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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Does anyone here see sex for what it is? |
| Aristophanes |
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Posted: 30 Apr 2014, 7:42 am
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Replies: 36
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| The banging of sweaty pieces of meat together whilst making animal noises, weird smells, slime and stickiness? I seem to be one of the few people with this view. The only time my view on this changes, is when I'm aroused, like, really much so. Yes, that's the mechanics of it, but as you mentioned: ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My question is it possible for White Women and White Men as |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2014, 10:22 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,668
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Stargazer43 wrote: Some of the most famous white people in history had black hair...
Yeah like Adolf Hilter, lol. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why dating sites are BS |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2014, 12:36 pm
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Replies: 147
Views: 12,363
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| I guess. But I don't know about chatting them up on the spot though. I certainly don't want to be spoken by a stranger when I'm out shopping alone. I want to ask him where he saw me but he is half my age so I feel kinda icky to talk to him. Lol, you sexy cougar, you ;) I can understand not having a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why dating sites are BS |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2014, 7:45 am
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Replies: 147
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| I'm pretty sure it was just a coincidence that he saw me. But it has been my concern that people might recognize me from the site so I'm freaked out because it actually happened. I wonder if anybody had similar experience. Well I mean if you're on a dating site you're there to "put yourself on the ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I might be seeing someone, starting tomorrow. |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2014, 7:37 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 773
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| Good for you man, good for you. And yeah, if she doesn't want to play antiquated gender norms (buying her own coffee) that's cool too, at least you offered. I mean as long as you don't treat the girl like she's a hooker in a grand theft auto game you'll generally do well. |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Transposed music |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2014, 6:49 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 446
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| Transposition changes the timbre. Each instrument has several different timbres dependent on register. Say for example I have a violin play a melody that stretches from middle c up to c4-- the violin will sound fairly "meaty" and "thick." Now let's say I transposed it up a perfect fifth (now in the ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I might be seeing someone, starting tomorrow. |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2014, 8:13 pm
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Replies: 7
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| 1. realize she initiated, she's into you already so 2. show up and 3. buy her coffee. 4. Notice something about her you admire (clothes she wears, unique smile, etc) and compliment her on it. 5. Look her in the eyes when you're speaking. 6. Score, you've just mastered the art of a first coffee date ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not entirely sure I WANT a permanent relationship... |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2014, 7:54 pm
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Replies: 18
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| I concur with all the introvert aspies here. Would be nice to be in a LTR with a female but not have the social expectations of a "normal" relationship-- expected to show up to her social functions and vice-versa. I loathe social functions on my own, it would be hell having to double the frequency. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why dating sites are BS |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2014, 7:37 pm
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Replies: 147
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| Speaking of rejection messages, someone whose messages I didn't reply, sent me another one again saying that he saw me last night. He mentioned a specific town and I was there. I'm a bit creeped out. I wonder if he was following me. I went to two places and I don't know where exactly he saw me so n... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How did you learn to become independent? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2014, 8:59 am
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Replies: 38
Views: 1,763
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| I've said it before but force-flight situations have a hundred ways of backfiring and I can't imagine not despising my family if they tried that on me, fine -- i'll become independent (or I will die), but now I'm going to hate you, and use my newly-found independence to cut you off from my life, fo... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How did you learn to become independent? |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2014, 11:41 pm
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Replies: 38
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| The spartans still died off in the end. Also I did try to just go be independent kinda backfired, found many limitations and don't feel it made me a stronger person in any way. All it did was lead to me having to apply for SSI which is a s****y income(not complaining since at least its something to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why dating sites are BS |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2014, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 147
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| Yep, I'm on the western slope, >200 miles from any population areas of significant size. The bolded part of your post made me LOL. :) Yeah, Colorado is about the most unique place in this country in my opinion. We have hippies, yuppies, hillbillies, farmers, ranchers, Christian fundamentalists, Bud... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why dating sites are BS |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2014, 9:12 pm
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| Also good points. I think I would react the same way you describe if I got a "rejection letter" from someone I initiated contact with. Hmmn, perhaps I should re-think my plan. It truly may be better to get no answer than an "I'm not interested" message. Most males are taught to "not give up" and "p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I have a crush on my cousin?! |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2014, 8:46 pm
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Replies: 16
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| The problem as I see it is the fact that I can say with 99% accuracy that the cousin won't feel the same. It's not normal to be in love with your cousin. I feel this guy saying anything will ONLY do damage. For having a rank that says "all kinds of freak" I don't think you're being open minded enou... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How did you learn to become independent? |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2014, 7:20 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 1,763
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| Usually birds, teach their offspring to fly...like cats teach their offspring to hunt a mom cat doesn't just hunt for her kittens in private bring them food and then leave them to fend for themselves she teaches them first. Also its funny one would be put in the category of not being able to 'contr... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How did you learn to become independent? |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2014, 2:52 pm
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Replies: 38
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| The best strategy makes me think of tossing a baby bird out of the nest so it learns to fly. :lol: Really, you have to put yourself in a situation where only you will get a job done. You either learn to do it, or you don't. As you realize you are able to do something without someone holding your ha... |
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