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Forum: The Haven Topic: Being lonely, feeling unwanted, not knowing why |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 22 Aug 2011, 9:03 pm
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Aren't there normal, intelligent people who go to clubs without the sole intention of conning some idiot into sleeping with them? ... Can anyone offer suggestions of other places to go to meet people, and how to meet the first ones? I go to the weekly Anthropology Club meetings at my college. I hav... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: database software |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 22 Aug 2011, 8:13 pm
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Replies: 10 Views: 1,422
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If you are Mac user, this might be what you're looking for:
VooDooPad
Back when I had a Mac, I would type up encyclopedias about my special interests in VooDooPad. It's almost like having your own Wikipedia. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Do you consider yourself a good catch? |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 20 Aug 2011, 11:21 pm
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Replies: 97 Views: 2,029
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Grisha wrote: I've had women that I am hopelessly/irrationally infatuated with tell me that they thought I didn't even like them casually.
Yes, indeed. Me too. |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: I HAVE SOCIAL ANXIETY |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 20 Aug 2011, 11:10 pm
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Replies: 6 Views: 1,187
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Puzelle, you make some very good points. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Moog's say something Bointless and Poring thread |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 19 Aug 2011, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 595 Views: 32,024
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The Department of Wealth and Hellfare |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: I HAVE SOCIAL ANXIETY |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 19 Aug 2011, 7:40 pm
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Replies: 6 Views: 1,187
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Social anxiety is surprisingly varied. I'm perfectly fine in crowds and gatherings, as long as I can remain anonymous or impersonal. In fact I am a vary good public speaker. However, I fear anything intimate or casual. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What are your biggest phobias |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 19 Aug 2011, 7:35 pm
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Replies: 41 Views: 3,712
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Fear of wrongly concluding that I have a friend.
Fear of being inescapably pathetic.
Of course those things tie into my Social Phobia. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Do you consider yourself a good catch? |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 19 Aug 2011, 7:21 pm
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Replies: 97 Views: 2,029
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TeaEarlGreyHot wrote: I tend to push people away by being distant.
I am the Champion in that arena. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: does anyone feel annoying/clingy |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 19 Aug 2011, 7:13 pm
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Replies: 13 Views: 2,286
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I am clingy without showing it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What would be the worst place to take someone on a date? |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 19 Aug 2011, 7:02 pm
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Replies: 166 Views: 13,350
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sagan wrote: Church.
Fo' shizzle?
("Church" is part of Snoop Dog slang... strangely, that's what I first thought of when I read that.) |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Ragtime and Trad. Jazz |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 18 Aug 2011, 10:41 pm
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Also, Al Bowlly is one of my favourites among British pre-war jazz vocalists - are you a fan? I hadn't heard of him, but now that I've looked him up on Youtube, I can see why you're a fan. Generally, my taste in ragtime/trad. jazz bands, instrumentalists and composers is fairly mainstream: the 'Big... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Do melodies just come into your head? |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 18 Aug 2011, 10:19 pm
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Replies: 9 Views: 1,397
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I do that sometimes. Not often enough to call it a talent. But I do surprise myself with the quality of my spontaneous compositions once in a while.
I haven't heard that it's commonplace for AS.
Are you thinking of starting an All-Aspie Impromptu Chorus? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What would be the worst place to take someone on a date? |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 18 Aug 2011, 10:13 pm
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Replies: 166 Views: 13,350
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smudge wrote: TeaEarlGreyHot wrote: Nice restaurants really suck. How?
sempertemper wrote: I'm unable to detect anything even remotely romantic in watching someone eat.
Hilarious! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neurotypical Syndrome |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 16 Aug 2011, 9:17 pm
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Ragtime and Trad. Jazz |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 16 Aug 2011, 8:24 pm
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I used to listen to Elite Syncopations Radio on Live365. Mimi Blais has done a lot of ragtime recordings I like. It's been a while, so I can't remember any of the less-than-obvious names of composers. St. James Infirmary Blues stuck with me. There's more from Pre-1940 that I like: do you listen to a... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: After hours of handwringing... |
JohnOldman |
Posted: 16 Aug 2011, 6:29 pm
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Replies: 15 Views: 2,192
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Since I was about five years old, I felt displaced. I was unable to understand the system and, as a matter of fact: It hasn't changed a bit. I sympathize. Only recently have I realized that that's not what my life is supposed to be like. It helps a lot to know people who have had the same experienc... |
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