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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do you have to 'play the game' esp. as a teen?

Posted: 23 Apr 2015, 3:45 pm 

Replies: 7
Views: 724


Seeing it as playing the game carries a notion of "I am going through artificial motions to get to a reward". It's practically a core ingredient for disillusion/resentment.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Aspie Lover - Delusions, Paranoia, Extreme Narcissism

Posted: 23 Apr 2015, 3:20 pm 

Replies: 12
Views: 1,606


I've yet to see a situation where ultimatums create a permanent solution. OP It's probably not my place to put forth this thought but I actually think the opposite of what Biostructure says. People should learn that there are consequences to treating others in inconsiderate, thoughtless ways, otherw...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: cheating

 Post subject: Re: cheating
Posted: 22 Apr 2015, 9:17 am 

Replies: 2
Views: 589


Rather than mentioning divorce, have you just told him flatly and plainly that even if he isn't interested, her advances make you exceedingly uncomfortable and that you'd like the friendship to end? Directness is the absolute best approach. Likely if he disagrees, you can just go over what cues she'...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Aspie Lover - Delusions, Paranoia, Extreme Narcissism

Posted: 22 Apr 2015, 1:34 am 

Replies: 12
Views: 1,606


Reasonably sure that's NPD, that sort of inflated ego isn't a characteristic of Asperger's. Good luck getting him to get that diagnosed though. If he is so great, and wants to be a leader so much, why hasn't he started his own business? That's one way to avoid turnover. All you need to do is pray he...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Online Dating Websites

 Post subject: Re: Online Dating Websites
Posted: 22 Apr 2015, 1:16 am 

Replies: 32
Views: 2,992


... wow, we're actually getting ads, so sad.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late?

Posted: 22 Apr 2015, 1:12 am 

Replies: 823
Views: 75,784


It's never too late, but you may want to examine yourself and see what you could tweak and improve. Trying different approaches may speed up the process, but AS just dread leaving their comfort zone to a pathological degree. And I'm actually glad we're sort of moving past the stupid gender roles and...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Home base sensory room for aspie girlfriend.

Posted: 22 Apr 2015, 12:23 am 

Replies: 10
Views: 1,207


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ysWUYR4bdmA

Bubble wrap works for me. May not for others.
Soap bubbles too.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: I need some relationship advice please...

Posted: 21 Apr 2015, 4:52 pm 

Replies: 6
Views: 659


What really struck me was that he said not seeing me for two weeks was no big deal. For me, seeing him only once a week is already a big deal. I want to be able to see him everyday when we get home from work/school/errands... First thing: The wisdom teeth are something of serious concern, if he won...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do you have to 'play the game' esp. as a teen?

Posted: 21 Apr 2015, 3:16 am 

Replies: 7
Views: 724


I don't know this girl nor your exact circumstances so I can't tell you what to do, but I do know stuff you should probably avoid. It's 'the dating game' that messes me up, though. It makes me feel doubtful and unconfident. I'd say framing this entire thing as "The dating game" is a danger...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Break Ups

 Post subject: Re: Break Ups
Posted: 20 Apr 2015, 11:40 pm 

Replies: 20
Views: 1,237


Keep moving, whether it's by being busy with work, social life or exercise. The endorphins from exercise really help. If you want to make changes to yourself this is a good time. For most people completely cutting off the ex is the best option, in my case I'm still friends with half of them so it's ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Toxic Masculinty

 Post subject: Re: Toxic Masculinty
Posted: 20 Apr 2015, 12:58 am 

Replies: 311
Views: 9,338


I'm not skirting around the issue. I don't belong to whatever elite cabinet of ultra-feminists you think exists, so I can't tell you where to look for their perspective on Rihanna's issues. Do you read the things you write? Nerdy men, a modern day slave caste? Lying in the jungle? I hope you realiz...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to choose between two girls?

Posted: 19 Apr 2015, 9:00 pm 

Replies: 93
Views: 2,792


People of both gender do that when it comes to dating, sadly. And it's pretty common, this doesn't exist only on this forum, it's everywhere. Yeah and I've always either distanced myself from that behaviour or just outright denounced it no matter what. I'd rather be alone than to surround myself wi...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to choose between two girls?

Posted: 19 Apr 2015, 12:56 pm 

Replies: 93
Views: 2,792


If a man here calls the stereotypical woman as starfish, you would line up calling him sexist. I would've gone with Renaissance painting but I can relate to those a bit more.... even more so Surrealist paintings. Is it an insult if I call someone an xbox console? In either case, I was going for ali...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to choose between two girls?

Posted: 19 Apr 2015, 5:27 am 

Replies: 93
Views: 2,792


...that will give me plenty of time to better get to know the girl from the lodge, who's nice in other ways, such as being thinner, cuter and best of all, she doesn't want kids :) If you'd have wanted to get to know her you would have done so by now. Honestly, if all I had to go on was this forum, ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Toxic Masculinty

 Post subject: Re: Toxic Masculinty
Posted: 19 Apr 2015, 5:18 am 

Replies: 311
Views: 9,338


^ You are so oversimplifying the human being; the comforts you are talking about are all very recent on the human history scale. One could argue suggesting ape social structure being transferrable as is to humans is doing the oversimplification. Sure our changes are recent but they are really far-r...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: How to choose between two girls?

Posted: 18 Apr 2015, 11:36 pm 

Replies: 93
Views: 2,792


...that will give me plenty of time to better get to know the girl from the lodge, who's nice in other ways, such as being thinner, cuter and best of all, she doesn't want kids :) If you'd have wanted to get to know her you would have done so by now. Honestly, if all I had to go on was this forum, ...
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