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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do people tell you that you act childish often |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2011, 12:10 pm
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| Lol..just today I went to the park with my silly friends while it was early and very few people here. There was a very sturdy playground set there and we spent like 20 minutes climbing,swinging,and sliding like we did when we were little kids. If there were many there I'm sure I would have gotten a ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't think it's so much about being a 'nice' guy/girl |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2011, 7:38 am
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Replies: 2
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| As it is knowing exactly where to draw the line between being nice, and becoming assertive and standing up for yourself. I don't know about you,but for me this is usually much easier said than done.I'm doing better but I still got a long way to go. I still get people telling me that I should have be... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Protein and weight loss |
| gtw1983 |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2011, 9:06 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,860
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| I just calculated how many grams of protein I need at my current weight. If I am trying to lose a lot of weight, how would I calculate how many I need instead (I am just assuming the number I got from my first calculation was what I would eat if I was trying to maintain the weight I have now?) Hmmm... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When I kiss guys, i don't really feel anything??? |
| gtw1983 |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2011, 5:32 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I suppose I wouldnt be hugely attracted to them, but because of me being an Aspie or a "weirdo" to people, I'm always paired up with a creepy guy on a nite out. So I would make out with them anyway, coz I'm not really in a position to reject them, but I never feel anything when I make out? So shoul... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: NT's and fashion... |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2011, 5:14 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Being fashionable to me is kinda just another way of saying I want to copy others and dress boring like everyone else. My own wardrobe seems pretty drab to me right now (AKA Average/Plain).But that's mainly cause I have no money,and buying cheap clothes from Walmart keeps me from running around nake... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What comparisons would you use to help a NT understand AS? |
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Posted: 28 Aug 2011, 12:14 pm
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Replies: 3
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| For me when it comes to social interaction I would liken it firstly to a newer cars automatic driving,against an older manual. The first just operates naturally without user input.While a conscious effort is required for the latter otherwise there will be serious issues. Or I might compare it to a m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A 'Wierd' person is often also a 'Sexy' person? |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2011, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 11
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| In my world it has always been like this. I was the type in school to listen to the other guys fawn over the blond,big breasted Cheerleader,or the newest playboy playmate of the month Don't get me wrong these women are physically attractive in their own way.Like in a one night stand lusty kind of wa... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you ever resent your Neurotypical Siblings ? |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2011, 7:03 pm
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Replies: 15
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| I have done this a good bit. Feel ashamed to say this,but I have a secret inner resentment and dislike of my 10 years younger brother just from him being himself. He has always been a pretty outgoing guy,and has a very big circle of friends even though he's only 18.He's also naturally very charming ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The more I read about Female Psychology....... |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2011, 11:14 am
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Replies: 12
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| The more I realize why some male Aspies find relationships so difficult if not darn near impossible. Women seem to put a lot more weight into emotions and the way they relate to their lives than men. Thats why men so often think women are crazy or way overacting,and women sometimes describe men as s... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you have Speech problems? |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2011, 11:05 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,138
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| This is a problem I have struggled with for a long time. Not only is it very hard for me to both focus on conversations and come up with decent replies in a reasonable way.But when it does come out it may be stuttery,shaky,or monotone sounding because I have a difficult time putting emotions behind ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: venting and complaining about women |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2011, 10:09 pm
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Replies: 102
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| Is this what this forum has come to? I think so. Meh..it kinda seems human nature to complain and need to vent about things.It's a form of stress relief. But the great thing is that seeing as these are forums and not RL,being away from it is as easy as clicking the 'back' button in your browser if ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I would date you if I were single.... |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2011, 3:54 pm
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Replies: 53
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| I am hearing such things from taken girls (real life, not online) or sometimes older women all my life: "I would date you if I were single" "I'd envy whoever become your girlfriend" "I envy your future wife" "Your girlfriend would be a lucky" "There's nothing missing about you, any girl would want ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Going through the motions... |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2011, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Is it just me, or does anyone else feel as though they're just going through the motions when in a relationship? I don't mean that I don't care deeply about, possibly even love, the person I'm with. Rather, I'm talking about doing things because they're expected and everyone else seems to do them. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I would date you if I were single.... |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2011, 3:34 pm
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Replies: 53
Views: 9,835
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| I am hearing such things from taken girls (real life, not online) or sometimes older women all my life: "I would date you if I were single" "I'd envy whoever become your girlfriend" "I envy your future wife" "Your girlfriend would be a lucky" "There's nothing missing about you, any girl would want ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I would date you if I were single.... |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2011, 3:33 pm
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Replies: 53
Views: 9,835
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| I am hearing such things from taken girls (real life, not online) or sometimes older women all my life: "I would date you if I were single" "I'd envy whoever become your girlfriend" "I envy your future wife" "Your girlfriend would be a lucky" "There's nothing missing about you, any girl would want ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I be concerned that I can't truthfully really say.... |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2011, 9:43 am
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Replies: 15
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| I love people, but I've never been loved back (except by my friends and family.) I've certainly never felt a romantic love. That's probably why I'm so depressed all the time. Ouch..it sounds like you have some of the same problems I do. I am truly sorry to hear that man.I do understand affection so... |
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