn't material to me.
This, which apparently some pro-professional-diagnosis only people on these forums completely fail to grasp the concept of. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do "nice guys" care about gay girls? |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2014, 5:53 pm
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| They're probably just bitter about the age old cliches that "nice guys finish last," & that girls go for the "bad boy," types and then get all defensive about themselves, even to a gay girl, trying to highlight the pros that a "nice guy," like them has to offer. Mea... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Homelessness? |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2014, 5:44 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Glad to hear your situation has sort of worked itself out. When I was virtually homeless, I was able to move to a friend's place that was under massive renovations and live there for a year and a half trading my labour helping w/ the renos for a roof over my head. It worked out OK for me. I was very... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you enjoy the most? |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2014, 3:45 pm
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Replies: 10
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| I guess you can't edit posts w/ the new forum software. Here's an addition: Time with loved ones. Definitely one the things I cherish most in my life, whether it's my closest friend, one of my God kids, or another friend or family member.. I enjoy spending time with them to the fullest. I have a few... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you enjoy the most? |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2014, 2:40 pm
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| Kiteboarding or sex. It's a bit of a tossup which is most enjoyable.. but I'd probably pick kiteboarding 9 times out of 10 since it's not as easily obtained due to it's weather & location dependant nature. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The different gut bacteria in autistic individuals may be... |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2014, 2:35 pm
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Replies: 93
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| Im trying to stay away from the carbs to kill my candida. The candida gives you urges to eat sugar and carbs though! So very true. It's just gotta be a mind over matter thing.. you've got to decide that your health is worth much more than your cravings. If I find myself craving something a little, ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is self-diagnosis okay/valid/a good thing? |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2014, 7:32 pm
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| As I've been transparent about, I don't have an official diagnosis. I don't require one for anything in my life & don't really want one for the potential stigma (even if only self imposed) You would impose stigma on yourself if you got an official diagnosis...but not for a self-diagnosis? :?: P... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The different gut bacteria in autistic individuals may be... |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2014, 7:27 pm
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Replies: 93
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| Im trying to stay away from the carbs to kill my candida. The candida gives you urges to eat sugar and carbs though! So very true. It's just gotta be a mind over matter thing.. you've got to decide that your health is worth much more than your cravings. If I find myself craving something a little, ... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Song I'm really into at the moment: Alles Neu |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2014, 4:02 pm
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| "Everything New" by Peter Fox - it's in German, which I don't speak nor understand. I just really liked the music when I heard it.. then looked up the lyrics & like it WAY more. Seems to be a GREAT New Year's song, IMO. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DD0A2plMSVA Here are the lyrics in... |
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